Shelters Fix House-lessness, Not Homelessness
Published July 23, 2009 @ 07:18AM PT

Hang-on what? Houselessness? Does that mean there are ‘Houseless People?' How are they different to ‘Homeless People?'
If I define Houselessness as ‘an inadequate experience of shelter,' (tangible) and the simple way of fixing that was to provide adequate shelter... how many ‘homeless people' would be left if we just provided adequate housing for the houseless?
There would still be some people whose experience wasn't just an inadequate experience of shelter, a great majority of them actually.
Why? Because homelessness is so much more than an inadequate experience of shelter. If fact shelter has absolutely nothing to do with homelessness.
I define Homelessness as ‘an inadequate experience of connectedness with family and or community.' (intangible). A very big swag of housed people experience this loneliness and isolation also.
You know how you hear on the news "A family is homeless tonight after their house in suburb ‘x' caught fire and despite fire fighter's efforts it was completely destroyed."
They aren't homeless! That family still has each other and all their social connectedness and contacts are still intact. A building was destroyed, nothing more. Ok, so they are houseless. They need shelter. But come on folks, they aren't homeless! The difference between that family and someone living on the streets is the level of connectedness they experience.
Misunderstanding homelessness and not even being aware of the difference to houselessness lets so many service providers down - and the people they serve.
Shelters should sit with the concept of houselessness and realize that is what they are responding to and the business they are in - providing shelter to houseless people.
While it wasn't the first application of the word houselessness... when the U.N. started using the word back in 2000, I thought a lot more service providers would catch on. Sabine Springer, a researcher at the United Nations Centre for Human Settlements wrote: "Homelessness: A proposal for a Global Definition and Classification." (sorry can't find the full text online anymore - drop a link in the comments section if you can and I'll add the link in here).
Sabine pointed to the fact that homelessness is a term burdened with many possible meanings. The U.N., in its data collection and research efforts, then started to use the term "houselessness" instead. Because she said - ‘While homelessness is not just a housing problem, it is always a housing problem.'
I've been banging on about houselessness since the mid nineties (sorry Sabine) and I'm sure others were well before my little brain wrapped itself around the concept. I'd like to go further than Sabine and say Houselessness isn't just a better word - it's a separate and different thing to homelessness.
Houselessness is a liberating word if we can use it to drag our thinking on shelter into one room and say O.K. if houselessness is one thing, and we strip the concept of shelter from the word homelessness... what is left for homelessness to cover if it no longer applies to needing shelter?
As I said earlier, let's understand homelessness as an inadequate experience of connectedness with family and or community.
Question 1. What service providers focus on increasing people's experience of family and community connectedness?
Question 2. What service providers working with people living on the streets focus on this issue?
Some of you may be thinking ‘So they just need some friends right? What's the big deal?' It's bigger than that. Living on the margins of society and being on the outer and ‘separate from' is a massive deal.
[See making mainstream friends after long-term homelessness.]
Someone living on the streets could have contact with 30 plus people per week who are paid to have contact with them, but that isn't a genuine experience of connectedness.
Sitting in public space they are ignored, feel invisible and unwelcome by the public.
For anyone living on the streets the concept of not belonging to mainstream society is an entirely logical conclusion. Living on the streets every day there are so many responses and interactions that just reinforce that negative. ‘You don't belong with us.'
Shelter by itself is an adequate response to houselessness. Further ‘wrap around' services are needed to address mental health, drug and alcohol abuse and all the other issues. But so many of these service providers overlook the need for connectedness.
The sector overlooks the need to gain social connectedness and doesn't understand how central it is to alleviating ‘homelessness.'
If you are a service provider, how could your current offering be added to so you responded more directly to the lack of connectedness with family and community that people living on the streets experience?
Example: Got a soup kitchen? Roster a group of volunteers on to sit and eat with your guests and get to know them, not just dish out the food "Hi - here you go - next."
I always include a mention of the Homeless Forums at the end of my posts here, but for this post the invitation for current and formerly homeless people to join and connect with each other around the world is very pertinent to the post. You can list the Homeless Forums as one service in your answers to questions 1 and 2 above.
