Evangelizing to the Homeless
Published July 14, 2009 @ 06:29AM PT

When you order a meal you expect to be asked some junk like "do you want fries with that?" But what if you are homeless and you line up for a feed and someone starts trying to tell you about what church they go to or what God they worship?
When you check into a hotel you expect to have to tip service staff. But what if you check into a homeless shelter and the people there don't want you to tip them, they want you to attend their church and believe in their God?
What if you go to the Doctor with a wounded foot and she wants to give you a hair cut instead of healing your foot? What if you lacked shelter and those with the resources to provide housing were more interested in housing your soul in their church than meeting your needs as you see them?
If you don't know how running a homeless service and running a church could possibly relate to each other - you have not been homeless. Street life and homelessness involves putting up with evangelization. There is no way for ‘the great unwashed' to avoid it.
It makes me question the true agenda of some Christian service providers.
I wonder if some of these services are just a disguise and the principal agenda has nothing to do with what homeless people want, but what the religious group wants.
Are service providers that allow or even encourage evangelization to the homeless chasing sexy souls? Are they abusing the significant position of power they have? I'd say yes to both, and think it's a disgusting abuse of power.
Reading this far you may think I'm without faith. Not so, I'm Catholic and I've had a Catholic Arch Bishop accompany me during outreach to learn about homelessness. He wore civilian clothing- no cross or priest's collar- and introduced himself simply by his first name (not his title). He put the gospel into action not words and was there to learn. On another night a Catholic Bishop accompanied me, he took the same approach of learning.
Those with power often believe their world view is right and should be shared by those without power. Institutional and structural power has long been abused in this way. Credit to those with the humility to know better.
Today, homeless people in many countries are evangelized to, treated as ignorant sinners who if only they turn to God ‘x' and attend church ‘y' then all would be OK. Some are pressured or even forced to attend church services if they want welfare assistance. This is wrong and should not be tolerated.
U.S. President Obama and I are both left handed. Our brains literally work differently to right handed people. While we both know being left handed is best for us, we can't assume it is best for others. People find their handedness through normal human development... through finding their own way in life.
To enforce that left handedness is the correct and best way would be making an assumption based on my own world view. It doesn't matter if the most powerful man in the land happens to share that world view and life experience.
In Social Work circles we talk about self determination a client centered approach and empowerment to help facilitate the client deciding what is right for them based on their own life experiences and world view.
As a left handed Catholic Social Worker, I can't assume what is right for you - be you a homeless person or any other designation like right handed. My power as a Social Worker should not be abused while working with vulnerable people with one hand and beating them over the head with the other about my religious views. That would be an abuse of power.
If you have had religion forced upon you by a service provider please name and shame them in the comments section.
If you are a Christian like me and aren't sure how you feel about this post, think for a minute if an Islamic service provider was given the same funding and license to provide services to homeless people and evangelize to them that many Christian service providers are given? What about a Church of Scientology service provider? Would that be an abuse of power? Is it okay for your vulnerable countryman to be taken advantage of and pushed around by any religious group?
Point is it's not about the religion we belong to or don't... or the church you or I go to or don't. When service providers use their position of power to recruit people to their religion it's an abuse of power and not right.
Sadly this abuse of power is widespread in many countries.
For those who would hold up freedom of speech and freedom of religion (I'm with you on those fronts) - this is different. I'm not talking about ‘freedom of,' I'm talking about abuse of power.
Any homeless person can tell you the fastest way to get what you need from a service provider is to tell them what they want to hear and mirror whatever beliefs they hold up for everyone to admire them for, if that includes going to their church services... it's well known that gets you a better slice of the pie and advantage with the workers who make decisions about your situation.
It's like letting them keep you as a pet for their own amusement and fulfillment and it works, because it's about addressing their needs and wants.
If you are in that position where power is being abused:
- Name it to their face when you can. "So if I go to the church service you want me to - what favorable treatment does that get me and how am I disadvantaged if I don't attend?"
You take back power by naming it. You take back power by holding a mirror to abuse of power. Make them articulate the abuse of power and deny to your face that they are abusing power and trying to impose their religious beliefs on you.
The other empowering tactic is to:
- Learn what makes them tick and then turn the tables and manipulate them for everything and anything you can get out of them while playing their silly game. You know what they want, use it to get what you want by turning the tables on them. Now you have the power.
I feel very strongly about the abuse of power by religious motivated service providers, as do those on the other side of the issue.
What is your take on abuse of power by homeless service providers wanting to further another agenda- religious or otherwise?
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Dominic Mapstone is a Social Worker who has worked with homeless people since 1994. He is Director of Rebeccas Community, an Australian non-profit, and admin at the International Homeless Forum. He is biased entirely in favor of the street homeless perspective. He enjoys long walks on the beach so long as there is fishing involved.
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I see your point, but I don't think your analogy to left-handedness is convincing. For many religious people, belief isn't a world view that's right for some people and not for others - it's a matter more important than life and death.
There are clearly situations where attempts to convert become coercive - there's a difference between encouraging someone to attend a service and refusing them food unless they attend (the latter probably isn't a very effective evangelizing technique either). But to expect people not to act on the major tenents of their faith is unreasonable.
That said, the state can reasonably prohibit organizations it supports from actively proselytizing. Of course, where that line is drawn is a hard decision - I don't think someone wearing a cross or head-scarf while working with the homeless enfringes on anyone's dignity or rights.
As an aside, where's the picture from? Jews don't do much proselytizing, so I'm not sure it's the best choice to illustrate the post. It also wouldn't be possible for a religious Jew to remove his kipa and tzitzis like your bishop did.
Posted by Simon Cox on 07/14/2009 @ 08:21AM PT
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I didn't select the picture, and take your point.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/14/2009 @ 07:38PM PT
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Who else would bother to care about the homeless and people in general except "Spirit filled" individuals? I doubt if anyone is denied food if they don't go along with the program.
Posted by Carol O'Neill on 07/18/2009 @ 07:12AM PT
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What an egocentric view. Christians don't own (nor did they invent) brotherly love.
In his "Rhetoric", Aristotle (384 BC – 322 BC) defines the activity involved in philia (brotherly love) as:
"wanting for someone what one thinks good, for his sake and not for one's own, and being inclined, so far as one can, to do such things for him".
Posted by C D on 07/18/2009 @ 10:07AM PT
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I am a Christian, well i at least strive to be more Christ like. When i helped my old Church on a bus rout to bring the under privelidged children to church, it wasnt to sell them religion, or sell them Jesus, it was a mini vaca away from the slum they live in. They all had fun and were introduced to morals, self government, food , moon walks , but most importantly Jesus Christ who paid for their sins and cannot be sold to them. The good book clearly says it is a gift, so all man can know him. Im not tryin to judge you or anyone, that is not my, nor any other Christians job.." judge not lest ye be judged by same means and measures" .. im just sayin.
you make it sound like a bad thing that when i buy a homeless man a meal, the meal is just a representation of a gift , a gift from my heart, kind of a smaller scale of a gift than the one our heavenly father gave, when he sent his son to die on a cross brutally and innocently for my sins.
they get the meal whether or not they let me talk to them about the Gift of life, you see the gift is in giving, and my job , my only job is to go ye there for and teach unto all nations, including my own.
"behold I stand at the door and knock...... "
it bothers me that people strow stones at a meal giver rather than jump in line and serve the needy with us, and fyi their need is truely not a meal to get them through the night its a quick explanation on how to live forever, all meals will be comped by the Maker Himself (:))
Posted by freedom of smoke why on 07/18/2009 @ 12:56PM PT
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freedom to smoke why - I'd put money on you being able to rant religious drivel at will for hours on end. You really should consider contacting the good people at Guinness World Records.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/18/2009 @ 01:13PM PT
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I agree with Dominic. Proselytizing is an abuse of power, particularly as those with the power also have something (food) that the power-poor not only want, but need.
Surely the really Christian / spiritual thing would be to give, humbly, without need to receive anything back. As Jesus said, really.
In my experience, in the UK, mostly, workers in Christian organisations do not proselytize, nowadays, as much as they did 150 years ago.
Jackie Carpenter, UK
Posted by Jackie Carpenter on 07/19/2009 @ 01:46PM PT
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Dominic, do you have any questions that i could answer for you or find out the answer by someone much wiser than i?? i dont know enough to rant for hours, but if it meant me conversing with someone for hours or days, if there was a chanch for me to plant a seed in their heart to want to love the Lord i would gladly "rant" or at least be as good a witness as i could.
God bless you for your good compliment, but i still have so much to learn, and couldnt quote hours of scripture and even come close to being put into the book of world records, id have to work so hard to get into that book.... however i very easily got put into The Lambs Book of Life, quite simply by asking for forgivness for my sins and accepting Jesus into my heart (:)) thank ya for the opportunity to spread the gospel to a stranger with eternity at stake. i will do my best to be a good witness and to love all
Posted by freedom of smoke why on 07/19/2009 @ 11:03PM PT
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FoSW, it is obvious to me that you have never gone hungry or needed a place to stay. If you did, you would understand the starkly uneven power dynamics that Dominic is talking about between the person in need of these things and the person in the position to provide them. Jesus would never take advantage of a person's vulnerable state to give them the lowdown on everlasting life if he didn't sense that they were up to it, and he would certainly be sensitive enough to tell if they were just tolerating the sermon to get those things s/he needed. Until you gain a little empathy through first-hand experience (God forbid) or (preferably)through a more astute, less self-absorbed look at the messages of the gospels, I must ask that you consider leaving off the proselytizing with these poor peeps.
Posted by Samantha Cook on 07/20/2009 @ 02:39AM PT
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a meal should not be used to preach to the vulnerable. PERIOD. There's always strings attached, isnt' there? Jesus would not approve.
Posted by CherokeeGirl for Change on 07/28/2009 @ 10:50AM PT
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what about this scripture?
"let not the right hand know what the left hand is doing" when Jesus was asked about charity and giving.
Let me translate for you "christians", give for the sake of giving, do not blackmail people to do what you want just because you are feeding them.
Posted by CherokeeGirl for Change on 07/29/2009 @ 10:54AM PT
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Each person is gifted in a particular manner. It is those talents that we are to use according to Holy Scripture. It's not about what religion you are or the works you do. It's all about G-d's Spirit being alive in you that would draw people to Him (John 6:44).
The Ark Association is a 501(c)3 nonprofit in Detroit, MI. Our outreach to individuals who are homeless is completely based upon building relationships through expression of G-d's love in action and not words. This is according to the Word of G-d found in several places. For examples read Isaiah 58 and Matthew 25 - neither speaks of preaching first. We pray over the food that is served but do not preach. We distribute free clothing to the guests at our tables. Many of our volunteers have been in lines similar to these before. We have an understanding. My co-founder, David Kalita, has stated that to reach a hungry man, you must first feed him and satisfy his hunger before his soul is open to hear anything.
Many years ago, while doing street ministry in Dallas, TX, the Holy Spirit enlightened me to exactly what was written. People will pray or say anything they think you want them to to get want they are requiring that day; whether it be food, fellowship, money, or freedom from guilt and shame. I was warned not to give out "false hope" and tell them they are "saved" after saying a prayer. Only G-d knows the heart of man and their true intention. The Word states our hearts can be so wicked as to decieve even ourselves. WOW!! That's powerful.
Jesus provided the example when He told of the shepherd who would go out after the one. It is all about the relationship, no matter how long or short it is. Relationships are about meeting someone, sharing where they are at, and walking with them across the bridge to where they need to go in their journey. We each have our own path and as we lean not on our own understanding, G-d is faithful to direct our steps (Proverbs 3:5-6).
I used to wonder why people didn't want what I was shoving down their throats. It grieved me when they would puke it back out in repulsion. I thought I was doing the right thing. I wanted them to experience the wondrous love I had received in the gift of salvation through Christ's precious death and the power of His resurrection alive in my life! I was misinformed by meaningful people in the process. It's not my job to save... it's not my job to prepare the heart to receive... it is my job to "share" my experience, strength, and hope when asked (I Peter 3:15).
I appreciate the post and increasing the awareness. Many of the individuals that are homeless have an intimate relationship with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. They know Him and He knows their name. Christ came to show us The Way... now we are to walk in it through obedience!
Just an FYI for Simon: In the USA, the state does not support all homeless shelters and, therefore, cannot prohibit the act of proselytizing. That is why we were started... freedom to express our religion as we see fit! G-d help those around the world who act in vanity and blasphemy in regards to doing things in "the name of G-d!" (Spelling is correct and in consideration of Judaic beliefs.)
Posted by Karen Gates on 07/14/2009 @ 01:16PM PT
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Organizations have been pushing their religious agendas upon the poor in the US for decades.
Did you know hobos (yes, they were legitimately called hobos) used to call the Salvation Army the "Starvation Army?" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Salvation_Army -
There's a song that pokes at organized religion and preaching to the poor, "The Preacher and the Slave," by Joe Hill (1911).
http://www.pbs.org/wnet/getupstandup/music_preacher2.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Preacher_and_the_Slave
Long-haired preachers come out every night,
Try to tell you what's wrong and what's right;
But when asked how 'bout something to eat
They will answer in voices so sweet
You will eat, bye and bye,
In that glorious land above the sky;
Work and pray, live on hay,
You'll get pie in the sky when you die
And the Starvation Army they play,
And they sing and they clap and they pray,
Till they get all your coin on the drum,
Then they tell you when you're on the bum
Holy Rollers and Jumpers come out
And they holler, they jump and they shout
Give your money to Jesus, they say,
He will cure all diseases today
If you fight hard for children and wife-
Try to get something good in this life-
You're a sinner and bad man, they tell,
When you die you will sure go to hell.
Workingmen of all countries, unite
Side by side we for freedom will fight
When the world and its wealth we have gained
To the grafters we'll sing this refrain
You will eat, bye and bye,
When you've learned how to cook and how to fry;
Chop some wood, 'twill do you good
Then you'll eat in the sweet bye and bye
The chorus is sung in a call and response pattern.
You will eat
[You will eat]
bye and bye
[bye and bye]
In that glorious land above the sky
[Way up high]
Work and pray
[Work and pray]
live on hay
[live on hay]
You'll get pie in the sky when you die
[That's a lie!]
Posted by Marissa Pherson on 07/14/2009 @ 03:20PM PT
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In Australia the Salvation Army is called the Salvos, but yes, they are also called the Starvation Army on the streets. Their services here are less evangelical and more professional typically.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/15/2009 @ 12:53AM PT
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Yep, because most Aussies don't put up with bible thumpers trying to sell the homeless on the idea that there's a sky daddy that will feed their souls and bellies if they can only mend their ways; I mean, why else are the homeless without a home? They must be unrepentant sinners with souls that need a savin', right? If it's not the Governments fault, and it's not god's fault, then it must be the fault of the individual homeless man or woman.
I'm an Aussie, and I work at a Shelter in Colorado USA, and there in no proselytizing allowed, and I say AMEN TO THAT! I wouldn't work in any shelter that tries to get their hooks into the most vulnerable members of society, exploiting them when they are at their most susceptible, but what the heck, that's what they-the religious-do best.
PS
God must love homelessness, he sure allows enough of it; I guess he allows it so the pious can proclaim their piety from the roof tops no doubt
;-)
PPS
Having lived in America for over four years, I can truly say that a large percentage of Americans still believe in God, it is their patriotic duty to do so, just like it is for the North Koreans to worship their "great" deified leader.
If you are not a believer in America, then you simply must be an ax wielding psychotic who deserves to be homeless, or in prison, where they would like to see most Atheists by the way.
I really don't care that Jesus said the " the poor will always be with us," Jesus was an idiot who didn't say much good about anything, and the fact that the above quote is in the bible, and said to be the words of the "Messiah"...well...let me just say...this makes the rich Christians feel great about themselves, because it gives them a license not to lift a finger to help, after all, Jesus himself implies that the poor are never going to go away, so why bother? And God will take care of them anyways, will he not?
For any Christian that wants to respond to me, don't bother, I have heard every sugar coated argument used by you guys to make your monstrous god out to be a saint; I used to be a Christian, I know all the tricks of your trade, I just grew up and grew out of all that nonsense, it's called getting and education.
And as an Atheist who works toward the ideal of ending Homelessness, I don't have an agenda for doing so, other than to help alleviate the suffering. I don't do "good deeds" in the hope of reaching Nirvana, Heaven, or god damn Shangri la; I do it because it is the human thing to do, the humane thing to do. God is dead.
Posted by T C on 07/18/2009 @ 06:17AM PT
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Tazzie,
I respect your opinion and your right to be an Atheist. The only part of your post that I would like to comment on is the first paragraph. I think homelessness and suffering exists because one we live in a fallen world that is corrupt and greedy and in all I blame myself, someone who happens to be a Christian. It isn't the fault of the individual that they are in a plight of suffering but it is the responsibility of mankind to help alleviate that suffering; so, in answer to your "why are they without a home" I answer that it's because we, I, have done a lousy job of helping those who are suffering. I know you probably support this stance but your inference appeared to me to suggest that most faith believing individuals feel their plight is a result of sin, lack of trying, any number of other issues. There are those out there who do believe that; however, for me, I know the buck stops with me...Christian or not.
