Should Shelters Ban Sex Offenders?
Published November 18, 2009 @ 06:03PM PT
Everybody, including sex offenders, needs a place to live. If proposed legislation in Massachusetts passes, registered sex offenders would be barred from staying in homeless shelters, begging the question: where are they supposed to go?
There are few questions that get people as riled up as those regarding registered sex offenders, particularly homeless sex offenders. Serving this population can be difficult, costly work for homeless service providers. Residential restrictions make housing almost impossible to find. Stepping up security in homeless shelters can be expensive, and other shelter guests may not feel comfortable knowing that a level 3 sex offender is sleeping on the adjacent cot.
But according to proponents of the legislation, the real problem lies with the requirement to report an address. Since residential bans can make it all but impossible to find affordable housing that is not near schools, playgrounds, or daycare centers, many sex offenders will bypass this requirement by simply listing a homeless shelter address, which allows them to live wherever they please. According to the Boston Globe, 74 percent of Boston's level 3 sex offenders had a homeless shelter listed as their address.
Sure, this loophole presents public safety concerns. If we don't know that a level 3 sex offender lives nearby, how can we protect ourselves?
Of course, there's a flip side to this. If a sex offender is homeless - really homeless - and banned from shelters, where are they supposed to go? Might they end up like Thomas Pauli in Michigan, who was turned away from two shelters before freezing to death on the side of the road? And aren't we all better off if a dangerous sex offender is at least tracked in a shelter rather than being unaccounted for and at-large in the city?
The real solution to this problem is to "shut the front door," as they say. That is, to prevent sex offenders from becoming homeless in the first place. Homeless service providers are simply not equipped to provide the counseling and housing services necessary to meet the needs of dangerous sex offenders, particularly when meeting the needs of the general homeless population is challenging enough.
If public safety is truly a concern, as the state legislature is claiming, attention should be focused on re-entry programs within the criminal justice system. It is the only way to ensure public safety while ensuring nobody is banished to the streets.
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This is a huge issue, which I think speaks to the need to change the way we label, address, and create restrictions for sex offenders in this country. Should individuals who have been evaluated as truly dangerous to others be able to live in proximity to people they might hurt with impunity? No. But most homeless "sex offenders", as I understand the issue, are not truly dangerous, but still have a record of a sex offense. It's a tough line to walk between giving people in need a place to go and protecting the other residents of the shelter from harm.
Posted by Amanda Kloer on 11/19/2009 @ 04:36AM PT
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Of course we should ban them sex offenders from homeless shelters. Families with childeren stay at homeless shelters. We should create shelters specifically for sex offenders.
Posted by Radical Republican on 11/19/2009 @ 08:21AM PT
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Just a note to the knowledgeable "Radical Republican". This site helps out "brainiacs" like you by providing a "check spelling" clickable link (childeren?)
Where are you going to get the money for the "shelters specifically for sex offenders?" And where are you going to put them? They cannot be within 2000 feet of any school, playground, church, or any other place children congregate. What country do you reside in that does NOT provide congregation areas for our children?
Posted by Neal Simms Sr on 11/22/2009 @ 02:45PM PT
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Shelter versus SafeHaven ? Shelters tend to restrict alcohol consumption and can have "programs" a resident must participate in. A SafeHaven is more of what a person might think a shelter is and then discover the rules and requirements are mandatory at the shelter and the lack of rules in a SafeHaven makes for an insane element that must be monitored and dealt with regardless of labels anyway.
So when the word "shelter" is used in a discussion it does not necessarily mean what you think it does. Each State runs it's own locality and if a charity or non profit runs a local shelter ,then How it's run is How it's run. There is no national standard or best practices available for shelters.
example: Fairfax County has 5 shelters and each one is run by a different Charitable org. The only things common is that they share partial funding sources. So it's the money that dictates the "behaviour" of the shelter. Some money requires that you follow a Human Rights process and others do not.