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Dominic Mapstone is a Social Worker who has worked with homeless people since 1994. He is Director of Rebeccas Community, an Australian non-profit, and admin at the International Homeless Forum. He is biased entirely in favor of the street homeless perspective. He enjoys long walks on the beach so long as there is fishing involved.
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I hate to see issues like this painted with such a broad brush. There are many shelters that are much more than "homeless shelters". Our organization, the Winston-Salem Rescue Mission provides a temporary home for nearly 130 men at any given time and we focus on a holistic approach to recovery for these inidividuals. We offer a 90-day and two different levels of 1-year recovery and transformation programs for all residents. Job-skills, G.E.D. prep, life-skills, computer education classes, transportation, job and housing assistance, family reconciliation, etc, are part of the services we try to wrap around our resident's experience. We want to see complete transformation...not just offer band-aids. Are we perfect? Far from it, but there are many organizations like ours across the country who offer much more than you mention in your piece. I understand your issue with "homelessness" vs "houselessness"...I just really get discouraged when I see issues such as this lumping a large group together and not recognizing that there are folks carrying out impactful work, that truly is making a change.
Posted by Mike Foster on 07/23/2009 @ 08:23AM PT
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We operate an emergency shelter for homeless women and children in Birmingham, AL. I recently posted on our Facebook page that there is a difference between homelessness and houselessness--so this resonates with me. Even though we are "just an emergency shelter," we are doing SO MUCH more than providing a bed and a meal. We do four different grou therapies: art therapy, life skills, group therapy and movie therapy. We expanded our services to include three permanent supportive housing programs because we are committed to providing that SUPPORTIVE element to make real change in lives. But I think most people in this arena get this and know this. My goal is to edcuate the public about this. I do think this article can draw attention to that end. A housing authority can help give someone a house or apartment. But agencies like us --we are trying to help people find their way "home."
Posted by Deborah Everson on 07/23/2009 @ 09:05AM PT
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Great article - thanks for writing it!
Many people don't understand that it's not just about providing shelter/food/therapy/etc....it's about re-integrating people into their community without further separating husbands from wives and parents from children and singles from their friends and family.
Our country tends to value the rich and look down on the poor...no wonder our homeless struggle so desperately to get back on their feet. Not only do they feel isolated...we really do isolate "them" from "us"....and we don't even seem to realize we're doing it. Even those of us who want to help.
If it's our "job" or we're "volunteering" to help the homeless, we need to ask ourselves how we can help each person establish or maintain "community" for themselves. We need to help enable them to access the resources they need to survive...and eventually thrive.
Our approach to housing in this country is not working. We need to stop "warehousing" people and separating them from the community. It makes more sense to provide rentals (rooms/apartments/etc.) and require participation in programs that will help people live successfully on their own. Removing the stigma of homelessness and poverty will go a long way in helping people succeed.
Posted by Jody Mack on 07/23/2009 @ 06:48PM PT
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If you define the problem as "house-lessness" then you allow the existence of the sort of nightmarish situation I landed in where the abusive situation at the home I had left was literally cleaner and (more importantly) SAFER than the shelter itself - the streets of downtown Seattle quite likely might have been cleaner and safer also. For crying out loud, these are PEOPLE we are talking about in need of a place to stay - not books that need shelving or linens in search of closets. If you call it "house-lessness" then a "warehouse" is fine and filthy, dehumanizing, unsafe, inadequate, do not serve entire categories of populations (like the disabled) will be "fine". Are we as a society REALLY willing to settle for this? I know this much *I* am not.
What *I* needed back at that moment in time was not a filthy and unsafe place where I could not even get into the bed to which I had been assigned but a SAFE place (and preferably a clean one) where I could stay at all times - instead of checking in at night and out first thing each morning with no services of any remotely useful sort except on weekdays and that would eventually help me find my way into transitional housing and perhaps even a home of my own again. Instead, I got scared witless to such a point I literally KNEW that I was safer at home with my abuser, despite things having been so bad he was the reason I had left home.