Posted by Jennifer Turner on 07/18/2009 @ 07:21AM PT
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Kudos Tazzie! Great comment!
Posted by C D on 07/18/2009 @ 10:12AM PT
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I have been homeless for a little more than a year here in Savannah, Ga., and religion is a dominant theme in almost all services provided to the people of unfortunate circumstances such as I am in. However, policies and personnel of those participating organizations are rarely religiously oriented.
For this thread I will speak to the organization called: Inner City Night Shelter 124 Arnold St., Savannah, GA 31401
They provide dinner for around 100 each night, showers, clothing, and subsidized laundry facilities for poor during the day.
After the dinner is cleaned up, homeless are invited to stay the night, but first on Monday - Friday they are subjected to mandatory religious services (subject to availability of speakers). Without actually promoting their religious affiliations, the speakers are no-doubt Southern Baptists who spend about an hour each evening providing services. Over the past year I have heard over and over again about the sins of alcohol, drug, tobacco, and homosexuality.
I have seen revival type healings (in chant), heard of the evils of television, and even one speaker (who happens to head the mission) ask God to abort any child of someone who consumes alcohol.
The Mission states frequently that it is "an emergency shelter", even though while we waiting to get let in for services or bed have stood outside in temperatures of 100+, 30-, torrential rains, and through several tornado warnings.
The services and cleanup will almost always push back the final entrance to the shelter past 8pm nightly and sometimes to 9pm, when mandatory showers begin for the 40 + - men who have predominately blankets on the floor to sleep on. Showers (there are two available) may be taken up until 11pm but are usually completed by 10:30.
However, no matter what time the night may end, it begins the next morning 7 days a week at 5am with waking up to bright lights and yelling to get up and get out (by 5:30). It is this policy that I point to specifically when i refer to policies not based on religious fundamentals. The building sits vacant (except for staff) then from 6am (after the cleanup crew finishes) until 9am when showers and laundry services are available. Unless you were absolutely the first person in for the night and rushed through a 5 minute shower hit the floor for bed and fell right asleep, you have no chance at a 8 hour sleep...ever...362 days this year... (there were 3 mornings when they said it was too cold to send us out..(below 30 degrees) and we could sleep in til 6 30 or so on those days).
But back to the topic. I couldn't have put it better in describing the relation between the needs of homeless services and the mandatory religious settings. When Karen Gates suggested that they "puke it back", I agree that to you the passing on of the gifts that are available to the believers such as yourself can be a comfort once in awhile to an individual's soul, and I believe it is not just your duty to God, but to the person you are trying to help to make the religious option available to them, and I applaud you for it. However, from what I read on your post, the people here in Savannah go way beyond that, so far beyond that the mandatory services are an intrusion not only of our time, sleep (which is what we came there for), and religious liberties.
Posted by Charles Donley on 07/15/2009 @ 07:54AM PT
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I agree with Charles Donley's observation of his personal experience. The final line is a powerful posting. Our whole purpose at The Ark Association is to show God's love in meeting needs as a result of our compassion and we are not a faith-based organization. Christ never made anyone listen to or follow Him. He is our example in that He provided for the people's needs, healed when moved by compassion, and laid down His life in love. He made His faith known and showed how to walk in it.
Charles Donley's post is exactly why we operate in a different manner. Our hope is to open the Daniel Doyle Community Resource Center in Detroit. This facility will have 24 hour access so there is someplace to go during the hours other facilities are closed. I have also written a program designed to conform to the individuals' needs. Other programs make the participants conform to their qualifications and agendas. Too many programs and facilities only tend to the immediate need. There must be an opportunity to address core issues or the "fix" is only a symptomatic band-aid.
May people of compassion be moved to assist the Charles Donley's of the world with the Love of Christ!!!
Posted by Karen Gates on 07/15/2009 @ 09:44AM PT
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I agree with the point of the article but have to agree with Simon that the left hand analogy doesn't work.
I work at two different community meals designed for the homeless, lonely and poor in the community, here in Melbourne, Australia. One meal begins with a very relaxed prayer, the second doesn't. Both are run by Christians (disciples of Jesus - as I am) and the aim of both meals is not to evangelize or proselytize. Both meals were begun because a need was identified to provide a good healthy meal.
Besides the prayer, and the fact that both meals are served in church halls, there are no efforts at all to evangelize, pray or convert our guests.
We do however, strive to provide a meal and safe space for families and individuals who are struggling. Our guests know that the meals are run by Christians and that if requested we will pray with them. Many know when the church meets and yes, we have had many guests come to worship with us.
Our motivation for providing these meals and meeting the need is to live out the love shown to us by God by serving others. This is what drives our guests to come to worship or seek out prayer.
I hear from many of our guests the frustration they have with other meals that show a video or try hard to proselytize before sharing a meal. I also hear the frustration and anger that they have when dealing with both Christian and secular agencies who provide (or not) services, treating these folk as third class citizens, numbers, with problems to tick off on a form.
I am currently wrestling with a post for my blog about the demise of soup kitchens. And yes, that explores the fact that many churches use these provisions as a means of power. In fact, churches that provide meals on the nights we don't are subject to this issue. It is often done because they must be seen to do something, or 'have to" - not for love of these folk.
Lastly, one thing that I come up against constantly when speaking about the meals at churches and other community events, is the stigma that these meals (and the homeless for that matter) have. A stigma from a stereo-type that has emerged from the depression era and fostered by the media.
Great post Dominic and while agree with much of what you write, I argue that there are alternatives, and I am happy to be part of them.
Posted by Neal Taylor on 07/15/2009 @ 06:26PM PT
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Hey Dom. Great article. I once went to a free dinner that turned out to be served only after we had to sit through a church service. I didn't get a meal because I left and never returned. I've been to other community suppers where the meal was served first and then if I wished, I could stay to attend a service that was not mandatory. I stayed for the service and returned again. I see it as the same as when panhandling and someone holds out a $20 bill and asks, "What are you going to do with this?" My answer, "Keep your f****ng money. I don't need your conditions attached to it." One of the only true benefits of being homeless is FREEDOM and no asshole is going to take that away from me too.
Posted by Ron Craven on 07/17/2009 @ 07:21AM PT
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I understand where you're coming from here, and freedom is important, but when people give money, they want to see it put to good use. Giving someone a 20 and then seeing them walking out of a liquor store is extremely frustrating. We want to help feed you, not feed an alcoholic addiction.
A friend of mine gave all the change in her pocket to help someone, and when he went and bought booze, she was heartbroken. She hates suffering and especially starvation, and seeing her pocket change wasted like that was too much for her.
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/17/2009 @ 10:07AM PT
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Mike Conway, who are you to decide what is "wasted"? Can a homeless person not decide how they would like to relax like a homed person? Maybe the person your friend gave her money to had experienced a lot of generosity that day and decided to use the extra money to entertain him/herself. Or maybe it had been an especially hard day and s/he wanted to relax, as I often relax with a drink after a hard day in my own home. Why is a homeless person any different, because there is a stereotype that they are all drunks? Even IF they are one of the homeless people who do abuse drugs or alcohol (who, contrary to popular belief, usually begin their habit AFTER they become homeless as a way to cope with the extreme hardships they are faced with), I would rather give money to someone and have them use that to support their habit than see them steal from someone else to do it.
Posted by eden hemming on 07/17/2009 @ 01:12PM PT
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Eden,
It's like this - food is a necessity. You need it to survive. Period. You don't eat, your body eventually stops working.
Booze is not necessary for either survival or relaxation, and getting liquored up certainly doesn't enable you to take on your problems by any degree. It just adles your brain and makes you useless to everyone, especially yourself. There's better ways of dealing with your problems, regardless of income level.
Not that I'm opposed to a drink now and again, myself.
I wouldn't put it past someone to take in a movie (dollar theater is ideal) or even go into a resteraunt and have a piece of pie. Movies can be relaxation and even pie has nutirents.
But booze is not a necessity, and kills, too. I don't want to waste my money on something that's going to kill someone.
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/17/2009 @ 01:29PM PT
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Eden Hemming,
My personal opinion:
You clearly do not understand addiction to alcohol. You are basically saying that you would rather give that person a noose to commit suicide rather than give him the opportunity to steal one from some one else.
My father is an alcoholic, and from personal exposure to up to 50 different alcoholic lives (my father's friends and my relatives), I think I've had enough exposure to understand it. Anyone who tells you they just drink to relax is in the denial stage of their addiction. There are other ways to relax. Saying alcohol is for relaxation is just an excuse. Alcohol is little more than a way for the rich to control the poor.
Again, this is my personal opinion. To the best of my research, Christianity only condemns getting drunk.
I hope you'll forgive my emotional expression of my opinion, but too much of my family's and friends' lives have been destroyed from addiction to that ethanol.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/17/2009 @ 01:41PM PT
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Chris Meacham, "Anyone who tells you they just drink to relax is in the denial stage of their addiction." ...You do realize you just called me an alcoholic, right? In fact, I have drunk alcohol with homeless people that I was friends with several times; only one of them had a problem with alcohol and I was not the only one present to recognize that, even though I was the only person with a home. To lump every homeless person under that heading is to insult them.
Mike Conway, again I ask you, who are you to decide what that person does with their life? How would you like it if your employer got to decide for you what you could do with your money and would not let you entertain yourself in the way that you saw fit to in that moment? Why do you think homeless people are so much lower than you that they must be forced to be in pure survival mode at all times? Why do you assume that a homeless person is getting "liquored up" as opposed to maybe buying a bottle to share with friends as we homed people do all the time? What is it about a person without a home that makes you get to decide that you know what is best for them? What is it about a person without a home that makes it okay for you to judge them when you don't even know their life at all? What is it about a person without a home that means you can deny them their dignity and personal freedom, that you somehow have a right to put them on a leash like an unruly dog rather than recognize that they are a human being just like you?
Posted by eden hemming on 07/17/2009 @ 05:08PM PT
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I suppose it's not up to me to say how other people live their lives. If they want to drink booze and damage their bodies, that's their choice.
Since we're on the "how do you know" line of thought, how do you know that homeless people are constantly "in survival mode" or are completely miserable all the time? Oh, there likely is the occasional person who is, but you see that in homed people, too.
Personally, I have no money and get food from charities. It's not easy, but I'm generally a happy person, or try to be.
The problem I'm having with you is that you seem to be championinig victimhood. I'm sure it's a romantic notion of the downtrodden people who constantly live in abject horror and misery, but with all the homeless people I've hung around with, that doesn't seem to be the case most of the time. They're good people who make the best of their situation. Some are even homeless by choice. Hard to imagine somebody going into such horrible situation of their own free will.
I know it's no bed of roses, but life's that way not for anyone, either.
Now, on the donator's side, think of it like an investor. We give money to someone, we hope that it gets used in the best way possible. The best way in our minds is finding suitable food and beverage to make it through a day or two, or even more. Combine donation with charity, makes it a lot easier. That's what we call help.
Drinking alcohol to escape means you'll be maintaining that state of mind constantly, to the exclusion of food. This is vastly different from having a nice chardonay before retiring. This is the killing-yourself form of drinking. Why would we want to invest our money in someone who's going to kill themselves anyway. We want to invest in life.
Now if someone truly does buy a nice, flavorful bottle of celebratory drink and keep it to that, well, why not? I'm not going to hate someone celebrating a happy moment.
My friend gave someone all of her pocket change, and he went into a liquor store and emerged with a bottle of whiskey and took a big pull off of it. She was devastated. "I... wanted that man to eat!"
I doubt this guy was going to do more than just get completely toasted. Sorry, but that's my observation.
So, while I won't tell people what to do with their lives (I'm too libertarian for that), I want money I give to be of genuine help, not to kill someone.
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/17/2009 @ 07:49PM PT
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Mike, the "constant survival mode" was in response to this: "Booze is not necessary for either survival or relaxation" and "But booze is not a necessity". I was pinpointing your view, not mine.
What if the man had already eaten? Is he not allowed to have a drink with a full stomach?
I've had very stressful things in my life, too, where I turned to copious amounts of alcohol to momentarily relieve that stress. That doesn't make me an alcoholic. One swift drink doesn't make a homeless person an alcoholic either. I don't know why it is so hard for you to understand that.
If your friend wanted him to eat, she should have given him food or offered to buy him some. I offered to buy a homeless man some food once and he suggested we get a cup of coffee instead since he wasn't hungry at the moment; I bought him a cup of coffee and we had a lovely conversation over it. But if you give ANYONE money, you do not get to decide what they do with it, whether they have a home or not. It's not your money anymore. That's how gifts work.
Where in the world did I "champion victimhood"?? You are reading things into my words that are not there at all. The only thing I am championing is the dignity and humanity of homeless people. No, life on the streets is not a bed of roses but it's not 100% awful for everyone at all times either. I do know people who CHOSE to live on the streets - to escape evil parents, to minister to the homeless in the name of God, and for simple life experience. Even the people who didn't choose it showed me that life wasn't bleak for them all the time and in fact in some ways, they had things a lot more figured out than I did. By only talking about the bad things, I think YOU are the one who is "championing victimhood", and treating homeless people like they are poor pathetic animals on top of it. They don't need your pity or your strings-attached charity; many of them do well enough on their own.
Posted by eden hemming on 07/17/2009 @ 10:06PM PT
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Mike, maybe you shouldn't argue with people if you can't even understand what is being said.
Posted by eden hemming on 07/18/2009 @ 07:31AM PT
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For Mike Conway:
"hear tbroken" over "pocket change"??? Get real. Let's look at what that's really about. Someone gave a few cents and then faked sad disappointment in order to seriously put down someone else. If I were you I would have told the "friend" to put their small change where the sun don't shine. By the way, they say that "birds of a feather flock together. . . .
Posted by Jane Rodriguez on 07/19/2009 @ 02:13PM PT
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Once money is given freely, it's no longer yours to worry about or even ponder what the recipient might be spending it upon. Heck, he or she might use that paper money I gave them to light off whatever he or she smokes for all I know. But at that point, it's their right and their choice - NOT MINE. It was the same with your friend. If she was going to get her knickers all a-twisted over the recipient figuring out it was just enough for their choice of "booze", then perhaps she would have been better off saying no or offering to buy something in particular like a soda or sandwich. At the very least she should have found a charity to which to donate the funds, hopefully one about which she wouldn't need to worry about how THEY spent the money - after all, even some charities have spending issues... Or maybe the money was given in secret hopes of an excuse to judge. My experience has been that this is often why people "help" the needy - whether or not the needy are homeless - that it's to get a chance to judge them and how they live their lives.
Besides, one person's "luxuries" and "necessities" don't necessarily line up with what's a "necessity" and "luxury" for the next. For example, look above at Ron Craven who clearly find freedom one of his most important things in life and who is willing to call many things a lot of us would call "necessities" a "luxury" if what he would have to do to get said "necessity" would impinge upon his freedom. Me, I live below poverty and due to many circumstances in my life which I'd much prefer not to go into right now, find a computer with internet access and a cell phone to each be a necessity - while many would call them not just a luxury but patently wasteful at my level of income, no matter why someone in my income bracket would want or need them nor how either was obtained.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/19/2009 @ 06:08PM PT
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I don't know.
I think it's wrong to require that a person participate in your religion in order to receive help, but this is a religious belief. Jesus helped all and required the ear of no one.
However, that's not to say that He did not speak while He helped. There's nothing wrong with having someone preaching to those in the food line, so long as you do not say that they are required to listen (because they are not). Also, there's nothing wrong with leaving a pamphlet in the jacket that you give to someone as they leave.
Grant you these are my beliefs and they are based on Jesus' example. Unfortunately, there are many out there that claim to follow Jesus but do not practice his teaching or follow his example.
If you have freedom to speak, then you also have freedom to ignore that speech.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/17/2009 @ 08:14AM PT
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So when people evangelize to the food line... do you not know that they are the worst public relations exercise ever for their given brand of church?
Do you not know the 'line religious ranters' are laughed at by homeless people?
It's not about freedom to rant religion... it's about abuse of power. People who verbal the homeless and rant and rave... it's nothing to do with the poor people in the line it's about the needs of the preacher.
The preacher get's their needs met chasing the sexy souls and the homeless people in the line ignore them and learn to disrespect their church.
I've never tollerated it and at every service provider I've worked at or run: I set the rule and the homeless people have enforced the rule - no preaching.
It's disrespectful and I encourage homeless people not to put up with it and respond and make it clear that it's not acceptable.
The difference is preying on vulnerable people is not ok.
You either get that or you don't and will abuse the poor to suit your needs and wants.
You said "there's nothing wrong with leaving a pamphlet in the jecket that you give someone as they leave."
Does giving them the jacket give you the right to spew your religion at them with a pamphlet in a passive agressive manner?