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/24/2009 @ 03:23AM PT
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To Mr. Simms:
If sex offenders cannot be within 2000 feet of children, then putting them in the same shelter with children is negating the protection of that rule. The 2000 ft rule right there points out they can't be in the shelter because you have children congregating there.
Posted by Pamela Talbot on 12/12/2009 @ 10:38AM PT
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Some people are listed as a sex offender even if it was a 17 year-old who had sex with a 16 year-old. Those offenders should be able to stay in a shelter but the sick freaks who like to have sex with children should be put on an island together so they can molest each other. I could care less if they lay out in the streets and die. They weren't concerned about the lives of their fellow humans so why should we care about them. There is no rehabilitation for these creeps. All they can do is teach them to resist their urges. Just make molesting a child a capital offense and kill them when you catch them until there are no more left. It was give me some piece of mind to know that my kid is safe.
Posted by Carrue Forbes on 12/13/2009 @ 09:53PM PT
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Being a survivor of sexual abuse, I know about the "life long" emotional damage that sex offenders inflict upon their prey. Therefore I do not think that having these predators in the same homeless shelters that women and children may be staying in, is a good idea. I also don't think that "we" the "tax payers", should have to pay for the shelters that are housing these predators. It is a shame that some of these predators may freez to death or what ever, but they "the predators", should have thought about these potential consequences before they proceded with terrorizing women and children. Let them "the predators" sleep in the woods, like the animals that they are.
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/19/2009 @ 09:18AM PT
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I do believe I told the person to seek help through an organization I am being forced to pay for called Parents United, here in California. They are a child advocacy "tax free" organization providing counselling to child molesters and victims of child abuse. Know of what you speak before being thought a fool and opening your mouth and removing all doubt!!
Posted by Neal Simms Sr on 11/22/2009 @ 07:09PM PT
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You were being condescending towards "In God I Trust" as you were towards "Radical Republican". It doesn't take a "psychologist" to figure it out. Go attend your sex offender meetings and quit hasseling the real victims.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/22/2009 @ 07:42PM PT
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Mr. Simms,
It is clear that you are an angry individual and that are “unjustly” looking to lash out at anyone and everyone who stands against sex offenders. I do agree with you on one thing Mr. Simms and that is that I hope that I never have to deal with the government or “Big Brother” as you have. You have admitted that you are one of the thousands if not millions of “lost souls” that is searching the net for Satan’s biggest tool of destruction, “sex”. To my knowledge “Big Brother” does not have the resources or man power to go after the thousands if not millions of “lost souls”, searching the net for “soft” porn or regular porn. Therefore I believe that they save their resources and man power to go after the ones that are searching the net for “illegal” types of porn (kiddie porn, etc). I don’t know if that is you, but I am sure that “Big brother” had a good reason for pin pointing you. Either way, if you believe yourself to be a Christian or even an ex Marine, you should be prepared to accept the punishment you have been given, “repent and then change your ways”. “Live in Christ through His Holy word” and I am sure that you will not experience problems such as this any longer.
In Him For Him
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/23/2009 @ 08:34AM PT
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Dear Dennis G,
I admit, I was taken aback by what Mr. Simms had to say to me. I do not believe although that the government has the resources or man power to come after "all" porn users. Therefore I believe that Mr. Simms was pin pointed by "Big Brother" for a good reason. There aren't many "gentlemen" left in this society, but you are definitely one of the few. Thank you for coming to my defense and I am sorry that Mr. Simms verbally attacked you, you do not deserve it.