We treat animals with more dignity - and in many cases provide more money for their care. Something is very wrong with this.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/23/2009 @ 10:54PM PT
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You've made some real points, but I have to wonder how priority they are, more pragmatically.
After all, such diminishing "family and community connectedness" may very well be somewhat pandemic anymore... including untold numbers of folks that have been continuously well housed. Isolation has been growing, as have sufferings of lonesomeness across many socio/econo/demo/psychographics.
Personally, I have found that, since I've been "homeless" there's been a growing gulf betwixt me and others I know to varying extents that are housed... which wasn't a problem before my status changed. And, people do tend to associate socially and otherwise more with others in fairly common circumstance and concerns. So I've found that I've become all the more "connected" to "the homeless community" on that basis. Not to mention ongoing daily proximities. But also, ironically enough, other homeless people are among the MOST truly, responsively and manifestly helpful, in many ways, compared to those that are MUCH better off. They both fully comprehend the real needs and also need willingly reciprocal allies.
It's also increasingly difficult to see or feel a depth of "connectedness" with anyone, even the most intentionally "friendly" people that blithely wellwish one to "have a good night!"... knowing you're going to go sleep on a sidewalk, while they go home. Spend a moment with that poignant moment and the real dynamics.
I couldn't be more aware of the range of persons and status' and conditions among all unhoused/unhomed. Yet, the kind of distinction you strike may be more obfuscating than pertinently actionable. For instance, that kind of "connectedness" probably isn't so much a result of formalized "programs" or the like.
You've demonstrated a real insight, in your encouraging people to actually personally visit and speak with people at dinners, instead of just herd us "poor unfortunates" through without such usual social contact with "hosts". But ANY degree of "forced" conversation, or performance, can have a decidenly opposite effect, too. At least for some of us.
I can't know how many others I may speak for here, but please allow me to emphatically urge:
"Help me get off the streets into some minimally decent, realistically functional housing and I'll ALSO be able to "connect" with everything and everyone else MUCH better, as a direct result. And on my own. Just as I always have."
In fact, I wouldn't be surprise at all to also thereby be receiving quite more personal invitations to others' homes, too. Like "before".
Posted by SlumJack Homeless on 07/24/2009 @ 09:27PM PT
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SlumJack - You made some great points. I agree that we need to get you and everyone else off the streets - or out of dangerous/unhealthy shelter/housing situations - and into safe rentals. Many poor who are not currently homeless are in awful housing - not much above the streets - it seems that we, as a society, need to shift our priorities and realize that everybody matters - not just the rich. We all deserve a safe place to live, nutritious food, clean clothes, access to medical care and something to "do" that we (as individuals) feel adds value to the world. It's not surprising that in our "throw-away" society we dismiss people too - but, it's disappointing and hard to understand/deal with!
At a local church event last Christmas, there was a free "give-away" to the poor in our area. Other than checking in people at the main desk, nobody spoke with any of the "poor". They "herded" people into groups and sent them into a big room to choose 3-4 "gifts" for the holidays. Fifteen minutes into the event, someone rang bells and walked around shouting "It's time to go - others are waiting for their turn. You've got to go now." All of this was at a church.
While not everyone likes people "praying" with them at events like this, I felt like the "human element" was totally dismissed. It would have made more sense to at least ask each individual if they wanted prayer or information about the church. If someone said "no", then the volunteer could have said "goodbye" or "goodnight" and respected their wishes. But, at least there would have been the appearance of compassion. Better yet, they could have had people offer to "shop" with the poor. There were so many people who walked out with 1-2 things (or just grabbed anything) because they were just overwhelmed by the chaos.
When people "help" they need to be careful not to make those they are helping feel worse than before they "helped" them. It's often so awkward - both the poor and the volunteers seem uncomfortable... it's too bad there's not more "training" for those who do care and want to do the right thing.
I'm not a fan of "forced conversation"...it's just that forced conversation may have been less awkward than what I witnessed. It's a church, everyone there expected someone to offer prayer...and nobody did...it was really strange.