It's about showing people respect, treating them with dignity and not selling stuff to aid your own adgenda.
Guy needs a jacket - give him a jacket.. leave it at that.
The saying 'they will know we are christians by our love' doesn't include pamphlets for your version of God or church. It doesn't mean banging on about your God or church while she is in a line to get a feed.
Why do people preach to homeless people with such force and not line up outside McDonnalds and preach to those customers?
Seriously why? Chasing sexy souls? What needs do you have? Let the homeless know so they can meet them... if that is what they are for.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/17/2009 @ 10:54AM PT
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Thank you for this engaging honest article. This really is about the homeless having the identical dignity as every other human being. Give these vulnerable people what they need not what a religion says they need.
Posted by Phillip Perry on 07/17/2009 @ 12:22PM PT
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I think it's pretty well established that those who spread their religion by verbal prognostication don't care whether people are laughing at them. Those who preach religion on the street corner in front of McDonald's can't possibly believe that no one is laughing at them. People laughed and laugh at Jesus. People laughed and laugh at Buddha. People used to laugh at Mohamed.
A preacher's needs have typically been met long before they try to spread their religion. I wouldn't consider it disrespectful for someone to preach Islam to me and offer a pamphlet to me as I wait in line at McDonald's. He clearly cares about what happens to me, whether or not I feel he is misguided in his preaching. I would probably consider discussing it with him if I'm not in a hurry.
It is only disrespectful if he forces you to wait for your goal until after you have listened. It is only disrespectful if he forces you to read the pamphlet before leaving or before throwing it out. In fact, I would rather the needy person give the pamphlet right back to me if he's not going to read it. That would save the effort some money.
Furthermore, you seem to think that there are no preachers in front of McDonald's. Have you been to some of the more densely populated cities? Have you seen the picket signs? These messages may be shorter than the average preacher, but it is the same goal at which they are attempting. And there are those who try preaching on the streets, though such is rarely successful on a large scale, but always on a meaningful level if just one person listens.
There will always be someone that is unhappy with you spreading your religion, no matter where or when you do it. There is a point where you have to just ignore those complaints, because those people will not respond to logic. That's how Jesus eventually handled it when the Pharisees complained. He gave them a chance to explain and when they had gone too far, He simply ignored them.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/17/2009 @ 12:26PM PT
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some people are addicted to the feeling of power they feel when they've helped someone out of a rut. Funny story, my ex was a devout catholic. Couldn't even have sex w/o running to confession. One day we were coming out of a pizza place with half a pizza and I noticed some "bums". I said, let's give them our pizza. He reluctantly agreed, but when he handed it to the guy, he made him "pay" first. He said, "you know, this pizza cost me 20 bucks so I hope you really appreciate the sacrifice I'm making so you can eat." I couldn't believe it! I said "just give him the damn pizza!" Needless to say, I dropped him like a hot rock shortly after.
Weak, fake, self-serving.
Posted by CherokeeGirl for Change on 07/29/2009 @ 11:24AM PT
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The richest nation on earth can bail out billionaires and do nothing for the homeless. Well if your hungry enough you'll listen to anything and the numbers of the homeless are growing. Look to Brazil or Russia with their majorities of impoverished citizens to see the future of this country. Soon you may have to win a lottery before you get your soup and sermon. Religion exists to make the miserable accept their lot and even convince them that they deserve it and that their suffering here will insure them of a place in heaven.
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Posted by R. C. Wilson on 07/17/2009 @ 08:22AM PT
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R.C. Wilson did an excellent job of making a clear distinction between service delivery and an abuse of power. For many faith based organizations their mission is to provide hope through a spiritual message. For most, this message is discreet and communicated through acts of service not a mandatory service. However, there are those organizations who abuse this power by mandating attendance at services or adhering to rules that are meant to force their views on others. In this instance, it is an abuse of power and unacceptable.
Posted by Jennifer Turner on 07/17/2009 @ 08:50AM PT
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what is wrong with the world today. Does noone believe in god anymore. so what if they are tryin to get them to go to their church whats wrong with a little god. i dont care what anyone says their are more documented miracles in the christian religion than in any other. you dont see buddhists or anything like that FEEDIN THE HOMLESS. no because they could care less. religion is not being forced on anyone. It realy makes me sad how this world is being plunged into darkness. i love my jesus and he knows it and it was never forced on me.I tell you what when the antichrist comes then people will see but it will be too late. if anyone wants to debate this please respond i beg you.
Posted by Daniel Fuller on 07/17/2009 @ 09:10AM PT
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Daniel,
Calm down. Take a breath.
Ask yourself, did Jesus ever challenge anyone to a debate? Did Jesus ever discuss the end times in front of anyone other than believers, or more to the point, did Jesus ever threaten unbelievers?
It is very frustrating when discussing religion with those who are set against it, but keep in mind that many of those who are not set against religion can share the beliefs of those that are. Even Jesus was frustrated when believers didn't understand His teaching, but He was patient and discussed topics logically.
When you lose your temper, your opponent has effectively won the debate.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/17/2009 @ 10:15AM PT
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You've never been to a homeless shelter before, have you?
Trust me, when you have an empty stomach and it's demanding relief, sitting through an hour-an-a-half service before you're allowed to partake of anything gets frustrating. Maybe you're made of sterner stuff, but for most people, it's hard to think about religion when you're starving, or else the only prayer you can say is "Please God, let this be over soon so I can eat!"
It's easier to get to someone's soul when the vacuum in their stomach is filled.
And for the record, non-Christians do feed the homeless and don't require preaching for the food they serve. Look up Hare Krishna Food for Life sometime. Sure, you can talk to the nice monks, but they won't make you listen first.
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/17/2009 @ 10:16AM PT
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I love my jesus too. But re-read the post, and comments. Religion is being forced on people and in an abusive way. It's not ok.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/17/2009 @ 11:20AM PT
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Daniel,
I can see why you might be upset, but I think you might be missing the point. No one is argueing (at least I am not) that faith believers can't or shouldn't deliver a message of hope to those who are suffering. The real arguement is when and where that message is delivered. Should we require people to attend a service before or after we feed people? Should we require people to join our organization before we offer them shelter on a cold wintry night? As spiritual believers, we owe it to mankind to provide service through love without expectation of anything in return. It is my belief that people will see God in those people who offer their help without strings attached. Jesus didn't require people to do anything to receive his blessings. He simply healed and through faith they believed. making people believe is not our job. Leave that up to God. All God is asking us to do is take care of the poor, the hungry, and the homeless. Actions are more effective than our words and sometimes words are more hurtful than our actions.
Posted by Jennifer Turner on 07/18/2009 @ 07:31AM PT
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The soup kitchen I've gone to for years, including a period of homelessness, has many different churches, synagogues, and other religious organizations volunteering to feed those who come there, at least on Sunday. Some of the groups pray in some way before serving. The Hindus pray as a group, not usually including those waiting to be fed. Personally, I appreciate this. I don't want to have any religion shoved down my throat by people who can't live what they preach. I was waiting in line one day and discovered that the food was not on my diet. Meaning it would make me very sick if I ate it. One of the church women said to me, from behind the counter, "beggars can't be choosers". Luckily I knew one of the guys that manage the program that this woman's church group was volunteering for that day and he gave me something else so I didn't have to be hungry that day. I never saw myself as a beggar. That put me off and left me angry. I just needed some food. My digestive system was a mess so I couldn't eat just anything. Who do these people think they are? I used to go to church. I had someone there quote the bible at me, "God helps those that help themselves". So, if you're helping yourself, how are you receiving help from outside yourself? This was in reference to a conversation about bills not getting paid and what it would take to get where I wanted to be. A safe, clean, quiet apartment. Again, where's that help coming from if I'm doing it myself? Doesn't sound like help to me.
Went to a food pantry at a religious center/church. Before leaving they tell me that they are there to pray with me if I want for anything I might want. There's a trolley of food, some of it thawing from frozen, sitting in front of me. I'm in serious pain from my back and tired from not being able to sit while I waited, because of my back, and they want me to stand there holding hands with 2 women I don't know for some unknown period of time and do something I'm not comfortable with. I said, "Nope I'm good!" And did my best to get out of there as quickly as I could. It took a lot for me to go there in the first place and it would take extreme circumstance for me to go back. This was not at a time of homelessness, but still! I'm running out of food and this is what I have to expect from local food pantries. I'm a step away from where I was when I was homeless. I'm stressed about how things are getting paid and where the money/credit is coming from and when/if things will be getting better. And they appeared to expect me to want to pray with them about something. An activity I see as preventing me from getting to a place where I can lie down and get some relief from the pain in my back and a chance to eat something for the first time that day. If I do go back I know they wont be as welcoming because of it. I got some strange stares just because of my appearance. Queer/different folks aren't always accepted into churches and places run by churches for not fitting into their idea of what's OK. Where do gay and trans-people sleep in a shelter? And what toilet do they use? And how much harassment do they have to put up with for being labeled "sinners" by definition? Anybody out there have local church run shelters that are OK with gay and/or trans people being there without trying to convert/change them?
Posted by Grace E Graham on 07/20/2009 @ 11:27AM PT
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Grace, the lady who said that to you was not being very nice and Christians aren't supposed to be like that. The saying, "God helps those who help themselves," is a big fat lie! It's nowhere in the Bible. You receive help from God. No one can help themselves. You do need help from God because no one is perfect. Sometimes church people label others because they have done something they consider really bad. This is completely wrong. Jesus loved all kinds of people. He ate with them and healed them and talked to them. He loves us unconditionally. He doesn't like our sin at all, but He loves us enough to desire to have a relationship with. That's what Christianity is. I'm not out to convert you. I just want to let you know that God is not out to get you, but He loves you and wants to hold you in His arms.
Posted by Casey Williams on 07/20/2009 @ 10:49PM PT
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Grace, the lady who said that to you was not being very nice and Christians aren't supposed to be like that. The saying, "God helps those who help themselves," is a big fat lie! It's nowhere in the Bible. You receive help from God. No one can help themselves. You do need help from God because no one is perfect. Sometimes church people label others because they have done something they consider really bad. This is completely wrong. Jesus loved all kinds of people. He ate with them and healed them and talked to them. He loves us unconditionally. He doesn't like our sin at all, but He loves us enough to desire to have a relationship with. That's what Christianity is. I'm not out to convert you. I just want to let you know that God is not out to get you, but He loves you and wants to hold you in His arms.
Posted by Casey Williams on 07/20/2009 @ 10:49PM PT
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Bit of trivia, who was the one who actually said "God helps those who help themselves"?
Answer: Benjamin Franklin. Yup, definitely not a Bible quote, although in order for God to help you, you certainly do have to take action.
"God, help me to win the lottery!"
"All right, I will help you win, but meet me half way - buy a ticket!"
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/20/2009 @ 11:30PM PT
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While one often must take part in what God has planned for you for it to occur - including his help - one can't help one's self if one has nothing with which to help one's self. There are situations where quite literally all one can do is wait, hope and pray that God provides what you need. Been there done that and seen many others go there and do it too so I know quite well it happens even with the best laid plans and having done "all the right things" to avoid such catastrophes. Like the time I ended up halfway across country, dependent upon the kindness of strangers for, quite literally, everything. Long story that one and would veer quite off topic, but it sure broke a lot of MY stereotypes about how homelessness happens and about how even my particular situation that led into homelessness occurs.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/20/2009 @ 11:51PM PT
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I wonder if you ever really have been to a Buddhist temple where the offerings to the monks are shared with the lay people and if there is a surplus it is provided to adjacent schools and working people without having to listen to a sermon or convert.
Posted by Veronika Thananan on 07/26/2009 @ 09:18AM PT
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I've been to Thailand Veronika, and I am guessing you are Thai American?
Regardless, I loved watching the Buddhists at play, especial y during one of their many military coups in Bangkok, in particular the coup of 1992, because I was there. Simultaneously there was rioting on the streets of the "city of angels" in good ol' Christian America; I ‘m referring to riots sparked by the acquittal of the four LAPD police officers who brutally beat Rodney King. God bless America! And oh, how so much has changed in this virtuous Christian nation since, it brings tears to my eyes; I have my hand over my heart as I type and am humming the American National Anthem.
Such a god blessed nation which "will hammer their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks, (and) Nation will not lift up sword against nation, And never again will they learn war..." Isaiah 2:4. This is the bible quote they have on a plaque outside the United Nations building in New York.
However, I digress...
Oh the Buddhists, they have done so much to aid the homeless and end poverty in Thailand, along with eradicating the sexual exploitation of pre pubescent girls and boys. What a wonderful religion it is, to have achieved all that, NOT!
PS
Buddhist monks have their way with little boys more often than the Catholic priests!
PPS
Women aren't highly regarded in the true traditions of the Buddhists either, nor are they tolerant of Homosexuals. Keep the religious away from the vulnerable, all religions are either overtly or covertly trying to gain converts, and if they are not, then they are trying to appease or please the deity of their choice for their own personal gain, however misguided that might be. And yes, say what you will Veronika, Buddhism is a religion, and Buddha himself has been deified. People truly are sheep, no offence to the sheep.
Posted by T C on 07/26/2009 @ 11:49AM PT
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thank you Tazzie, no I am neither Thai nor American but the issue was if it is fair that homeless and people in need should be forced to listen to some religious sermons as an exchange for badly needed services being offered! As you mentioned it is quite possible to have shelters where people from different belief systems come together to help those who are less fortunate. And as you might agree, religions and/or other belief systems are still man made and thus vulnerable and susceptible to mankind's interpretations and ambitions etc. I have learnt however to focus on what is good and right rather than complain about situations I have no power to change so I have just joined a group of Thai and Expat women, friends from different beliefs to start a Cancer Support Group which will provide free education and support for patients. I believe that it is more worthwhile to just give what you can rather than focus on what should or should not be done...
Posted by Veronika Thananan on 07/27/2009 @ 10:06AM PT
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Dear Daniel, that's nice, but if it wasn't forced on you then you weren't hungry, cold, and desperate. That's not what is being discussed here. You are mising the whole point.
It a bit insensitive to use food to get people to something they wouldn't do otherwise. It's not about god or religion, it's about being oblivious to how there is an imbalance of power between those who have the food and those who need it.
Great diligence and respect is the responsibility of those who have the power and resources. Some over-enthusiastic and well-meaning people clearly lack that humility, sensitivity, and respect.
Posted by Linda Christopher on 07/17/2009 @ 10:16AM PT
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Great article....I've been homeless and I can tell you that it's through the people surrounding you where change (and end to homelessness) occurs. In my community my son and I were placed in an interfaith shelter (going from church to church) and it was the united care and compassion that helped me to awaken to my own truth and spiritual connection -- it is through the oneness we all share that miracles happen and lives are changed -- not the dogmas or traditions of specific faiths or beliefs.
Posted by Cynthia Priest-Mulder on 07/17/2009 @ 10:29AM PT
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I think this whole situation is something I've been saying for years: religious types in general are extremely poor sales people. Somehow, they have it in their head that having a captive audience is the best way to get conversions. I don't understand the logic, but there it is.
As I said elsewhere here, it's hard to think of making a decision to convert when all you can think about is where your next bit of food is going to come from.
I attended a homeless shelter in Denver (sorry, don't remember the name) where there was a lengthy service before you could look for cots or food. Since I'm used to fasting during mass/service (I do that as a spiritual cleansing), it wasn't so bad for me (and I got a lot out of it), but I could tell a lot of the people around me weren't having it. They wanted food and shelter post-haste, not a sermon.
The main problem I had with the shelter was that you had to have a card to get the preferred treatment. Me and about five others got held back while everybody else in the room went in and they had their cards. I wasn't a Denver resident at the time (still ain't, although I'd like to change that), so I didn't have all the proper paperwork or whatever they wanted. I'm amazed I got any food (although I'm grateful for what I got). Because of being held back, I didn't get a cot. However, the bus terminal was warm.
Two good things I've seen that don't do this practice are Hare Krishna Food for Life in Denver and Crossfire Mission in Colorado Springs, both in Colorado. Food for Life is done in a public park and the monks don't make you sit through any sermons; they just give you the wonderful food they they, themselves, prepare. They make the food for God first, so they take great care to make it quality.
Crossfire Mission at the corner of Platte and Union in Colorado Springs is Christian owned and operated, but all you have to have is ID and social security cards for everyone in your family getting benefits. This isn't a shelter as much as a food pantry. They have Bibles and other literature if you want it, but they won't preach to you. They're also the second largest food pantry in the city now. Hmm...
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/17/2009 @ 10:44AM PT
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I can believe that this Crossfire Mission is Christian based because their attitude is the attitude that Jesus exemplified and taught.