Many Blessings
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/23/2009 @ 08:44AM PT
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In God I Trust...Thank you for your kind words. You're right that Mr. Simms is very transparent in his motives. I'm not concerned with his verbal attacks against me, but I could not stay silent after reading his cowardly attacks against people such as yourself. I amire your courage in engaging in this debate. All the best.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/23/2009 @ 09:36AM PT
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You said; “The Erosion of our civil rights is not justified because we need protection from a few predatory animals”. A few predatory animals?? The National Alert Registry has over 491,000 registered sex offenders on its list. This list does not include the sex offenders that are walking around freely in our homeless shelters, living next door to us, working beside us, going to church with us, etc. This also does not include the 240,000 illegal immigrant sex offenders in the United States who have had an average of four victims each. I agree that all people deserve to be treated “civil” and that we all should have “rights”. “But”, and there is always a “but”, if a person (sex offender), abuses there “rights” and acts out uncivilly towards another person, that said person should lose there “rights” and privileges of civil treatment. People wanting to protect themselves from “predators” and therefore wanting the “predators” locked up is not “hate”, it is self protection and it is common sense. It is not “only” the things, animals or people in our lives that remind us of “our sins” Mr. Bender, it is mainly our God given conscience that reminds us of our sins. I believe that God created people with a conscience so that they would learn from their mistakes and not repeat them. Predators, especially level 3 predators, are seemingly without a conscience, which tells me they are without “God”, they are “Psychopaths” and should be locked away, shun from the general population, for “our safety”. Only a person who is without a conscience, or who is not “sane” would disagree with that statement. Which one are you Mr. Bender?
In Him For Him
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/23/2009 @ 09:36AM PT
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Mr. Bender,
You said; “The Erosion of our civil rights is not justified because we need protection from a few predatory animals”. A few predatory animals?? The National Alert Registry has over 491,000 registered sex offenders on its list. This list does not include the sex offenders that are walking around freely in our homeless shelters, living next door to us, working beside us, going to church with us, etc. This also does not include the 240,000 illegal immigrant sex offenders in the United States who have had an average of four victims each. I agree that all people deserve to be treated “civil” and that we all should have “rights”. “But”, and there is always a “but”, if a person (sex offender), abuses there “rights” and acts out uncivilly towards another person, that said person should lose there “rights” and privileges of civil treatment. People wanting to protect themselves from “predators” and therefore wanting the “predators” locked up is not “hate”, it is self protection and it is common sense. It is not “only” the things, animals or people in our lives that remind us of “our sins” Mr. Bender, it is mainly our God given conscience that reminds us of our sins. I believe that God created people with a conscience so that they would learn from their mistakes and not repeat them. Predators, especially level 3 predators, are seemingly without a conscience, which tells me they are without “God”, they are “Psychopaths” and should be locked away, shun from the general population, for “our safety”. Only a person who is without a conscience, or who is not “sane” would disagree with that statement. Which one are you Mr. Bender?
In Him For Him
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/23/2009 @ 09:37AM PT
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This is not the 'Dennis G" web Log. If Mr. Simms is made to feel unwelcome and or unsafe to participate in this discussion then we need to "Change" the name to "BULLY, BULLY" . How can I expect to learn the truth if I am expected to endure the Rants of an unbalanced perspective. When a person can safely share the benefit of their experience ,whether I agree or disagree matters not, it becomes possible to think for ones own self and benefit.
Legalized Hate Crimes is the next taking of rights I suspect.Test drive it with the Sex Crimes Registry? How come we don't make Murderers register????
Electronic media cookies and milk for those seduced by pixels arranged in sexually provocative ways. Have you noticed that going after passive criminals is safer than the really violent ones? And they count as an arrest no matter what. Did somebody quote 25% of the worlds incarcerated population yet only 5 % of the actual population? Thats not even 1/30 of US population. 1/30 is including parole and probation . So we can play with percentages and numbers any way you want.
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/24/2009 @ 01:53AM PT
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If I worried about being accused of such things would I be hiding behind a fake name ? Or blocking my profile. I see now my mistake was to give Dennis the credit for "Bully,Bully" and not you. It is truly amazing just how over valued you hold your opinion. The two tyrants resort to lording over their impotency.
A powerless attempt at degrading others shows the true character beneath the facade. The abused becomes the abuser. The festering hate binds one to the object of that hate. What you give is what you get. We pray forgiveness for others because it releases us from that hate. It gives us the ability to forget what no amount of drugs and alcohol could render inert.