Sadly, too many at our churches have forgotten about Jesus. When He walked the earth, He not only healed and fed people - he LISTENED and provided COMMUNITY. Many of us just want to be heard and acknowledged...maybe even respected...poor or not. We all really have the same needs. We really could do better at meeting them.
Posted by Jody Mack on 07/25/2009 @ 12:51PM PT
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For people who lose their homes to nateral desaster or house fire for you to say they are not homeless is very wrong. No matter how much family support Katrina victims have there are many of them that are still homeless. And I had a house fire and losing everything including the place I laid my head was being homeless. You still have no place to go. No money to go there and usually you have to pay for the house that sits in ruin for months and months before you can move back. Some of those folks in CA won't be able to move back at all. Chronicly homeless people are homeless for long periods of time but the effects of homelessness are just as devastating for all without housing.
Shelter is not housing. You have to leave when they say even if you are sick. You are treated like you deserve the treatment that most dish out. Still others do nothing to help move people out of the situation.
There are in many cases lack of family support but that is not a determining factor in homelessness. There are not enough housing for poor people period.
Posted by Cathie Buckner on 07/25/2009 @ 07:01AM PT
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I'm not saying the shelter system works.
So I should say adequate housing fixes house-lessness?
Those situations you described, would adequate housing not fix house-lessness?
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/25/2009 @ 07:36AM PT
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It seems like there is - or could be - enough housing for poor people.
In the want ads, there are always rentals available and most of the apartment complexes in my area post signs all weekend long advertising openings. In light of the foreclosure situation, there are also houses/townhomes/condos sitting empty. Matter-of-fact, in some communitites they are actually tearing down homes and neighborhoods. The housing is "there", it seems we just need to fully fund the section 8 program (or whatever they're now calling it) and let people have homes to live in.
It's about priorities and funding. There is no need to have anyone on the street or in a shelter. For "temporary" emergencies, hotel/motel rooms could be subsidized. For "longer term" situations, section 8 (or something similar) could allow for more stable housing.
If we closed the shelters, wouldn't we have the funding to offer rental assistance? Those working in shelter settings could rent cheaper office space and act as "social workers" or "case workers" to help connect people to resources. Just thinking out loud...
Posted by Jody Mack on 07/25/2009 @ 12:24PM PT
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Some of the (more like many of the) "social workers" I've met in shelters don't have the personality to BE a social worker - they lack important qualities like kindness and compassion and instead approach every person and their situation like Dr. Phil as if everything can be solved with a platitude and a kick in the ***. These people no more deserve to be a social worker than a homeless person (or anyone else in search of assistance) deserves to encounter them during their search for assistance. Sure, I realize social work is hard work and this can be one of the harder (or hardest) populations with which to work, but if you're so burnt out you're taking your frustrations out on your clients; it's time for a long vacation or even a career change.
Plus there's the legal side to things. Like ownership. Many of the owners don't want to rent and likely wouldn't sell to such programs either - and how long do we want to wait for condemnations to go through? Would condemnation even work for this?
As to section 8 and similar programs, fixing them, funding them (appropriately) and admitting that we've made a lot of people have "housing" by playing definition games (like if you sleep in your can - bingo! you've got a home!) - could go a long way toward helping. So could a more functional public housing system that quit spending so much of its budget on mixed-income (i.e. housing for the middle classes) housing. While we're at it, work on education of tenants where appropriate to help those from other nations or who've spent a long time on the streets or in places resembling dens of wolves so that they no longer know how you're supposed to live in an apartment AND on the other hand where tenants HONESTLY present dangers to the other residents remove the obstacles that can make it take months to years to evict someone who's there on a program like Section 8.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/25/2009 @ 04:52PM PT
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I think if you check very few of those workers would actually be qualified Social Workers.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/27/2009 @ 07:48PM PT
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I don't know about the ones of whom Jody was speaking, but I've run across plenty who worked as "social workers" or as "case managers" whether or not they were fully qualified (I'd suspect you're right that few really were, since many assistance agencies and public health agencies cut any and every possible corner - and a great place to cut is a "qualification" corner since hiring an under or flat out not really qualified worker is MUCH cheaper than the worker who's qualified). But typically, the ones I've seen working as "social workers" or "case managers" had the sort of temperament of Scrooge before he'd been visited by the Ghosts of Christmas Past with a bit of the bosses from The Jungle mixed in for added interest. Also, quite a few had issues with things like professionalism and/or basic ethics - never mind the previously mentioned compassion in my prior post.