It disappoints me extremely to hear that supposedly "Christian" shelters would force people to listen or, down right sinfully, force them to join.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/17/2009 @ 11:36AM PT
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I dont see any more abuse of power then in the rest of other social institutions. For example why should a student be forced to listen and agree with some professors view point to get a good grade? Why should a homeless guy or any one else in public assistance be forced to follow some guidelines and rules? Why should a guy that comes to Dominic or other social worker be forced to listen to his boring lecture on making better choicesm yada, yada when they dont want to change their life styles. I think faith based organizations are looking at the problem as a whole and addressing the spiritual, and physical needs of the individual. I am not sure why the author harbors so much bitterness towards christian based groups. I feel very strongly about the abuse of power by any person in particular specially social services agencies and governmental organizations.
Posted by laura Gonzalez on 07/17/2009 @ 10:59AM PT
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I think, Laura, that comparing getting good grades to feeding your belly is a bit of a bad example. You don't need good grades to be successful in life, you do need food to live.
The point is not of people providing spiritual nourishment to people who need it. It's taking advantage of people in a poor situation and using that situation to further an agenda.
Here's what I'm seeing: "Yup, we got food for ya, and a nice warm place to stay. Ain't that great? I bet yer real hungry ain'tcha? Yeah, 'course you are! And you're gonna eat, to, but first, I'm gonna talk to you about Jesus..."
Note that I'm not talking about legal rules and regs here. Those can be dealt with. It's the religion thing I'm talking about.
Acts of compassion and love should come first, because that's what defines godly people. Feed clothe and shelter people. Once their basic needs are taken care of, then work on their spirit. If they don't want to hear your message, fine. God gave us all free will. We can choose to hear about it or not.
Charity should come without condition. Even if they don't want to hear about God, God loves them anyway, and should be taken care of whether they want to hear it or not.
Besides, as i said earlier, it's easier to deal with your spirit when you're not disctraced by your grumbling tummy.
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/17/2009 @ 11:15AM PT
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how do you compare this situation to some schools in the US "recruiting" foreign students for their good cash and forbidding them to wear anything attesting to their belief or their Buddha amulets and forcing them to attend the church services to get the proper grades when their tuition is 10 times what US students would pay?
Posted by Veronika Thananan on 07/26/2009 @ 09:32AM PT
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Dominic,
In answer to your hypothetical about whether I'd want an Islam of Church of Scientology service provider who was showing me grace and kindness to be funded, even if they had some kind of message that came with the food, I would answer: ABSOLUTELY.
We live in a world of largely increasing materialism and selfishness. Religions get a bad rap because of ignorant and violent extremists, but let's take a clearer look here. Religions are also still the primary ambassadors of hope, morality, grace, and love for our fellow man that exist in the world.
I say that if you're sitting there getting a handout or a hand up from someone, and they happen to talk about something spiritual that has helped them, just quit being so damn sensitive, smile and thank them. Cause guess what? They're out there on the front lines DOING SOMETHING about it. And you know...that message of spirituality (whatever form it comes in), is often EXACTLY what that person needs to see a picture bigger than themselves and get the courage to give life another go.
And hey, if anybody doesn't like that, they can get off their rear and start an agnostic, atheist, or non-religious group of their own to help out.
Help is help. There are bigger battles than this, my friend.We need to pull together to help MORE people, not bicker amongst ourselves about this trivial shit.
Posted by Trevor Davis on 07/17/2009 @ 11:31AM PT
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So you would support diverting all the homeless funding that goes to Christian groups to Islamic and Church of Scientology groups and happily let them preach hope and change to their religion?
At street level - it's not about freedom of religion or freedom of speech. I'm talking about predators.
Why aren't they preying on McDonnalds customers? Why so forcefully preaching to the homeless?
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/17/2009 @ 11:57AM PT
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"Diverting" funds? No, not if the Christian programs are effective. This is about EFFICACY. How well do these programs give homeless a leg up towards a self-sufficient lifestyle? That is how they should be judged, that is how funding should be diverted.
And yes, if Scientologists or followers of Islam can be shown by an impartial judge to be helping the most, THAT'S where the money should go.
For the record, I am a Presbyterian and my church founded P.A.T.H. (People Assisting The Homessless) which effectively serves over 10,000 people a year, helping them get their lives back on track in any way they can.
However, people of Islamic faith also have a great tradition of volunteerism (it's written in the Koran), and Scientologists (if you've come any closer to them than the tabloids, as I have) have shown themselves to be one of the most dedicated and effective volunteer groups BAR NONE.
In fact when the Scientologist "Volunteer Ministers" showed up on 9/11 at Ground Zero, at tsunamis and other disasters around the world...they were the only volunteers other than the Red Cross permitted on the front lines because of their focused dedication to handling the problem at hand: they were committed to getting whatever needed to be done DONE. Effective help, period.
So do I think they, in addition to P.A.T.H. and other effective organizations should get funding? HELL YES. And if anyone has a different criteria than EFFICACY when distributing funds....I'd ask them to rethink their priorities and/or predjudices.
Posted by Trevor Davis on 07/17/2009 @ 03:32PM PT
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Why are the homeless being so forcefully being preached to? That's a good question for the people doing the preaching. Being a person with a disability, I think that people who are in any way "not like" the mainstream in any way are at times easy fodder for them. We are vulnerable, especially when we need something from them. Dependency creates a very unbalanced power dynamic in any situation. Who was it that said " any man can live through hard times, but if you want to know the true character of a man, give him power"?
Posted by Jane Rodriguez on 07/19/2009 @ 02:29PM PT
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As a fellow person living in poverty and fighting disabilities, I also know this to be a very good question - whether those helping are "christian" or not. As I stated above, my experience has been that it's as if some "help" the needy not so much to help but to have a chance to judge the needy and how we live our lives. That's not help, that's condemnation with a little money for the extra helping of pain given to us by those who promised to help.
I've seen stuff like "come here, we'll help" and a plea for a pack of diapers turns into a budget counseling session where they look over up to 3 months budgets with a fine toothed comb - totally ignoring the fact that either the Mom or Dad was just lost a job - and instead of giving a pack of diapers, they give the family a copy of the latest "Christian budgeting book". I can remember asking one place for help with a utility bill and not only did I have to show the bill, but prove my family size (two) and my entire budget and verify the family income (just my SSDI) but they tried their darnedest to illegally get doctor verification of my disabilities. Apparently they thought they knew better than the Social Security Admin about whether or not I could work or so was their explanation of the request. However they quickly found out they had no right to said documents even if they did ask. And yes, I did get help with said bill - and no, they weren't happy about it. As a side note, this was a church that officially stated that they didn't have a mission to help the poor - it wasn't among their callings.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/19/2009 @ 06:20PM PT
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Unfortunately, the previous comment about the fact that sometimes religious evangelism becomes coercive is true, although I believe it is the exception rather than the rule. Any organization refusing food or other services to the poor unless they participate in some religious activity is wrong surely. But I see nothing wrong with an optional message. As a Christian, I know that these service providers only care for these people and want to help, and the biggest help they can give is to tell them about the saving power of Christ. And let us not cross the line of restricting free speech. As I said, mandatory religious services or likewise is going too far perhaps, but there is nothing wrong with starting up a conversation with anybody, homeless or not, about something you believe will help them. I have the right to tell anyone I meet on the street about my salvation, and they have the equal right to ignore me. Christians should not push their beliefs onto other people but as long as manners are observed, there is nothing that is inherently wrong in the practice of offering optional religious counseling. And i completely agree with the statement previously made saying (paraphrased) that acts of love and compassion define godly people. If we refuse that, we are in fact working against god's will. As Jesus said, "I was naked and you clothed me....I was hungry and you fed me" and "What you do to the least of these, you do to me."
Posted by Nicole Holstein on 07/17/2009 @ 11:39AM PT
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There is much truth to your article, as I don't think Jesus intended religion and power, but love. I am now a mom and new grandmother, but about 35 years ago I found myself a homeless young teenager. I did find myself hungry and did end up getting meals from a Christian group. They were not pushy or "religious" and they really did plant that seed that later developed into my faith today. I believe there are many meaningful people who give up their time and resources to meet the needs of those less fortunate. The key is in relationship, as Jesus portrayed. Meeting needs should come naturally to Jesus' followers, and we don't necessarily have to sign up at a soup kitchen. Look around and you will see needs. Love motivated Jesus and should be ours as well.
31"When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. 32All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.
34"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'
37"Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'
40"The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'
Aloha!
Posted by Laura K on 07/17/2009 @ 11:46AM PT
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It gets annoying though? It's no like homeless people are from Mars. Many of them are Christian in their backgrounds anyway.
It gets annoying and predictable and lame.
Hey I need (a.) Wonderful, let me tell you about Jesus so I can meet my needs.
What the f'k ever I've heard it ten times a day.. do your preaching thing so I can get a feed or a night's sleep. Even better just give me a break.
Meet your needs, I'm patient. Then because I'm the great unwashed I'll wait till you are done then you can provide the service you provide thanks be to whoever so I can survive day to day.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/17/2009 @ 12:20PM PT
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Dominic,
I think you assume too cynical a view of the homeless. Perhaps it is a minority that are not, but that minority is interested, and it would be just as sinful to withhold the option from the minority as it would be to force the option on those that are not interested.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/17/2009 @ 12:35PM PT
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"It gets annoying though? It's no like homeless people are from Mars. Many of them are Christian in their backgrounds anyway."
I think this raises a good point. There certainly seems to be an attitude of "We're the only Christians in the world, and converting people will bring them out of this situation." Like people who are homeless can't possibly be Christian.
"What the f'k ever I've heard it ten times a day"
And if by some small miracle someone has converted, they don't want the sales pitch again. Bugging someone can make them want to give it up.
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/17/2009 @ 12:47PM PT
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19 years being on the frontline of battling the effects of homelessness on people and communities and I can say it comes down to one simple (not easy) solution: You need a plan based on core values of solving this thing instead of containing it. The type of evangelism that Dominic speaks of is about as effective as a candy striper volunteer in your local hospital going into the emergercy waiting room and offering a magazine to a very sick swine fu victim.
Evangelism wont work unless it is LIFESTYLE Evangelism built around a real committment to the improving the economic, social AND spritual well being for both the homeless person and the community. That's bad news for all you "Drive By Evangelists". This means that if you really want to make a REAL impact on the person and the community, you MUST devote significant time around working with BOTH by providing ACCESS to PERMANENT Solutions.
We have a homeless epidemic not because of the shortage of people wanting to help, but because most of that help is in the form of driveby volunteerism and investments into battle plans that CANT WIN. It would be like your local hospital using candystripers to run around comforting people with hugs and magazines while they lie there on a morphine drip. The real root problems dont get solved and people die. That is what happens every day in America. We throw BILLIONS of dollars at this problem, yet more people die from the effects of homelessness than EVER BEFORE in our history.
After 19 years and tens of thousands of interactions with people aorund this social crisis, I've learned a few of things. 1) Homelessness is a solvable condition. 2) We aren't solving it. 3) The reason why is because most communities get caught up in developing and supporting plans around access to temporary solutions instead of access to permanent solutions. Its a really poor battle plan.
Posted by NORTH COUNTY SOLUTIONS FOR CHANGE on 07/17/2009 @ 12:37PM PT
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Give a man a fish, feed him for a day.
Teach a man to fish, increase your competition.
Unfortunately, that's the way most look at it, though I grant you it is hard to encourage some one to want to learn how to avoid homelessness.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/17/2009 @ 12:51PM PT
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Please tell me how to avoid homelessness? Tell me where I should of signed up for that class? In our case my children and I were in our car when a person without a drivers license or insurance ran a red light and hit us head on. Due to the injuries we were evicted from our apt. and had to qualify for a homeless shelter. When your family or society is not their gor the safety net you will be homeless.
Posted by Mary Ann Thompson on 07/18/2009 @ 11:05AM PT
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I'd also like to know where this mystic and magical "how to avoid homelessness" class that supposedly works to prevent it can be found. There are many ways homelessness can find you and bite you squarely in the butt - even when YOU have done NOTHING "wrong" or have at least done everything "right" that you possible could do "right". Pretending that homelessness is ALWAYS avoidable means PRESUMING that EVERYONE is HONESTLY capable of ALWAYS being prepared for EVERYTHING life might throw at them - including unexpected catastrophes like long periods of unemployment, sudden illnesses or disabilities, natural disasters, domestic violence, death in the family, economic recessions or depressions, major layoffs, etc. which are ABSOLUTELY NONE of the responsibility of the one who might become homeless and which seldom (if ever) can be seen coming in advance.
What's needed is a WAY OUT OF HOMELESSNESS, as opposed to our current patchwork of systems of inadequate temporary help that rather arbitrarily picks and chooses who it will or won't help leaving thousands to continue suffering. A system that's set up in a way that is so bad that it expects failure, in many places is set up to create failure - and will kick you to the curb for the slightest hint of even a pause or setback in your path to permanent housing. Been there, done that.
Add to that a "safety net" that waits to help till you're so far into poverty that even a change of the wind sets you back for months, a system that repeatedly inspects you - expecting to find fraud and abuse or other criminal activity. A "safety net" that literally penalizes you for trying to better your situation, such as trying to get a job and become honestly self-sufficient. A "safety net" that blatantly discriminates against many of those who need the help most - like the disabled.
It's very easy to become homeless despite trying everything not to do so, and once you are it's damned difficult to regain housing. I'd swear it's easier to win the lottery if you're trying to do it without help from family or a good friend and without going into a situation that involves something akin to selling out your soul.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/19/2009 @ 01:47PM PT
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Danetta and Mary Ann,
I'm sorry I haven't responded. When I read the email updates with your comments, I was all "right-on!" and "the guy that must have asked for these responses must be an inconsiderate bastard." I didn't realize that they were in response to my comment.
I was not assuming that all who are homeless did not want to avoid the situation. I simply made a statement about those who are homeless and did not want to avoid the situation.
I'm sorry that I gave you the impression that I think everyone who is homeless chose to be such, and frankly, I'm a little insulted that you would think that I have such a simple mind to have believed such. You don't know me. As far as you know, I may have been in the same situation at some point. For that matter, who says I'm not homeless now and using an internet enabled cell phone or free wifi on a cheap netbook?
You might want to get that log out of your eye before trying to help me remove the speck out of mine.
The more I think about how you assumed inconsiderate intent into my comment, the more it makes me angry, so I think I'll end this comment here.
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/20/2009 @ 12:11PM PT
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Chris, If you knew me I am not the kind of person who goes out of their way tohurt or offend anyone. The average american has the believe that being homelss is a choice. That is what I was reacting to. As far as getting the log out of my eye thisisa site to voice opinions and i in no shape or form was using it to cut you down sorry if you took it wrong. If you are currently homeless I hope that things will be better for you.
Posted by Mary Ann Thompson on 07/29/2009 @ 03:05PM PT
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Thank you for considering my feelings on the matter. I'm not homeless, however I clearly made my point that you should never make assumptions about a person without knowing more about their situation or personality.
When discussing something, especially online, it is much better to assume the innocence of a child in the others in the conversation. With a child, rather than reacting to their statements, most people consider the fact that the child may not understand your reaction and thus explain the assumptions behind the reaction or seek clarification of the statement before expressing it.
"Be angry, and yet do not sin."
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/30/2009 @ 07:48AM PT
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The way I look at it is, what have I done today to put my homeless organization out of business. Solving it means less shetler beds and soup kitchens, not more. Healthy folks living in their own place, shopping at the local supermarket is my crazy pipedream.
Since Im addicted to solving unsolvable social problems with no money and no good looks, I'll go solve gangs or some other tough social problem or maybe just write that book...
Posted by NORTH COUNTY SOLUTIONS FOR CHANGE on 07/17/2009 @ 01:05PM PT
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You have yet to state exactly HOW you are going to put your homeless organization out of business. You have yet to state WHAT the causes of homelessness are and how you solve them. You did mention improving the economic, social AND spiritual well-being. Exactly how do those affect the homeless? How do you get the unemployable employed? How do you provide healthcare security so those who are suddenly rendered penniless due to astronomical healthcare costs (such as Mary Ann’s case)? How do you make someone with mental health issues or physical disabilities self-sufficient?
Posted by Richard Doberstein on 07/19/2009 @ 12:57PM PT
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Richard: I was actually responding to the reply of my post right above yours from Chris Meacham.
Your questions deserve a response much more effective then this blog, but in a nutshell here goes:
It's the attitude, the purposeful planning and the meaningful engagement of people and resources around SOLVING homelessness that is first and foremost. Think about if you walked into that shelter and soup kitchen you volunteer in and everyone around you was focused on executing a plan to solve it with those folks? Most soup kitchens and emergency shelters, by their very design, are containment operations, managing the symptoms of homelessness.
The plan, in our case, recognizes that there are primarily three very distinct and very different set of issues and needs that present themselves at our doors: The Have Not, the Can Not, and the Will Not. Figuring out which one you are working with is very important and requires MUCH in the way of effective intervention and engagement training into each of the three. Each person requires a plan built specifically around their issues and unmet needs. Like a hospital, everyone that enters is sick in some way, but there are many different types of sicknesses, each one requiring a different treatment plan. Society generally treats homelessness like some kind of incurable disease that must be contained and controlled, its symptoms managed. It’s a disaster.