The cause of your pain does not give you license to pass it on to others. If this exchange is bringing the venom to the surface then you might think of taking your own advice.
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/24/2009 @ 08:58AM PT
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"In God I trust" obviously you do not believe in the freedom of speech by thinking someone who broke the law is no longer allowed to practice their FREEDOM of SPEECH. Just because you have a college degree you believe you are better than anyone else. Whooptie frickin DO you went to college.
Based on your statement above no one is ever allowed to speak because everyone has broken the law- have you ever smoked pot? (since you spent so long in college and based on your views I am willing to bet you smoked about an acre of that wonderful liberal pot), did you ever speed, accidentally run a red light, not use a turn signal, cross a street outside a sidewalk. BTW - IF you used the Megan's law website or any other legal website to find out that Keith Bender was an offender and then to verbally thrash him in such a way, you have broken a FEDERAL LAW by basing your comments off what you read and you should be reported. If you did not get it from a website, or any other tangible source then you are guilty of Libel (since this is a written format). Based on your comments above- since you broke the law please SHUT UP and let people who are without an elevated ego speak and discuss without hatred or singling out the minority (2 people attempting to give another perspective so everyone can make a decision based on all available facts). I had absolutely no issues with you speaking your opinions until you began infringing on Keith Benders liberties and I am thoroughly DISGUSTED to consider you an American. I hope you someday visit Afghanistan, Iraq, North Korea, or China for over a year and attempt to use the same liberties you just attempted to strip from Keith Bender. You should be ashamed of yourself and at a minimum an apology is in order for your blatant disregard and hatred for Keith Bender. I am sorry you were sexually molested, obviously you need counseling and possibly some anger management as well. If you are a psychologist, how can you possibly believe you can practice your profession without an open mind and open heart, a willingness to listen to anyone in need of your expertise? A psychologist who has a one track mind such as yours is like having a doctor who refuses to work on Black people, or a police officer who refuses to stop a murder because the person being killed doesn't fit a description he/she thinks is worth saving. I highly suggest that if you are unable to let go of your prejudices that you find another line of work where you are allowed to be a hypocrite like you are being here. Maybe a politician in the State of California would be right up your alley?
Posted by Raymond Simms on 11/24/2009 @ 10:01PM PT
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Well it seems son has picked up where father left off. Posts that amount to little more than name calling. With that, this thread has lost what little it offered in the way of insight.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/25/2009 @ 10:09AM PT
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Dennis G. I am sorry you feel I have done nothing more than name calling in the above and that it was nothing more than name calling. Obviously even though you have a psychology degree, worked more with the homeless and everything else you have supposedly done, you cannot read a simple paragraph with an open mind. I was attempting to do 3 things
1- Stcik up for Keith Bender since "In God I trust" was telling them to shut up simply because Keith is supposedly a predator
2- Attempting to Open "In God I trust"'s mind and make them understand and feel exactly what they did to bender. And YES it is a federal offense to use Megan's Law website or any other to seek out or cause harm to a person whether it be physical, mental, whether it be plain harrassment to causing long term harm- either way it is obvious "In God I trust" broke the law and based on their logic needs to be quiet as well.
3- Inform him that if he did not keep an open mind for all people then he might want to look into a profession other than psychology since he has such a prejudice against offenders (since they stated they were finishing up a psychology degree)
I am sorry if you were not enlightened by the above after clarification- but I would suggest starting 4 posts up and see if maybe it makes more sense. If not I am sorry but I would be more than happy to find another way to explain it to you and "In God I trust"
Posted by Raymond Simms on 11/25/2009 @ 11:45AM PT
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Another disturbing blog posted on change.org concerning sex offenders. This one isn't about just any sex offender. This one advocates for level 3 sex offenders...the most dangerous! You really have to wonder about this site's agenda with these recent posts. What's the deal with this site protecting violent felons?