When I was working and not working in a darkened room full of computer and networking gear, I tended to do volunteer work with one or another group of people in poverty and often these were people struggling also with disadvantages like language barriers or disabilities. I know that social work, even informally as a volunteer is HARD at times - but if you can't approach it with a decent attitude you're only making it harder both for them AND you. There ought to be some sort of sensor built into the system that weeds out bad attitudes and burn outs for mandatory vacation or paperwork processing in some office far, far away from any interaction with people. Or at least this would be ideal for everyone. Now that I've seen both sides. This and can whatever loophole allows using "sort ofs" and "almosts" as actual social workers and case workers.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/27/2009 @ 09:26PM PT
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Dominic -
For all the money being spent on shelters, food pantries and other similar programs - couldn't we fund programs like food stamps and section 8? If we want poor people to become self sufficient - wouldn't it make more sense to provide resources that allow the poor to "look like everyone else"? If you have to go to a pantry or shelter, you are "singled out" and "different" from others in the community. People can "see" you and they "know" your not like "them". Yeah, people may comment if you use food stamps or they know you have subsidized housing...but, not as much. Many "average Americans" don't even notice the person in front of them is using food stamps at the grocery store. They don't know the tenant next to them at their apartment complex is getting help to pay for their unit.
In terms of those employed by shelters/pantries, why couldn't they serve in the capacity of linking poor people with resources and helping them to better get back on their feet? Perhaps all people receiving "aid" could have some sort of required "activity" to receive all of their aid. It could vary by person - paid work, volunteer activities, therapy/rehab/group counseling, school, caregiving for relatives, etc. Those getting aid would have to "check in" with their caseworker periodically to ensure they were staying on track, interacting with others in the community and accessing the resources that they need.
Just wondering out loud...
Posted by Jody Mack on 07/25/2009 @ 01:04PM PT
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I know someone who works with a monkey in the circus. The monkey jumps through hoops. It's pretty entertaining!
Maybe we could get him to help us out with training those employed by shelters/pantries you mention so homeless people can better jump through hoops. It's good to make them jump through hoops hey.
Come on, lets give people their dignity. You sound very removed from any understanding of homeless people.
Posted by Dominic Mapstone on 07/25/2009 @ 01:43PM PT
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This sort of thing is what peeves me about being very poor due to disability and terrifies me about the ever looming possibility of a return to homelessness due to any fickle blow from the financial (or life) winds. So many of the "assistance" programs DEPEND upon having you spend hours at first do nothing but prove who you are, why you're there, that you really do need the help, blah, blah, blah then again not too much later recertifying all those same things - that who has time to do much of anything else? Ok, so I'm poor, I'm disabled and due to things like family that flat out doesn't give a damn I have to ask the community and government for help - but that doesn't make me a lab rat or a circus animal here for anyone and everyone to poke and prod for their curiosity or amusement in return for any "help" they may extend. Nor does it excuse making any "help" so miserable that it SHOULD have been trash or closed & cleaned (and restaffed). Poor and/or homeless people are still human and still deserving of whatever tiny shreds of dignity society has allowed us to keep. "Help" has no right to take that away as its price - and yet it most often does.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/25/2009 @ 05:01PM PT
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I hear ya', Danetta. Now that you mention it, here's something I still wonder about:
Every time I go to one of these agencies, they have this huge pile of forms to fill out, most of which are incredibly redundant, requiring one to write the same info over and over and over again. Print, please. And, often, leaving these little, insufficient spaces to do so.
All the while the social worker sits behind their computer. And, once all the forms are complete, they'll have you verbally recite the same info while they type it in to the system... which is exactly what they should have done the first time, printing out whatever paper documents are necessary for signatures, but with all that basic info already typed in.
And the predictability of errors, even in name/address, etc. despite having been provided so very many times is absurd!