It all starts with the right kind of intervention and engagement strategies. And don’t take this wrong, but most emergency shelters and soup kitchens operate from a reactive model and are poorly equipped both from a training perspective and in the resources they don’t have. They simply are like little clinics on the front line of a catastrophic event...all they can do is slap band aids. And band aids can be good for some, but let’s be honest, they are only band aids.
From a battle planning perspective, the way we approach homelessness is insane. It’s like marching into a battle with pitchforks and axes.
I can answer each and every question you ask and we could have an interesting conversation, but it starts with the recognition that our communities and neighborhoods must develop and execute plans that go way beyond the shelter bed and bowl of soup if we are to have any hope of defeating homelessness in America. And as a little hint, I am NOT saying that the Housing First model in and of itself, is the answer.
Posted by NORTH COUNTY SOLUTIONS FOR CHANGE on 07/20/2009 @ 09:11AM PT
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The assistant director of a shelter in Wyoming told me that the only way a homeless person could get off the streets was to accept Jesus Christ. I disagree. While religion may be the balm that brings focus in some few cases, in most cases homeless people just play along for what favors that might bring.
Self respect on the other hand can lead to real changes. So how does a person with low self-esteem gain self respect? Not by being told that they are a sinner. That adds insult to injury. Only by respecting them for who they are right now. Respect is a lot like understanding and if the shelter staff have never walked in the homeless person's shoes they are very unlikely to have understanding. They interact with thousands of homeless people and still will never know until they have been there themselves.
Posted by Dale Walker on 07/17/2009 @ 01:31PM PT
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I appreciate this article. I work and go to school. Self-sufficiently homeless, I do not seek services. When I moved into a van, an evangelist essentially became a creepy-stalker. I can forgive, but that does not exonerate nor enlighten that evangelist.
Posted by Miss B on 07/17/2009 @ 01:53PM PT
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My experience is somewhat different than yours, Dominic Mapstone. I have never been homeless but for the last three years I have been volunteering at a local free breakfast program and at the local homeless shelter. The shelter is a non-religious, private non-profit organization but almost all the volunteers are from various religious organizations. A local church and its members run the free breakfast program.
I have never seen any proselytizing of the guests at either place. I think it is only natural to be exposed to their beliefs by just being around them. Their religious influence is subliminal. This should be expected. As an atheist, I am respectful of their different beliefs.
I think the solution to this religious influence is that non-religious organizations and atheists like myself need to get involved in the homeless and hunger problem that affects our communities.
Posted by Richard Doberstein on 07/17/2009 @ 02:30PM PT
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Look at history, and you'll find that there were NO organizations helping the poor outside of Christians. The first time that changed was when America put in place the welfare program. It has restrictions for receiving benefits. Are any of you in favor of either 1) removing those restrictions so that anyone can receive welfare, or 2) stopping the welfare program? No one can make you feel or believe anything. There's nothing wrong with asking someone to listen to your belief in exchange for giving them the food or shelter they cannot provide for themselves.
Posted by Jon Bankes on 07/17/2009 @ 07:03PM PT
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I agree with you, Jon, that Christians should not be prevented from proselytizing before or during a meal they are providing nor should any organization be prevented from attaching any strings to their charitable grant. But the homeless and hungry are really a captive audience. They might not have other options available to them. I grant you, some homeless people want a little religion with their meals. It comforts their troubled soul. But some do not want it.
For those of us who think charity should be given without religious dogma, we need to step up to the plate and do the work religious organizations are now doing almost by themselves.
Posted by Richard Doberstein on 07/18/2009 @ 12:00PM PT
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I have a concern with what was expressed in this article.
When you restrict what a privately funded organization can say you could infringe on the religious rights of the organization and the people serving in that organization. Evangelism/proselytizing are an integral part of many faiths. Forbidding them from evangelizing would be a violation of religious freedoms. Please be mindful of the serving individual's rights.
Posted by Bob Price on 07/17/2009 @ 03:34PM PT
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Forcing propaganda on the public and religous bullying are harassment at the very least. No one has the right to do that.
Posted by Jane Rodriguez on 07/17/2009 @ 08:25PM PT
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I am formerly homeless, a poor people's advocate and a preacher's kid. The sad thing about forced religion before serves rendered is how they totally miss the point. You have to be Jesus like in order for someone to seek to know Jesus through any so-called ministry. Most MISSIONs, have no clue as to who He is. Kicking a dog when they are already down is a far cry from Christianty.
I have known people who were put out of programs because their beliefs were different, their Bible was different, or their resonse, which was real, was viewed as being wrong and not accepted by them.
I have witnessed people being put out doors in the middle of the night because their mental health issues were not silent sufferings. And have seen women with bad hips or in wheel chairs sleep on pews for lack of handicap access to a bed.
The judgement of how they preach to us is bad. They assume we are all destined for Hell and Homelessness is punishment for bad choices. He who is without sin let him cast the first stone. Prayers should be silent and actions still speak loulder than words. Being nice to people costs nothing. In our House of Pain there is nothing like Jesus.
There are inklings of hope for some in charge of some programs but for many it has become just a job and helping does not enter into the picture at all.
Why had people rather sleep under a bridge than go to the Mission? There is more dignity under the bridge.
Posted by Cathie Buckner on 07/17/2009 @ 05:11PM PT
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To Bob Price - restrictions should be placed on religions where they conflict with ethics, fairness, social justice, and laws. I am opposes to polygamy, especially when it involves minor females, no matter if some horny old men consider it god's law. I am opposed to religions getting exceptions on using illegal narcotics as part of their ceremonies. I am opposed to forcing religion on vulnerable people. I am opposed to health providers refusing services to people based on their religious beliefs.
To Dominic - I have been involved in social work and social justice issues in the American Deep South for decades. I have spent the last four years dealing with the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina in my own community. We have had many faith-based groups come down here to help out. I have respect for very few of them. I will not go in to detail here, but I have been appalled at their lack of professionalism and their commitment to proselytising (we didn't come down here to hang sheetrock, we came to save souls). In the case of some of the larger, more established religious charities, I have been appalled at their lack of ethics. Faith-based federal government grants have made them cash hogs. I think that any federal funding of faith-based groups is actually a subsidy of religion, as it frees up church generated funds to go to non-charity related projects. I was part of a pilot program to bring experienced disaster case managers in to a major natural disaster very early after it happened. The lead partner in the program implementation was a national, faith-based charity. One you are probably know well given your faith. They were inept and corrupt. It left a very bitter taste in a lot of peoples mouths.
The only faith groups I have immense respect for after Katrina are the Amish, some Mennonites, Quakers, Buddhists and Jewish relief organizations. They have come down, worked hard, worked well, and have either stayed to themselves or left people's faith alone.
As you seem to think that faith-bases charities should not put their faith front and center before the needs of the people you are serving, what would you do if a teen-aged woman who was raped by her father came to you and said she was pregnant and would like to get an abortion? Would you consider this as one of her options as you counsel her?
Posted by Mims Carter on 07/17/2009 @ 05:13PM PT
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I serve at Community Life COGIC in Canton, Ohio. The folks are very generous in their service to the poor. They always have someone "preach" for 30 to 40 minutes while the food (set out fully prepared at 10 AM) is allowed to cool (even tho we have candles underneath the food trays). They advertise Breakfast at 10 but it's rarely before 10:30. They are sincere. They think the poor NEED to be preached to. I've actually heard a preacher tell the poor and homel;ess: You are here because God wants you here. They are kind, generous people. I just think they simply don'e get it.
Posted by J G on 07/17/2009 @ 06:56PM PT
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Mims Carter asked "As you seem to think that faith-bases charities should not put their faith front and center before the needs of the people you are serving, what would you do if a teen-aged woman who was raped by her father came to you and said she was pregnant and would like to get an abortion? Would you consider this as one of her options as you counsel her?"
I would have no problem with any client following the course they believe to be best for them, regardless if I would do differently in my life. It's about them, it's not about me.
If they were after spiritual direction. I would suggest they contact their faith community of origin for guidance.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/17/2009 @ 07:40PM PT
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Thanks to everyone for a fascinating conversation. As a former shelter worker (homeless and battered women), and presently a homebound disabled person in a rural area, I have some background in the topic. The county where I live refuses to provide food bank delivery or transportation to disabled shut ins. So, I have gone for months at times without access to food. A few times (or less) in the twelve years I've been disabled local churches have brought food for me. And sermons. I will never forget the time a church volunteer brought a box of food and after setting it on the kitchen counter she went through the box to see if there was anything that she wanted and took out a box of muffin mix. She was going to take it and then read the directions, decided it would be too much work and then put it back. I have been absolutely shocked at the one-up gamesmanship in interpersonal interactions that most people take when dealing with homeless and disabled people. As far as churches- they are a business and funding is the bottom line. That changes everything. Clearly, it's an abuse of power anytime there's a power difference and the powerful force their ideas on the less powerful. For a religion to do that makes them a fraud. They are doing the opposite of what Christ, Buddha, etc. taught. However, I have a part in all of this, too. I have the choice to not seek their assistance or seek their help knowing that I will have to put up with the sermons, "holier than thou" attitudes, etc. There's no free lunch. I do not agree that their tactics are right, but I understand where they are coming from. They are after their funding. A pastor's column in a local paper recently asked if it is still "God's work" (church volunteering) if it is done begrudgingly. My answer is "no". When church volunteers help others while they have evil in their hearts, it is a perversion. To call it anything else is fraud. To pretend to be doing good while seeking power, money, etc. must certainly be the lowest possible. And, to pretend to be a spiritually strong person while following the devil is begging for a one way ticket to hell.
Posted by Jane Rodriguez on 07/17/2009 @ 08:00PM PT
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It is about them, not us. That is the attitude I hear a lot, but don't see practiced enough at Catholic Charities U.S. and other faith-based service agencies. To be fair, a lot of secular agencies have supervisors and case workers who try to impose their world views on people with needs.
Posted by Mims Carter on 07/17/2009 @ 08:20PM PT
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Excellent item! Why do religious people "evangelise" folk who are inadequately housed or without housing ('homeless' is not a noun) or hungry, experience poverty or struggle with low incomes?
The evangelising should be directed at those who have committed the sin of Sodom as clearly stated in Ezekiel 16:49 "Behold, this was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters had pride, surfeit of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy."
Posted by Daphne L. Hunt on 07/17/2009 @ 08:23PM PT
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Though "homeless" is an adjective, when it is used with a plural verb it can be a noun.
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Posted by Phillip Perry on 07/17/2009 @ 10:06PM PT
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Maybe it makes them feel superior. Maybe those who desparately need to feel superior have unquenchable egos. The fake superiority is a smoke screen, maybe, so that others don't see who they really are. Or maybe they're looking for a cheap ride to heaven instead of doing the real work. You know, talking the talk but not walking the walk. But, at least some of them are trying to do the right thing and that's a whole lot more than lots of folks. I try to keep an open mind and realize that they need my compassion. Some of them don't know any better.
Posted by Jane Rodriguez on 07/17/2009 @ 08:51PM PT
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And what could be worse then evangelizing them? Criminalizing them.
Los Angeles accused of criminalizing homelessness
Tue Jul 14, 2009 10:51pm EDT
By Steve Gorman
http://www.reuters.com/article/domesticNews/idUSTRE56E0MC20090715
LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - Two major advocacy groups for the homeless on Tuesday ranked Los Angeles as the "meanest" city in the United States, citing a Skid Row police crackdown they say has criminalized poverty and homelessness there.
L.A.'s so-called Safer City Initiative was singled out in the groups' report as the most egregious example of policies and practices nationwide that essentially punish people for failing to have a roof over their heads.
Others include making it illegal to sleep, sit or store personal belongings on sidewalks and other public spaces; prohibitions against panhandling or begging; and selective enforcement of petty offenses like jaywalking and loitering.
Such measures are widespread in the face of a deep economic recession and foreclosure crisis that have increased homelessness over the past two years, according to the National Law Center on Homelessness & Poverty and the National Coalition for the Homeless.
Their report examined laws and practices in 273 cities across the country, with Los Angeles topping the list of the 10 "meanest cities" for what the study called inhumane treatment of homeless. A previous report, issued in early 2006 before the crackdown began, ranked L.A. as the 18th meanest.
Under the Safer City effort, thousands of L.A.'s most destitute residents have been targeted for harsh police enforcement, routinely receiving tickets for minor infractions such as the failure to obey crossing signals.
As a result, the study says, many are jailed and end up with a criminal record that makes it more difficult for them to find a job or gain access to housing.
A spokesman for Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa issued a statement dismissing the report as "short-sighted and misleading."
Los Angeles officials have touted their Safer City effort for sharply curbing serious crime in Skid Row, a 50-block downtown area inhabited by the biggest concentration of homeless people in the country. "The city's first priority is to protect our most vulnerable residents from violent crime," the mayor's statement said.
But homeless advocates say a promised strategy to ease homelessness there, including new housing and services to go with the Skid Row cleanup, have largely failed to materialize.
An estimated 40,000 people live on the streets, in abandoned buildings or in temporary shelters throughout Los Angeles, more than 5,000 of them in Skid Row. Another 8,000 make their home in that area's short-term residential hotels, or flop houses as they were once called.
Becky Dennison, co-director of the Los Angeles Community Action Network, said the homeless population in Los Angeles has ballooned due to a lack of affordable housing, a high poverty rate and "long-standing lack of local resources."
Tuesday's report cited a 2007 University of California study that found L.A. was spending $6 million a year to pay for the 50 extra police officers who patrol Skid Row while budgeting just $5.7 million for homeless services.
By comparison, Dennison said, New York City has a "right to shelter" policy and invests about $200 million a year in housing and other services for the needy, resulting in a homeless population half that of Los Angeles.
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Posted by R. C. Wilson on 07/17/2009 @ 10:13PM PT
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Simon tried to make the point (above) that "belief isn't a world view that's right for some people and not for others - it's a matter more important than life and death."
However, his attempt fails, in fact it actually supports your arguments when you said:
"I wonder if some of these services are just a disguise and the principal agenda has nothing to do with what homeless people want, but what the religious group wants."
Simon's comment precisely demonstrates your point that it's more about what the religious group wants than what homeless people want! He intimates, in effect that, as a matter of life and death, 'religious beliefs' are more important than what the people being helped need or want for themselves.
That comment also seems to assume that only 'religious people' have beliefs! LOL!
As if it gives 'religious people' the right (nay, the duty!) to bait and to trick the heathen masses into finding "salvation". (Another version of this class of trickery are the nondescript, ostensibly 'public service' commercials you see on TV that are actually sponsored by the Latter Day Saints!)
There is far, far too much double-speak and outright deception engaged in by organized religions! I, for one, refuse to believe that any "God" (or "G-d" <= I'm sorry, but this is so silly!) would condone the carrot-and-stick antics that these wolves in sheep's clothing perpetrate on the weak and needy everyday under the guise of "helping" in his name! This is one of the many reasons why organized religion will never be for me! (I guess I'm out of luck if I ever become homeless!!!)
Posted by Mike Grant on 07/17/2009 @ 11:03PM PT
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Thanks Mike, an astute observation on your behalf.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/19/2009 @ 07:26PM PT
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I was homeless for a period of time when I was around 19 years old. At the time I stayed at a rescue mission in my hometown. They required you to attend services and participate in activities including working at either the mission or the second hand store that they operated. I can't remember how exactly I felt at the time regarding these things, but I do know that I eventually got out of there after about 2 or 3 months and ended up getting my own place. It was a terrible time in my life overall and not one I ever wish to experience again.
As to your post about evangelizing the homeless, I agree you can't force religion on people especially when they are in a situation where they are in need. It is manipulative in a way and not in keeping with what Christ himself would do.
Just as an aside, I'm not a deeply religious person and never have been. I believe in God and that things happen for a reason (even though we may not see why).
Posted by David English on 07/18/2009 @ 05:59AM PT
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Thanks for replying David. Nice to hear you agree - especially since you were formerly homeless and as such have insight into this topic.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/19/2009 @ 07:31PM PT
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I've just begun a three month stay in Togo. I find that it is a deeply supersticious country. It is also very poor. I like the people but the breakdown of 50% blackmagic, 40% Christian and a rising 10% Muslim doesn't leave much room for a humanist. I have been writing a lot in the past three years (www.soletthedebatesbegin.com) and my research shows the old testament to be a deeply offensive book. Jesus seems to have been a good person but the various churches are a tavesty of his teachings. When I worked with the Campaign for Homeless And Rootless, in London we often said how homelessness was seen as something to apologise for and grovel for help. It isn't like that.
Brian Haddon.
Posted by Brian Haddon on 07/18/2009 @ 08:37AM PT
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The way I've always done it - and always insisted that people working with me do it - is to give it freely without words of any sort about religion. HOWEVER, I and anyone working with me make a concerted effort to be cheerful and without despite any circumstances (and circumstances can get quite interesting - like summer heat in a housing project with the gang members coming out to see who's doing what). We also keep a rule that if anyone asks why we're doing what we're doing, at that point we give the honest answer - that it's because one of the things the Lord requires of us is to help others with whatever we may have. Sometimes that's all that's said, and people will pretty much roll their eyes and walk away. Other times, people (and sometimes it's some of the most surprising people) will stick around for conversations or to at least ask a few questions - whether or not they do is entirely left to them, even asking why we're there is up to them. We don't wear religious identification, we don't listen to religious music, sing religious songs, give sermons, read Bible verses, or even stick tracts in stuff we hand out.
As a side note, many have eventually stated things about learning more from us about Christ and what he's really like or what he really wants people to be like than from any of the many other groups in the area that force you to endure a lesson of some sort to get the desired or needed help. Many of those groups, as noted above have an air of coldness or even cruelty. Sadly, this has been the way churches here in the U.S. have often done things going back at least to their dealings with the Native Americans - no wonder Christians aren't respected. If you want to help, help. If you want to evangelize, evangelize. But quit holding people captive to sit through one just to get to the other. That's twisted and not what Jesus taught.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/18/2009 @ 12:14PM PT
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There are a great number of people who do not feel capable of managing their corner of life and only consider themselves competent when they have the guidance of a dominant being to guide them. That god who took the Israelites to the promised land is the best image to fill this requirement. That makes their lives safe and happy and I fully understand they can be comfortable.
Some of those people have little doubts when they begin to understand science and it's requirement for truth. That little doubt and the requirement to revere the ten commandments causes their need to proselytize.Then they also get everlasting life.
Those who accept evolution, want better ethics than the Ten Commandments, responsibility for every other citizen under our constitution of Participatory Democracy. Our government is requirred to do for it's ciltisens what they cannot do for themselves. that includes care for homeless with no preaching or prayers.
Posted by Harmon Chamberlin on 07/18/2009 @ 04:55PM PT
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People have the right to hold to religious beliefs. That they do, doesn't mean they're "not capable" of managing their life as a whole or any part of it. Nor does holding to religious beliefs mean that they feel incapable of holding to managing their life. It could be tradition, comfort or any of myriad other reasons.
Science purports to be only truth, to "require truth" and pursues the truth and yet must of it is still purely theories in search of the proof necessary to make them fact. Thus, in many ways, much of science is quite a bit like religion - faith in an idea in hopes that the idea might prove true.
Nor is any one set of morals or ethics any "better" than another, as long as certain basics (like not committing theft or murder are included along with keeping some concern for those around you rather than just yourself) and people are actually FOLLOWING their morals and ethics.
Where we get into trouble is where we start withholding help on the grounds of "but you wouldn't convert" or "you HAVE to put up with a sermon of my choice". Or on the other hand, when we start telling people that any and all religion is so patently offensive that it's forbidden. True, it's offensive (and is so even in at least Christian texts) to force religion on people as a condition of providing help via basic necessities, but there's no reason why religion needs to be kept in a darkened closet and treated as if it makes a person akin to a neanderthan either. A person can be an insensitive jerk with or without religion.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/18/2009 @ 09:46PM PT
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Dominic, I see your point. However, I'd like to say that practicing tolerance on all fronts is important. Treating everyone with respect, not just the homeless population, is important. Doing so without unleashing even a smidgeon of our own personal agendas (as you showcased by writing this article, and as I undoubetdly will in the course of my response) is nearly impossible.
Where do we find tolerance or compassion for those who mean well with their actions, but just don't seem to be going about it in the most effective manner? Maybe those are the people we should be helping and educating, instead of criticizing. Maybe in their ignorance, they don't realize the abusive nature of it. I highly doubt giving homeless people ways to passive agressively, or negatively take back power will solve the problem.
I find it hopeful that people/organizations of all kinds, religious or not, are trying to reach out to those they perceive as less fortunate. I certainly don't expect all of them to handle it perfectly for everyone, as we are all different. But is it fair to say that they might reach someone?
No person or organization will ever handle the masses effectively - we're a kaleidescope of personalities. But as individuals, if we have an enlightened perspective on a specific scene due to our own experiences, I wonder if a more effective method of change would be for us to show a loving willingness toward educating those who want to provide a service to that specific genre, but lack the sharpest tools for the job.
If we spend our time ridiculing those we believe are governing a situation abusively, aren't we feeding them the same bitter pill? I know if someone shows me love when trying to educate me, I respond much more openly to change.
Posted by s r on 07/19/2009 @ 10:10AM PT
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I must call BS. I was homeless for two years. No one really cared. NO ONE. To the "advocates" I was just another body to count for dollars - IF I quit the job I had at the time, they would "help" me. I also happened to be disabled. Quitting my job to get "help" in the form of SSDI would have amounted to a 60% cut in pay, and eight plus years in a shelter. I was simply seen as $$$$ to these so called advocates. Neither Church nor Synagogue gave a rat's @$$. Not one.
Evangelizing? I observed how they merely wanted to "save" the Soul and to Hell with the body.
I got myself out of my situation. No one helped, because no one cared enough to help me find affordable housing, because of the money they'd lose warehousing me. Want to help? GET THE WORKING HOMELESS INTO HOUSING - NOT IN A SHELTER.
Posted by K L on 07/19/2009 @ 05:45PM PT
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Thanks for posting a reply K L. I don't see the logic in what they were offering either. Nice job getting your own way off the streets.
Your point about housing people rather than just setting them up in a shelter is an important point.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/19/2009 @ 07:36PM PT
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KL is so absolutely dead on. Nobody wants to help unless you fit into their neat little box and very few (almost no one) gives a rat's rear about helping anyone find their way from any level of shelter into honest to goodness housing. Even fewer give a rat's rear about helping everyone - most only want to help one group or another that fit into a neat little box and they can get really persnickety about who qualifies for their group's help - male or female only, certain age groups, able to work or not, homeless for certain reasons only, if not able to work only certain reasons for the inability are acceptable, can't need certain accommodations, etc. And he's definitely right about a lot of the "christian" groups helping the poor and in particular the homeless. It's clear they care about the soul, but it's so clear they don't care about your body's survival that it feels like they're trying to speed your soul on its journey to its final destination. It can get creepy.
However, we need to work for making affordable housing - not just shelters - available to everyone. A lot of the people I know who are homeless are people who started in situations quite similar to mine and as far as I can figure the only reason I'm not homeless right now is the grace of God himself - they're people disabled enough they can't work, often like me with a mix of physical and mental health disabilities and because they receive either SSI only or a low amount of SSDI and it's so hard and so long to get subsidized housing they eventually just couldn't keep their apartments (not hard to imagine when it's common in this income range to pay 50% or so of your income on rent alone). A lot of people in this group also falls into the many categories of "invisible" homelessness such as living in long term hotels or couch surfing where technically they're homeless but statistically and/or legally they've fallen through a crack and don't count as homeless. So clearly affordable housing for all is a necessity - and programs like we have here in Seattle that require working and/or a minimum income leave this group (the totally disabled and/or very low income) quite literally out in the cold.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/19/2009 @ 09:29PM PT
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I am homeless. This is not a problem. I work. I pay taxes. Taxation is a forced philanthropy, so that churches can get financial breaks and the auto industry can get bailouts. Those poor structure-dwellers need it, I guess.
Posted by Miss B on 07/19/2009 @ 08:42PM PT
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I'm not an expert on homelessness, so forgive me if I offend anyone, but I wanted to make a couple points:
First, there's a debate here about what money is spent on and who decides. It's been framed in terms of "choice," and it's true that all have free choice, but _some_ people do manipulate others to support their choices, and _some_ people under addictions can't help themselves. I've had times where someone has told me they were hungry, but then turned down food, or had a headache, but turned down tylenol, saying they needed money instead. Since I didn't have money, they left without the food and painkillers, and tried to make me feel guilty for it. So I can understand the cynical people who want to know what their money is going for.
Second, the religious issue is obviously a hot button. I absolutely agree that it is an abuse of power to force religion on people, or to withhold services because of people's beliefs or because of their unwillingness to participate in religious activities. That's criminal, and not at all defensible even under the religion they profess.
On the other hand, I don't think it's an inherent abuse of power to share your beliefs in addition to food or basic necessities. It obviously can be, but it ain't necessarily so. If you are a religious person, and your faith is the greatest and most important thing in the world to you, of course you want to share it.
I know many will disagree, but try to think of it from the perspective of a person who truly believes that your life is in danger in this world or the next, simply because you haven't rightly understood God. Can you see how if someone believed that, they would want to share spiritual life in addition to physical life? But there can be no cumpulsion in religion, and that's where too many people get in trouble.
Posted by Ngai Moko on 07/20/2009 @ 12:32AM PT
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My buddy and I have both been homeless. He went to dozens of church programs and homeless shelters. He told me about the one where he sat there reading the bible every day and memorized two verses a week just for the opportunity to be able to go out to the store. (they bought him cigarettes for being a good bible student) When he no longer needed the religious study to gain a tiny amount of dignity, the whole thing just went in the trash.
I on the other hand avoided shelters like the plague. I spent about 6 years homeless on the road. I didn't read the bible but I led a very spiritual life. I woke up in the mornings and chanted, "Thank you for this day oh Lord. Thank you for this day. This healing, this healing, this healing day." It put me in a good mood. Thereby making me good company to the people I met and since they then cared they invariably helped without even a request. I did not beg borrow or steal. In between rides I would chant, "We are all angels traveling in this universe. Love, love, love will heal us." and found myself filled with love and cared for by each and every stranger I met. I had little if anything yet I was a stranger to want. My thoughts were sort of like, "If it be your will, here I am with love in my heart."
My experiences and spiritual discoveries are still with me. I was saved and not by Jesus even though Jesus did come in my heart. My buddy on the other hand used up his time at each of the programs he participated in and went straight back to the streets and straight back to the bottle and crack pipe. Every time.
My point is that my friend is now a property owner with a decent job and almost everything he wants. He didn't get there from any of the religious programs. He got there because I layed it on the line for him. I told him that all he had to do was to first know what he wanted, then picture himself there. I said among other things, "picture yourself in your apartment sitting at the kitchen table eating some potatoes you just cooked. Even smell them." I also told him, "Look, you have next to no money so if you take 10% of that and squirrel it away you'll still have next to no money but you will have something to work with." This was probably the first practical advice he had ever received from a shelter worker and it was effective too. And he wasn't the only one. My advice, coming from me, changed their lives. There was no Jesus in it. (except that part of Him in my heart telling me, "Don't mention Me. Just be the Love.")
Posted by Dale Walker on 07/20/2009 @ 06:23AM PT
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One other thing this article makes me think of is this: What if Jesus himself came into your shelter cold, tired, and hungry? Look your clients in the eye. They might have a message from God for you. This should apply to secular shelters also.
There is a secular shelter in Iowa where the director will not look a homeless man in the eye, he keeps an extremely unsanitary kitchen, and serves improperly heated, "better than nothing", food. The shelter is a den of disease with antibiotic resistant bacteria and scabies rampant. There are no warnings for shelter workers, volunteers, or clients. My point is that shelter staff should take the splinters out of their own eyes before assuming that their clients are any worse sinners than they are.
Posted by Dale Walker on 07/20/2009 @ 10:28AM PT
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"sell religion" is the worst phrase i have ever heard. Most evangelist christians I know don't even HAVE a religion, it's a relationship with our creator, and the intent is most certainly not to "sell" anything trying to save someone from hell,? oh gee sorry for trying to help. If your homeless and accepting hand outs get over it, if they had accepted christ and were following him they would be provided for by him and not be homeless in the 1st place, unless that is what Gods plan for them is, but then they would already be walking with Christ and not care about someone talking to them about God! I swear some people are so lost and stupid it's scary. I think you all should just go back to talking about something else worthless and stupid like "brangelina". America was founded so that we would have the freedom to practice whatever "religion" (for lack of a better word you nitwits would understand) we want. Why does everyone all of a sudden have a problem with christianity??? Why not focus on conservative muslims who beat their wives??? at least Christianity teaches people to love and forgive not hate and get revenge!
Posted by anne drivdahl on 07/20/2009 @ 07:45PM PT
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Like it or not, evangelising is a sales job. Why should someone accept God? Why accept Jesus as lord and savior? People need to know.
And the answer is not "so you don't go to hell." That's not a good enough reason. In fact, that's a stupid reason. Especially with all the benefits that come from having a relationship with God.
People need to be told about God. They often won't find him on their own.
Posted by Mike Conway on 07/20/2009 @ 08:14PM PT
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wow what a generalization Christianity doesn't teach us to get revenge it teaches us to forgive so those "Christians" wanting revenge on Muslims aren't even going to heaven the bible states that if we hold unforgiveness against anyone we will not inherit the riches of heaven. so thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard, do your research before you try to argue with someone.
Posted by anne drivdahl on 07/22/2009 @ 02:22PM PT
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"sell religion" is the worst phrase i have ever heard. Most evangelist christians I know don't even HAVE a religion, it's a relationship with our creator, and the intent is most certainly not to "sell" anything trying to save someone from hell,? oh gee sorry for trying to help. If your homeless and accepting hand outs get over it, if they had accepted christ and were following him they would be provided for by him and not be homeless in the 1st place, unless that is what Gods plan for them is, but then they would already be walking with Christ and not care about someone talking to them about God! I swear some people are so lost and stupid it's scary. I think you all should just go back to talking about something else worthless and stupid like "brangelina". America was founded so that we would have the freedom to practice whatever "religion" (for lack of a better word you nitwits would understand) we want. Why does everyone all of a sudden have a problem with christianity??? Why not focus on conservative muslims who beat their wives??? at least Christianity teaches people to love and forgive not hate and get revenge!
Posted by anne drivdahl on 07/20/2009 @ 07:45PM PT
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Drivel from Drivdahl "at least Christianity teaches people to love and forgive not hate and get revenge!" I suppose if I counted all the Christians in America who hated Muslims and wanted revenge it would only take one hand... It's millions Anne. millions of Christians in America HATE and want REVENGE! But I suppose those aren't really Christians are they.
Posted by Dale Walker on 07/20/2009 @ 08:14PM PT
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I have run a homeless feeding program that also provides help for housing and other life necessities. We are Jewish based and NEVER prosthelytize and we help any one who knocks on our door. So your point is?
Yes there are some organizations who do preech, but maybe the homeless are a "captive" audeince, so that is sad. Still, the only service providers in downtown Los Angeles(the largest homeless population in the country) are christian based and do a lot of preeeching, so that is a sad situation to me and there sould be a moral obligation from the state to provide services for the homeless.
Posted by Lindsay Hirsch on 07/20/2009 @ 09:04PM PT
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I was once in a class where the professor said that more people have been killed in the name of religion than for any other cause.
Posted by Jane Rodriguez on 07/20/2009 @ 10:33PM PT
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What is wrong with sharing your religion with others? Isnt that freedom of expression? I have never heard of an institution requiring a person to accept a religion before they are helped. This is extremist language that makes it sound like homeless people have to be baptised before they can eat a free meal. I dont see any problem with someone sharing with a homeless person their motivation for wanting to help fellow humans.
If you are so concerned about Christian service providers, maybe you should provide your own services. Christians have an interest in spreading their message. When someone offers me a free cruise or laptop, I know that there is probably a timeshare presentation in my future. Its the nature of free things.
I think that requiring someone to attend church before they can have a meal is wrong, but if someone offers me a free bed and food, I would be happy to listen to what they have to say about their motivation. No one should be required to accept a religion, but if you walk into a Christian charity, you should expect to hear something about Christianity. You dont have to join, but it would be nice if you didnt attack someone for talking about something that means a lot to them.
Posted by Ben Alter on 07/21/2009 @ 03:57PM PT
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Very well stated, Ben Alter. Thank you!
Posted by Ngai Moko on 07/21/2009 @ 04:08PM PT
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Ben Alter asked "If you are so concerned about Christian service providers, maybe you should provide your own services."
Hey Ben, I do provide my own services and have for several years.
Many Christian service providers operate effectively without evangelizing.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/23/2009 @ 11:04AM PT
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I realize that you provide your own services, Dominic. But how would you like it if someone told you that you were only allowed to donate food to homeless people? You wouldnt be allowed to speak or interact with them in any way when you did so. You might as well just be handing them change on the street as you pass. There is no compassion there. You want to talk with the people youre helping, because you want to make a difference in their lives and see the result.
Its the same for a Christian. The only difference is, God is the most important thing to a Christian. So obviously, a Christian would talk about God. It doesnt have to be about forcing a result, forcing someone to accept God, or forcing someone to adopt a religion. It should just be about helping a human, and in the meanwhile, talking to them and sharing your feelings. Why do you want to silence these people?
and Grace E Graham said "It doesn't say make sure you convert them at the same time..." I never said that either. I am agreeing that requiring compliance with a religion in exchange for food is wrong. But I am saying that if someone offers you something, who would respond with, "As long as you dont talk to me or tell me who you are."? I am not out of line if I tell someone that I am passing along something that was given to me. Maybe someone was kind to me in the past and I am giving you food in honor of them. Or maybe someone gave me true inner peace and I am sharing it with you in honor of them. Is one of those wrong? Are they both wrong? Is it only wrong when the source of my peace is a popular world religion? What kind of standard is that?