The latest trend, which I again encountered the other day, is now to have to get "receipts" for having turned various mandatory documents in. Their disappearances, inhouse, are THAT chronic.
But I need help, so what could I know?
When I've managed properties, one of my most basic drills is to rework ALL of the myriad property lease/tenant documents, so that they look/feel consistent, make sense and are easily identifiable, so that the basic info is automated into whatever other items need it, etc. And these are only very rarely "lost" somehow.
Posted by SlumJack Homeless on 07/25/2009 @ 06:34PM PT
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Yes SlumJack and while you are reciting all your personal info back you have to be aware that everone is listening tosocial security numbers etc. On topof that is the f*****g attitude of the person who doesn't give a shitto help you but rather tear piecesof whatever self esteem you have apart. In order to get help I use to picture myself as a knight putting on armour and pretend to myself that I was stupid in order to get help. This tome is cruel and inhumane treatment.
Posted by Mary Ann Thompson on 07/27/2009 @ 12:48PM PT
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Well, Jody, for that matter, Jesus was "homeless" too! So He didn't just hang out with, empathize with, or understand others in that way -- He shared that experience. That's a very different thing, and influence, than homed folks attempting to.
I think Jack London put it pretty well, but I'll have to paraphrase from memory here:
"Charity isn't just giving a dog a bone. It's sharing an only bone with a dog, when one is also every bit as hungry as the dog."
I'm keenly aware that homeless folks run a gamut, in terms of how socially or otherwise simple/sophisticated they are, and all other features. And I fully appreciate how difficult it can be to well relate and arrange everything suitable, because of this
And so there is a typical tendency to revert essentially "lowest common denominators", wherein people are kind of "herded" and spoken "down" to. And not spoken with, as full individuals or any kind of real peer adult person. Some of this is a caution about causing discomforts, on both ends, which is a fine enough intent.
But we all know what Good Intention Paving is well known for and where it leads as well -- such as the the usual Homeless Experience. A special hell of its own.
Posted by SlumJack Homeless on 07/25/2009 @ 01:50PM PT
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As one who has gone down that road you so eloquently stated above the view of the herd mentality, and causing hurt feelings. My experience has been that you must have a masta attitude and make that professinal feel good but what about you the client do you get the same treatment? Mostly the body language is that you are low life scum.
Posted by Mary Ann Thompson on 07/27/2009 @ 12:54PM PT
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I have been homeless for more then 5 years. In that time I have tryed to get into low cost houseing here in Juneau Alaska. I have been told I make too much money (less then 1000 dollars a month) I also have been told I don't make enough money. I also have been diened because I don't stay at the shelter. ( I don't like dealing with the people that are there because of their durg use and no other reason)
Homeless is on the rise and we need to get real about helping. Not just so people can say look what I have done. But people that work hard to help, were do I find them?
The people that interview the people trying to move in low cost houseing are a joke.
1) a menber says he was homeless for a week
2) another says he was homeless for 2 days
They diny people that are liveing in cars, people that live under other peoples housse (yes there is 1 family doing so here in
Posted by James Brouillette on 07/27/2009 @ 12:16PM PT
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I apologize for coming across wrong. My intent was not to "speak down" to anyone or take away their "dignity".
When my boss told me to pick between my kids (both have disabilities/health issues) or my job (of more than a decade) - I was quickly introduced to the world of "public assistance". I have had the "pleasure" of filling out mounds of paperwork and struggling to get help for my family. While we received some food stamps and medicaid, we didn't qualify for any of the "homeless prevention programs" or "transitional housing programs". I was told that - in order to get housing assistance - I needed to meet the "full-time work" and/or the "minimum income" requirements.
My family did not qualify for ANY of the programs in my community. We were on our own. I had to figure out our "housing" on my own. Credit cards worked for a while.
I'm not saying to make people "jump through hoops", but there are many people/families (like mine) who can't access any existing programs. I wish I could demonstrate that taking care of two "sick kids" IS work! THAT was my point. Most of us, are doing something "productive" with our time - some are working, looking for work, caregiving for sick relatives (children, parents, grandparents, etc.), volunteering in their communities, etc.. Still many more could benefit from therapy, rehab or medical care. My point was not to "force" anyone to do anything...but, rather, to allow ALL who need help to have access by showing that they are not "sitting around eating bon bons and wasting taxpayer money". Our society is not nice to people who are not "rich". We are downright mean to those who fall into hard times and who cannot just "pull themselves up by their bootstraps". Or who lack extended families who can support us financially.
My experience has left me feeling like everyone is in a different situation, so you can't always do a "one size fits all" program - so, there will always need to be people administering any program. BUT, we need a system that doesn't let families/individuals fall through the "cracks".
Personally, I'd rather have food stamps than go to food pantries. I don't need people asking me tons of questions and lecturing me. With food stamps, you only deal with one caseworker. With pantries, you deal with at least one person at every pantry you go to (usually it's multiple people at each agency). When we were close to being homeless...I felt the same. Why wasn't there a program that could help us? I would have preferred for my caseworker to give us medicaid, food stamps AND housing assistance. Why are there so many programs? Why do poor people have to chase around services from agency to agency...and program to program? Why can't one person provide referrals, resource information and support? Why weren't there any housing programs for families like mine?
Again...I apologize to anyone I upset. (But, that "circus monkey" comment was unfair. I have met some downright mean people in my journeys, people who were "volunteering" at pantries. My children have food allergies, so we walked away "empty handed" many times from pantries - one man volunteering told me to stop testing them for allergies. As if "not knowing" their food allergies and feeding them whatever was being handed out would not lead to an allergic reaction. Dominic - before you jump on people like me - please ask who we are and what our background is. I have been dehumanized many times by people trying to "help". If you got to know me, you would learn that I don't want to hurt anyone else. I just am really frustrated that ANYONE has to be without a home. In a rich country like our's, nobody should be without a safe place to live.)
Posted by Jody Mack on 07/28/2009 @ 06:57PM PT
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This routine I know. Seattle has played this game with local funding so that most funding isn't available for the truly low-income. Rather it's available to those of moderate or even MEDIAN income. Which means that many programs not only have MAXIMUM income caps but MINIMUM incomes that you have to meet to be eligible and a lot of them specify what types of income they'll accept - though how they can legally do so (since what they're specifying is EMPLOYMENT income) is absolutely beyond me since that would seem to discriminate at least against the disabled. Our local programs are so bad, that you can't get help most of the time if you're low income - or if you can, it's by getting on a wait list and surviving as long as YEARS - but you CAN get help (and rather easily) if you anywhere near MEDIAN income (meaning you've got the area's average income which by definition when compared to the market rate for a median rental should be able to rent without assistance unless they're trying to rent too much apartment, like say a luxury facility with gates and pools a fitness facilities, etc.). Something is just flat out wrong with this. And like what you describe, you don't wanna know what a lot of the low income housing looks like.
I'm with you too about food banks. I've seen a lot of food so bad that even volunteers couldn't identify - but they were still handing it out because someone up the chain said it was "food". Maybe it had been at one time, but what they were handing out looked like a science experiment gone horribly wrong. I've also come across "social workers" whose idea of "help" was so "compassionate" that they told me to my face that "adults don't need toilet paper and dish soap" (I'm still trying to figure that one out) or others who've told people who just lost a job that their problem wasn't the lost job but "budgeting" and instead of giving the family diapers they got a budgeting guide instead (I hope the family put the pages to good use).
You're right too, our society only helps those who fall into neat little boxes. Must have kids. Must be elderly or fit to institutionalize if no kids. Everyone else must have family to turn to - never mind that the family has disintegrated for too many of us. And forget that the poverty line completely misses the mark about what it takes to survive, which means that "help" is far too inadequate for survival - but then the rules are so twisted that if you try to get other help to actually survive despite the fact that the "help" IS inadequate, you're penalized if you're honest about it. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Ultimately, it's a nightmarish maze of human rights violations, in a country that makes a big deal out of upholding human rights in other nations - as long as it's politically oriented human rights.
Posted by Danetta Amschler on 07/28/2009 @ 10:08PM PT
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