Posted by Ben Alter on 07/24/2009 @ 11:25AM PT
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Sharing is fine. Forcing your beliefs on others is not. When my government chose to give a large amount of funds that were previously spread out among providers of services, to faith based organizations(by the way, very little of the funds go to non-Christian "faith based"orgs.) they took it away from other human service providers. In buffalo, New York, this leaves other organizations unable to provide services. It would be fine if that left the low income community with a choice about where to go for services. That is not the case. By giving away so much to the "faith based orgs." they have limited the capacity of non-faith based and even some other non-Christian service providers and non-right wing Christian providers to be able to provide services. Of course there is always more need than there are services, so people are basically forced to endure this discrimination or in many cases, go without. What would you do if you were hungry? I have a child. I would endure what ever I had to to keep him from going hungry or living in the street. That doesn't make it right. If I had a choice between taking him to a shelter where he would be treated with dignity or a shelter where he would be made to feel deficient and immoral, I would choose dignity. Unfortunately, the funds have been diverted to places where he must be told that he is morally deficient in order to be fed . Thank the God and Jesus of my understanding that I've never had to take him to a shelter. I'm so grateful for those who have come before me to advocate for poor people's rights. Because of their efforts, I will graduate in a year. I will be able to work and help others. My child is in the gifted and talented program of his school. This is largely due to help from all of those who provided needed services. Many thanks to Early Intervention,Catholic Charities, Jewish family services, his public school(which respects all cultures and religions) and the Head Start Program of Erie County for that! I thank them all for providing services without requiring us to submit to a religious agenda. As far as God goes, my kid knows the important thing. God is love-period!!
Posted by robin tulley on 07/29/2009 @ 01:30AM PT
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The God and Jesus of your understanding? See, this is the reason that I no longer consider myself a Christian. Because Christianity is dying. Everybody thinks that because they feel something, it comes from God and should therefore be incorporated into their religion. And then once everyone goes and creates their own religion, they get mad at "fundamental" Christians who simply follow the direct teachings of the Bible and tell them that just because they like something that the Bible is against, it doesnt mean they should do it. God came from a religion, that began with the Bible. You dont get to make up a person that you would like to hang out with and call them God. If you believe in God, you have to at the very least base your belief in something that you didnt come up with on your own. Otherwise, the only thing you are worshiping is yourself.
I have a child as well. And I do not believe in the Bible as it is written, and am therefore not a Christian. I do not believe in God. But I am willing to accept the fact that maybe God talked to humans at some point. I doubt it, but that is my personal decision and I will not force others to accept my view. I also refuse to compromise by making my own religion. So I take my child to church, one of the few who believes that the Bible is truth given by God and we can not add to it or subtract from it. If she hears and believes, I will be happy to support her. If she decides its a waste of time, I will not force her to go.
But above all, I will not decide for other people what they should believe. I think that people should have a chance to hear Gods message as it is in the Bible, and have a choice to accept it or reject it. But I will never try to silence people who are trying to tell the truth, and I will never tolerate people who think that a contrived religion is as legitimate as all the others. The fact is, either God existed or he didnt. If he existed, his message is in the Bible. If the Bible is not true, then THERE IS NO GOD. If you dont believe in the God of the Bible, stop wasting your time legitimizing your made up religion.
Posted by Ben Alter on 07/31/2009 @ 12:14PM PT
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Dominic,
First off, I love the impassioned discussion your article has touched off!
Question for you: Do you see any acceptable way that religious people helping homeless people can also evangelize or share their beliefs without it being an abuse of power? I think it's possible, but I also think that you're right that a lot of abuse of power occurs.
Posted by Ngai Moko on 07/22/2009 @ 06:13AM PT
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Ngai Moko asked “Do you see any acceptable way that religious people helping homeless people can also evangelize or share their beliefs without it being an abuse of power? I think it's possible, but I also think that you're right that a lot of abuse of power occurs.”
If you agree that it’s important to avoid an abuse of power, and it’s about their journey – not yours…
Then it should only come up if they raise it, then you should ask them what church they have had contact with in their past. If they want to know more they can reconnect with their church of origin.
That way it’s about their journey with their church, disconnected from the position of power you are in.
If your beliefs include serving the poor and alleviating suffering you can do that through your actions without narrating to anyone about why you are doing it or what journey you are on. I’m sure you have heard ‘They will know we are Christians by our love.” Actions are more powerful than words… and actions without the evangelical narration are the most powerful.
There are a lot of Christian service providers that do good work with the homeless and provide important services, but they don’t evangelize. You will also notice that these service providers tend to operate much more professional services than those that evangelize.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/22/2009 @ 06:51AM PT
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Well said. I think your original article gave some the impression that you're anti-Christian, and you're clearly not.
I'm reminded of the expression, "Preach the Gospel; use words if necessary." Christians are called to meet physical needs and serve unconditionally - cf. Matthew 25.
I would add, and you may disagree, that if the services are provided by a Christian organization, it may be possible for them to say prayers publicly or have public worship available, as long as the physical services provided are never conditional and the faith services are always optional. Even so, this must be done delicately to honor the beliefs of those receiving services, and to not make them feel that you are forcing religious beliefs in any way. But I think you can welcome people to religious expressions without making them feel obligated or forced.
Posted by Ngai Moko on 07/22/2009 @ 07:18AM PT
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this is the last time i try to care about one of these stupid articles about "whats going on in the world" all of this is trivial crap to the underlying real problems going on and that is the true uneducation of this world. Im gonna keep it short and simple JESUS IS THE WAY, thats all there is to it, thats all you need to know, if you don't like it fine! I really don't care, I have the one thing i need to fulfill my life and i am happy. Everywhere you look everyone is looking for something to fill that "void" in their lives, that void can only be filled by jesus Christ himself, nothing else will satisfy, and thats a promise. One day every tongue will confess he is God, sadly for many of you it will be too late. I officially resign myself from caring about the world in which you all live in, and live in the real one with my Jesus.
Posted by anne drivdahl on 07/22/2009 @ 02:30PM PT
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Beautiful stuff Anne.
Parody is always difficult, especially when trying to mimic the rant of a mentally disturbed, religious fool. In one short paragraph you have surpassed my expectations of entertainment. Of particular note was, "I officially resign myself from caring about the world in which you all live in, and live in the real one with my Jesus," pure gold, bravo!
"Live in the real world, with my Jesus" I haven't laughed like that in years. Thank-you.
Posted by Orion Nebula on 07/22/2009 @ 08:44PM PT
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Yeah, "Jesus is the way," right, this most fictional of fictional characters has been the way of the deluded for the past 2000 years, and look where it's got us. I suggest that all here who profess to believe in Jesus, in any way, shape, or form to stop foisting your delusions on the sane among us. Seriously, we do live in the 21rst Century, don't we??
Most children give up the belief in Santa before any adult tells them he isn't real, because they can see through the bullshite, and yet we have grown people who can't reason out with all the proof that exists- or doesn't exist- that God is not real.
Who is the most altruistic, the Atheist who works at a homeless shelter without the belief in a heavenly reward for doing so, or the religious zealot who is trying to earn their immortality by gaining favor with a blood lustful deity?
I am better than god; I wouldn't have destroyed my own creation in a flood, and I wouldn't allow poverty to exist. If I was god, there would be no wars, famines or disease, because I CARE!
Does anybody even read the bible anymore? Jesus didn't even try to eradicate poverty, instead he waffled on about how important HE WAS, and said, "feck the poor, the poor will always be with us," and in that he was god damn right! Methinks that must have been a prophecy, and if it was, that means god is behind all the poverty we see, what a bastard!
Read the NT again, and just hear the tripe Jesus espoused, the man (according to the good book) was so self-absorbed with talking about his return (that will never happen) whilst simultaneously praising his sky daddy who was later to have him tortured and sacrificed, "gee, thanks dad!" I mean Jesus was so dull in his lunatic ravings and rants that he had to entertain his followers with a few magic tricks just to keep their attention. I personally like the water into wine trick, one can never have enough wine, can they lord? Amen!
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Seriously, "Jesus is the way" what does that really mean? Allah is the way too, so is Buddha; ‘Tis so sad, so many people with daddy issues that they need to invent a fake one in the sky to fill the void and meet the needs that their real daddy's didn't give them.
Posted by T C on 07/23/2009 @ 05:08AM PT
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Mike C. - I don't believe in HELL. Oooh big bad death gona get ya. I don't want to live forever. If I'm going to buy a lottery ticket, where's the money coming from??? Help yourself?
Anne D. - You don't know many Muslims, do you? I have some in my family. You can't use absolutes referring to human beings. Diversity is life. Without diversity comes devastating genetic mutations. Different human personalities clash but we need each other.
Jane R. - That I believe. The Crusades and the Salem witch hunts are just 2 examples. By the way the Crusades show it by both Muslims and Christians. Ritual murder has been part of man's history with religion as well.
Lindsay H. - I wish there were more programs like that in my area.
Ben A. - have you ever been hungry, without money and the means to get it, in a place away from home? If I showed up at the free dinners locally after the service, missing the message they want me to hear, I wouldn't expect a place at the table. Sitting through the service is the price paid for the meal. I wouldn't be surprised if it's the same all over. Why should I buy religion as the price for a meal. I don't go to the free dinners for this reason. I am uncomfortable being there. The Bible tells Christians to care for their neighbors. It doesn't say make sure you convert them at the same time, unless you have a newer "translation"(interpretation of an interpretation of an interpretation...etc).
Ngai M. - Thank you.
Posted by Grace E Graham on 07/22/2009 @ 10:00PM PT
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"It doesn't say make sure you convert them at the same time..." I never said that either. I am agreeing that requiring compliance with a religion in exchange for food is wrong. But I am saying that if someone offers you something, who would respond with, "As long as you dont talk to me or tell me who you are."? I am not out of line if I tell someone that I am passing along something that was given to me. Maybe someone was kind to me in the past and I am giving you food in honor of them. Or maybe someone gave me true inner peace and I am sharing it with you in honor of them. Is one of those wrong? Are they both wrong? Is it only wrong when the source of my peace is a popular world religion? What kind of standard is that?
Posted by Ben Alter on 07/24/2009 @ 11:27AM PT
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Ben, I wasn't quoting any specific person. The conversion piece was written into the bible but not in those words. In the Bible it's basically go and share what Jesus said. Distilled version. I am well aware of what the Bible says. I was indoctrinated from birth through adulthood. If I go into a food pantry or soup kitchen, I know not to make eye contact or speak to the servers, because I know what so many of them will start talking about. I don't want to discuss religion, of any kind, while I eat or wait for food to get through a period where I have no means to get "enough". That's my prerogative. If you want to talk about your faith there are places where like minded people gather that you can go to. Why should I 'HAVE TO' listen to it at a time and place where I can't walk away if I don't want to listen without losing out on the reason I came? Can't I just do what I came there to do and leave, if that's what I want to do? Some days when I go to the soup kitchen my sugar is low. Communication at that point is not a good idea. Delays getting food in me, not a good idea. Once I've eaten I may say something to someone, but I still don't want to talk about faith of any kind. Thinking about it Ben, do you talk to people about other things? I don't have a problem talking about other things, weather, news, the food I ate or am taking home, some of my family, sometimes some of my history. I came to acknowledge to myself some years ago that different people have different beliefs and my beliefs aren't everybodys but I don't have to pretend to believe what others believe to be acceptable or accepted. I believe what I believe and others believe what they believe and though I may listen to them sometimes as a friendly ear I still believe in quantum physics and I know that conservation of energy prevents the destruction of "life" because it is a form of energy and energy can neither be created nor destroyed. The law of conservation of energy has been proven. I don't want to listen to stories about a paradise after death. I don't believe in it. I don't want to listen to anyone go on and on about their faith when I am miserable and scared and hungry because I'm not of a mind to hear it. Not that I'm of a mind to hear it in general. When I'm there I'm focused on the reasons I have come to the place where I'm standing and the place where I'm going next. It becomes an invasion of my personal space, in this case mental space, though sometimes physical as well. There are too many places that think it's their duty to "spread the gospel". I wish you could step on the other side of the looking glass Ben. I wish you could see how it can be an invasion. People generally wont ask you to not talk about your religion. They do that because they are afraid they wont get their needs met if they do. What's the cost? Dignity? A lack of basic needs? Hearing about a faith? What's the cost? And who's paying it?
Posted by Grace E Graham on 07/28/2009 @ 09:04PM PT
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I also want to apologize if i jumped a little bit off topic. lol sorry i do get a little carried away. Yall say that they should house them instead of putting them in a shelter. Do you realise how much that would cost. It is alot cheaper to provide a shelter than to provide each inividual or their family with housing.
Posted by Daniel Fuller on 07/22/2009 @ 10:31PM PT
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Do you realize though that for a person to ever exit homelessness one of the things necessary is HOUSING? That's a thing very sorely lacking, especially if you're talking about AFFORDABLE housing and you're talking about the U.S. - we may have a lot of middle and upper middle class housing sitting empty thanks to foreclosure, but we have a very dire shortage of affordable housing where privately rented housing at affordable rates is hard to come by and often slum-like and public housing or housing assistance tends to require a wait of YEARS (if you can get on the wait list at all).
Besides, have you even been in a shelter? Sure, shelters are cheaper in money costs, but what about human costs? We're not talking about cattle that can be kept inside just about any fencing or laundry that's happy in any old closet - these are PEOPLE. People need a decent level of shelter even in an "emergency shelter" or "homeless shelter". I've stayed in shelters so horrid that if they were places for stray animals, someone would fight to close them down as inhumane - but it's OK for people. How did we reach such a point? It shouldn't be OK to warehouse people inhumanely with no chance to ever escape to a real home again - and particularly not when you consider what all too many shelters are like. I still have nightmares about my last shelter stay, the place was THAT bad.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/22/2009 @ 10:52PM PT
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I have never been homeless but I've had friends who have and their terrible experiences with shelters and sermons are similar to what people have shared here.
I am pushing 70 and do not believe that my individual identity survives this "all there is." I think of death as the final adventure when I will find out for myself even if all I find is the nothingness I expect. I have lived a life serving and giving to others so I fear not the judgement of a god, if one exists. What I most fear is the homelessness and suffering that people here have experienced. The suffering of others has always bothered me which is why I have not spent my life pursuing wealth although I was set up to be one of the "masters of the universe."
I have known and know truly religious people who do what they can to help people and will only talk about their religion if asked to and religious people have shared here about their dislike of evangelizing the homeless. But there are also a lot of non-religious people who also try to help people. Empathy and compassion are not dependent on any religion or "ism" but are dependent on the mental health of an individual.
What religious people call evil I call illness. Since the agrarian revolution some 12,000 years ago the same hierarchical system has prevailed which favors the sociopathic. Someday when we are finally civilized, if the human race does not destroy itself, both individual and societal illness will be treated and the reign of the sociopath will be a thing of our savage past. But we can only get there if enough of us help each other without strings attached.
It's not what people believe it's what people do that counts.
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Posted by R. C. Wilson on 07/23/2009 @ 12:10AM PT
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As I recall, last November, we chose Obama to take care of these inequalities and manipulations of power to exploit those in need. Any program that the U.S. sponsors, any where in the world, should never have any kinds of strings attached. Otherwise, we are hypocrites, saying we respect the freedom of religion on one hand, and controling people on the other.
that's just wrong, Obama needs to do something about it.
Posted by CherokeeGirl for Change on 07/24/2009 @ 09:17AM PT
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Totally agree. If a homeless shelter or aid program receives government funding, it should not be promoting religion of any kind. That's not to say that the residents or aid recipients should be actively prevented from requesting or promoting.
Separation of state from church, FTW!
Posted by Chris Meacham on 07/24/2009 @ 11:06AM PT
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One of the major homeless shelters in Buffalo, New York is run by a Pentacostal group. The city Mission has a women's shelter called Cornerstone Manor. I was there for a while. We had to attend an early morning church service or we could not eat breakfast! I am not particularly fond of their version of Christianity. It felt bad enough to be homeless. I really didn't need to hear about what a sinner I was just to be able to eat breakfast! Did I mention that they do recieve some government funding? I am also a Social Work student in Buffalo. I'm apalled and disgusted that the BSW students in my school(quite a few actually) don't have a problem with this. Some of them openly and proudly support it! They defend this religious group by saying "they are helping people". No kids, they are discriminating against a vulnerable population. It's opportunistic and it's wrong!!! What ever happened to seperation of church and state? I'm a Lutheran by the way, and have been to many Catholic service providers and Jewish service providers. They have never forced their religious views on me as a condition of receiving services. How do the Pentacostals get away with this? Didn't Obama appoint a Pentacostal to oversee "faith based organizations"? What happened to change?
Posted by robin tulley on 07/25/2009 @ 11:37PM PT
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Thanks for your comment Robin, you will make a good Social Worker.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/26/2009 @ 01:10PM PT
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Thank you Dominick. Thanks to Cherokee Girl also. It's so predictable that supporters of this type of discrimination resort to such drama as accusing me of hating Christians. It's also pretty dumb to use A.A. as an example. The preamble of A.A. states that A.A. is NOT ALLIED WITH ANY SECT, DENOMINATION,ORGANIZATION OR INSTITUTION. If you want to talk success rates Andrew, then A.A. is a fine example of how people can be helped by tolerance and acceptance instead of the my way or else approach so easily adopted by the same group who cries foul when their right to religious freedom is compromized in some manner( by the way, I don't think that it's o.k. to do that either). The Salvation Army has helped me a few times and I didn't have to listen to any sermons. I have never lived in a S.A. shelter, so I can't comment on that. I have been to pick up clothing from the City Mission that was mentioned in my previous post. We waited in the cold winter weather until we were herded in like cattle. The volunteers for the church treated us more like delinqents than people in need. They actually shouted at people to stay in line, etc. We were herded into the church and told to sit in pews. They did not allow people to get up or move once seated. Some of these people were refugees from Croatia and other non-english speaking countries. I remember the confusion on their faces when having orders barked at them unkindly in a language they didn't understand. The "sermon" was one of the most negative and vitriolic speeches that I ever heard. I remember thinking that it was probably for the best that the refugees could not understand English. After we had been properly chastized for being sinners, they "allowed" us to go and pick out the much needed clothing. I have no problem with humility, but humiliation is a different thing. Now close your eyes and imagine that a close family member who doesn't share the belief system of those folks is desperate enough to have to go there for clothing that would keep them from freezing to death. Imagine your Mom or Dad being treated that way. Is that a problem for you, or do you think that Mom is getting just what she desrves? Human beings have the right to dignity. I choose what is harmful or offensive to me-not others. I define what dignity means to me. Every human being is entitled to choose these things. For the person who said that they don't concern themself with things they can't change, all I can say is wow! If everyone thought that they couldn't change issues of social injustice, many of us who wrote in would not have been able to do so. We wouldn't know how to write!
Posted by robin tulley on 07/28/2009 @ 11:06PM PT
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Dominic, it seems you have had a pile on from the so called "christians". First of all, anyone who has a hidden agenda when giving someone a meal should be ashamed of themselves. I saw one post said "i like to hang around and share my beliefs with them.." well isn't that special?! That's CONDITIONAL giving, and it should be no more. PERIOD
Posted by CherokeeGirl for Change on 07/28/2009 @ 10:55AM PT
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I have to be honest--I am shocked at the tone of this article and this conversation. It stereotypes all Christians into one group, and some of the language used in this discussion borders on hate speech.
The most renound management guru of the 20th century said of the Salvation Army, "The Salvation Army is by far the most effective organization in the U.S. No one even comes close to it in respect to clarity of mission, ability to innovate, measurable results, dedication and putting money to maximum use."
Promoting hate toward faith-based organizations alienates many of the groups that you need to be partnering with--especially people of color. If you don't understand the connection between faith and people of color, then you might want to check out my article at http://www.urbanministry.org/nonprofitdiversity
All 12-step programs like Alcoholics Anonymous have several of their steps that involve faith. Many faith-based recovery programs have essentially the same requirement as these programs.
Your tone risks alienating faith-based organizations where two thirds of Black and Latino nonprofit leaders operate. That may not be an issue in Australia, but it is a big issue in the United States and it is a big issue globally.
There are too many secular missionaries that are following the the "bad missionary model" but with a new name. They fail to recognize that globally, 97.5% of people profess some faith. Often by having restrictions on faith, these organizations think that they are blocking right-wing religious groups like Jerry Fallwell, but in reality they are usually blocking Black and Latino religious leaders that could become the next Martin Luther King, Jr.
Posted by Andrew Sears on 07/28/2009 @ 05:11PM PT
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who's promoting hate towards faith-based organizations? The reference to the Salvation Army is appropriate, because, according to a post on here, they don't preach...BUT they still help people anyways.
Robin's reference of being herded into a church and treated like sinners is chilling. I better not ever see that on my watch. Shameful.
There's a cold place in hell for those...
Posted by CherokeeGirl for Change on 07/29/2009 @ 11:09AM PT
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Andrew, are you saying that I'm a racist because I don't agree with your "version" of Christianity? Hmmmm? I will have to tell my African American friends this one! You are really too much! Faith is not defined by one group you know? People have the right to choose what they belive in. People in need are no exception to this basic human right. If I knew that a person was being denied food or clothing or shelter because they were a fundamentalist Christian, I would be the first one to fight for their rights. I would fight for the rights of an Atheist as well. We are all part of the family of humanity. I have the right to disagree with my brothers and sisters just as they have the right to disagree with me. I do not believe that they should have the right to deny food or shelter based on willingness to have beliefs of others forced on them. Maybe I'm wrong or misinformed, but I was under the impression that devotion to Christ requires self sacrifice(not the sacrifice of those who do not appear to be properly indoctrinated according to the beliefs of ONE GROUP OF CHRISTIANS). I was alive and remember when the Reverend Martin Luther King(who is one of my personal heroes) was killed. Don't even go there Andrew. Faith based organizations who practice discrimination could use a little alienating. God knows they can dish that out neatly enough!
Posted by robin tulley on 07/28/2009 @ 11:42PM PT
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I must reply to what Danetta said about homeless shelters and an emergency shelter. If you have a medical need they won't let you in if you are a health risk due to the dirtiness of the shelter. I have just experienced this myself where I did not have something done because I didn't have an adequate place to recoup.
Homelessness sucks and anyone who cause any other human being to go through it should be ashamed! I did once and was hurt for years because of it but at least in the "true Christian Family" there is forgivness and COMpassion which needs to be shown to all people.
Posted by Paul Amschler on 07/29/2009 @ 03:39PM PT
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I must reply to what Danetta said about homeless shelters and an emergency shelter. If you have a medical need they won't let you in if you are a health risk due to the dirtiness of the shelter. I have just experienced this myself where I did not have something done because I didn't have an adequate place to recoup.
Homelessness sucks and anyone who cause any other human being to go through it should be ashamed! I did once and was hurt for years because of it but at least in the "true Christian Family" there is forgivness and COMpassion which needs to be shown to all people.
Posted by Paul Amschler on 07/29/2009 @ 03:39PM PT
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I have been reading these posts on homelessness or having them read to me and I have to say the troubling thing is everyone talks alot but they aren't willing to get there hands dirty. Here is one thing I will say then shut up quite typing and get off the oppsite of your lap and do something about it.
Posted by Paul Amschler on 07/30/2009 @ 12:17PM PT
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The other funny factoid is that more churches give to homlesness and those in poverty than any other group. Yes there are a few churches that have you sign your first born away just to get a tiny bit and then as Danetta said they give you a book to read. BUT as a whole the vast majority of churches give, durning Katrina they were some of the first on the ground giving aide and other places as well.
There are those who have lost their first love of God and there own family just to hurt them because they think the church has somehow wronged them so they take out their paranoia on those who love them. Or better put it is someone elses fault and not mine.
If you have to sit and listen to a sermon so what if that is going to get you food on your table or a bed to sleep in tonight at least the churches as a whole won't beat you over the head unless your a hard head.
We need to look beyond what we think of the church and the wrong you think they might have done you and press on to finish the race.
Posted by Paul Amschler on 07/30/2009 @ 01:33PM PT
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I think I'll just go for a joy ride instead of going to church.
Ah, truth out of the mouths of babes.
Posted by CherokeeGirl for Change on 07/30/2009 @ 01:47PM PT
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Chris M.-Nobody is saying that people should be denied religious freedom. I don't fill my car up with fuel at the Dentist's office. I go to the gas station for that. If people want to hear a sermon, a church service is the appropriate place for that. In part, the Magna Carta was written for the purpose of putting an end to abuse of power . Even in medieval times, religious leaders felt that baptism, marriage or conversion under duress or due to coercian was a violation of religious principles. They understood that people should come to God themselves. Dark Ages my butt.
Posted by robin tulley on 07/30/2009 @ 10:37PM PT
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In response to Anne D.-
Accepting handouts? Get over it? If you were drowning and I reached out my hand to help you stay above the water, would you want to listen to a sermon about how you are a bad person? Should I say that you are obligated to submit to my beliefs because I gave you a "handout"? Should I say "hey, dumbass, you should know how to swim"? How about"get over it free loader"? Do you think that after the elderly in America have collected their 5 years worth(yes, each person has actually only put in about 5 years worth of Social Security payments by retirement age)we should take their money away because it is actually the equivilent of a government handout funded by taxpayers after that? Sorry Nana, you shouldn't have gotton old, get over it. How about denying medical treatment to pedestrians who get hit by cars. Should they get treated? Should we only treat those who were struck while in a crosswalk. Hey, they should be able to cross the street properly, right? Do you think that poor people are to blame for their poverty? Are you a millionaire? You could be if you really tried, so why aren't you? Are you lazy?
Posted by robin tulley on 07/31/2009 @ 12:02AM PT
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Hey Ben,
It's o.k. that you don't believe in God. You sure do make a lot of assumptions though. I'm not "everybody" and furthermore, who died and made you boss of the "what constitutes a proper Christian" committe? I think the fundies already have that kind of thing covered. Wouldn't it be arrogant of people to tell you that you shouldn't be a non-believer because you don't fall in line with their belief about what is right and wrong thinking for non-believers?
Posted by robin tulley on 08/01/2009 @ 01:09AM PT
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There is no "what consititues a proper Christian" committe. Thats exactly what I was trying to say. If Christianity is a real religion worshipping a real God, then it is not a religion made up by people sitting around and deciding what makes a good religion.
Bottom line, Christianity is founded on the Bible, which Chrisitians believe to be the word of God. Therefore, if what you believe is not supported by the Bible, then it is something you made up on your own. And if it is something you made up on your own, why should Christians accept it? And if you dont believe that your beliefs should be accepted by others, what is the point in sharing them at all?
What I was trying to say is that religion is a "take it or leave it" deal. You can accept the teachings as truth, or you can disregard them completely. The problems that people blame on religion result from people who take a third option, and amend or interpret the teachings of a religion to accomplish their own personal ends.
What we are left with is millions of people who think they know who God is, but have never bothered to read the only record of God in existence. So we sit around and argue about what we think God wants for us. Whats the point? We have a choice, to accept the record of God as truth and follow it, or disregard it and do something else. Why are we bothering to argue about whether or not Christians can tell other people about Christianity? I think the whole ordeal is a waste of time, including the words Im writing now, but what do we, personally, have to lose if someone is telling other people about their religion? And if we start telling people that they cant talk about religion, what comes next? Taking away the right to free speech is a slippery slope, regardless of the subject that begins the descent. That is my bottom line. Go ahead, make up any God or religion you want to. But dont try to say that other people cant talk about the God they made up. Or even the one that mightve written the Bible. Because we have a right to share what we believe, whether it has hundreds of years of documentation supporting it, or if it is just the most recent idea that you came up with.
Posted by Ben Alter on 08/04/2009 @ 12:43PM PT
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Well done Ben Alter, great post mate, excellent!
Posted by T C on 08/04/2009 @ 05:46PM PT
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I meant your opening statements; as far as all of us having "the right to share what we believe," well that's just utter tripe. Christians, who preach to a captive audience i.e. the homeless, are not "sharing" mate, they are TELLING!
It's a shame; you started off so eloquently and with such coherence that I prematurely gave you kudos. I didn't think I had to read any further given your opening paragraph. To my embarrassment I have to amend my complimentary post, or rather, retract it.
Now, if I told you that you had to teach your children Santa Clause was a real person way into their adult lives, regardless of the evidence to the contrary, and that the Santa religion had to be taught in schools and that there were places erected to worships good old Saint Nicolas, would you accept it? Would you allow schools and homeless shelters to preach to you that Santa is indeed a truth and was a being who
... knows when you are sleeping, and knows when you've been bad... so be GOOD for GOODNESS sake... (Do you notice something familiar in these song lyrics you religious folk)?
What would you think then Ben? I guess you are saying, "That's just silly," well it's not! It has been going on for centuries in the form of all kinds of religions. Am I the only one that thinks this is unhealthy, I mean to base your beliefs on lies?? Americans have a peculiar way of rationalizing their god to the point that he is purely an American god, and he simply must speak with an American accent to boot. As an ex Aussie Christian I used to say that American Christians worshipped an American Jesus! Boy! Am I glad I have truly seen the light!
Religion keeps people locked into a fallacy and it has NEVER been good for human or animal kind. The so called "good" Christians in history are by far a minority, and almost all of the wars of mankind can be traced back to religion! Adolph Hitler was a Christian occultist and look where freedom of speech got him, He became a god to zee fatherland! John Bradshaw has said that the (sheep like) mentality of the Americans of today makes America ripe to become just like Nazi Germany, he's not saying that it will, if you are smart enough, you should be able to put the pieces together and work out what Bradshaw means by his statement, or do I have to write an expose?
In Australia Santa is known as Father Christmas, does that sound familiar too, something like, "Father God"
If all the Christians who have called other Christians "not really a Christian" were to vanish, there'd be no Christians left. Amen to the latter!
Posted by T C on 08/04/2009 @ 06:45PM PT
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Laura K.- You are quite right. Helping others should come naturally. I have also been helped by people of faith and they were members of fundamentalist type churches. They were also ethical people. They did not preach to me, but we had discussions about our beliefs. They were good people who helped me without pushing their religious agenda on me. I'll always remember them. When I thanked them, they did not ask me to convert in repayment. Their only request was that I help someone else in need when I am able. The world would be a better place if there were more people who were ethical enough to help people in need without assuming that they need or want to be converted to the "fundamentalist industry".
Posted by robin tulley on 08/01/2009 @ 01:42AM PT
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Hey folks,
I really shouldn't have even started debating religion. It's not the point here. The point is that it is dehumanizing and demoralizing to be told that you HAVE to go sit in a pew at 8 a.m. every day and listen to a sermon or else you can't eat breakfast. I don't think that you would like having someone stand over your shoulder every morning to make sure that you brush your teeth properly or be denied dental care. How about if you were refused medical treatment because you drank too much coffee today? We are talking about people who have no home, no money, and no bus fare to even go to another soup kitchen for their meal. I can understand a religious facility asking(not demanding) that people say grace before a meal that they are providing ( Kudos to the Loaves and Fishes Dining Room of Buffalo New York for asking nothing-just providing), but we are talking about women with children and babies. Some of them are there to escape brutal abuse! A young woman who was a resident when I was at the shelter that made us go to church was a 19 year old who had her boyfriend stomp her belly until their baby that she carried was killed. The young woman almost lost her life as well. Do you think that what she needed at that time was a daily sermon about being a sinner? If there were more shelters in Buffalo, people would not have to go there, but most end up there out of desperation. For those who don't mind it, fine, go there. It's just really upsetting that the city mission of Buffalo and the cornerstone manor which is run by the same people, are able to receive government funds to further their agenda. I would rather see the money go to other shelters and soup kitchens that don't require people to be force fed their religious beliefs. There are lots of religious groups who respect the diverse population of people in the city of Buffalo. Unfortunately, they have to give up some of their funding to right wing conservative so called Christian groups. Did anyone watch the CNN newscast about how government reps. were being chased into the parking lots outside of town hall meetings today? This was because they supported Obama's health care for all. I'm really scared by the ignorance and greed and hatefulness towards anyone who even suggests that we should care about those less fortunate. What would Jesus do INDEED!
Posted by robin tulley on 08/05/2009 @ 11:22PM PT
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http://PaulAndrewAnderson.org/homeless.html
http://PaulAndrewAnderson.org/poverty.html
Posted by Paul Andrew Anderson on 08/06/2009 @ 03:19PM PT
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we have a church who requires prayer for food and another one required hour bible study for (maybe) a shower.
one shelter rigorous intake process access by thier md thier phd - all pray before dinner and jesus is the way. you also must be able.
Even though this county has big jewish and muslim and disabled populations and though built on donated fed land given to a city. CIVIL RIGHTS ARE A JOKE for the homeless and this is private funded .
those hired to advocate for disabled and homeless are failures too. most free legal comes Right out and says we don't know HUD ADA or 504 or we only do certain high profile class actions.
Homeless disabled individuals are low profile.
Posted by DARLENE MATTHEWS on 08/09/2009 @ 11:17AM PT
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dear ben
Last thing i want to hear is after being left out in the road multi disabled for years ( most religious are the worst to the disabled and those with special needs) by those very hypocrits is their propaganda. (pretend) to believe or starve.
i starved.
Posted by DARLENE MATTHEWS on 08/09/2009 @ 11:22AM PT
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