There is one good way to keep level 3 sex offenders off the streets. Keep them in prison! If public safety is the real concern, as the state legislature is claiming, attention should be focused on increasing the penalties for level 3 sex offenders. Like I said, keep them in prison so they will be out of our communitees and off of our streets. That will solve the problem for all of us.
Thank you Radical Republican and In God I Trust for your thoughts. You make much more sense than the rhetoric this site pushes.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/19/2009 @ 10:21AM PT
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Great post Dennis!
I suppose we "the tax payers" have to pay for these predators whether they are in shelters or in prisons, so as you said, the logical thing to do is to keep them incarcerated.
In Him For Him
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/19/2009 @ 12:14PM PT
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In God, Dennis and Radical Republican no doubt have worked with the homeless more extensively than the author. Hmmm...I doubt it. They mouth nothing but their venom and shallow perceptions that equal zero input toward real solutions.
Posted by Tom Smith on 11/22/2009 @ 02:17PM PT
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Has the author worked with the homeless more extensively than me? I would think so. Considering I have my degree in Forensic Psychology, have done extensive research on human trafficking, and worked with organizations that aid abused children, I have plenty behind what I say. You think what we say is venomous and shallow? I think advocating on behalf of a level 3 sex offender is outrageous. Keep them in prison and they wont be on the streets. Here are the facts buddy: level 3 sex offenders are violent, dangerous, and are at high risk of recidivism whether they are homeless or not. Punishments for these predators should be severe. Take a look at these numbers from th DOJ and ask yourself...where's the outrage about this?
http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/reporting-rates
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/22/2009 @ 03:25PM PT
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Tom,
I personally am finishing up my degree in Psychology and I personally have worked closely with victims of sexual abuse and people with addictions, some of whom were homeless, and I can tell you that "none" of them would appreciate having to sleep next to a pedophiler, rapist, or any other harmful individual. I also can't help but add "Mr. Smith", that I find a person who comes to the defense of "predators", suspicous to say the least?
In Him For Him
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/24/2009 @ 08:27AM PT
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I agree with Dennis, 'Radical Republican' and 'In God I Trust.' Keep them away from potential victims. This is no different than the recent outrage staged over letting sex offenders in churches that have daycare facilities on site - there are plenty of churches without daycare facilities that they would be welcome to attend instead. Similarly, housing without facilities for children and/or without children residing there can be found. It's not even like new buildings would have to be constructed - just change residency plans for different facilities as needed so that accommodating facilities can be offered.
Posted by Christine Clarke on 11/19/2009 @ 11:29AM PT
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I agree with Dennis, Radical Republican and in God I trust as well! Keep these guys in jail! there. problem solved!!! whether they are level 1,2 or 3 to me begs no difference. These Predators are NOT rehabilitatable (spelling?) ...how many of them level 1ers have ultimately murdered a child...countless many... What they should do is build a jail specific for molesters ..level1,2 or 3 so they can spend their entire miserable lives there... leaving them out will put everyone else at risk
Posted by melinda valdez on 11/19/2009 @ 03:22PM PT
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I would rather have level 3 sex offenders accounted for than lurking in the streets at night furious about having to have to sleeping the cold. I live in MA, and the last I remember there wasn't any shelter that has families and single adult male guest at the same time. Other shelters that have male and female are on separate floors. I think the sex offenders at some of the lowest and disgusting people but I think making them freeze outside is inhumane. As I right this I am conflicted because I do feel some sex offenders deserve this type of death sentence but then I would be playing GOD. I just got off the streets and I never stayed in a shelter but if I had to I would rather sleep next to one than have one unaccounted for and climbing up your window at night.
Posted by S. Monty on 11/19/2009 @ 09:02PM PT
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Hi Samuel,
First of all, I am sorry to hear that you had to experience some hard times by living on the streets. Secondly, you made a few statements in your post that I would like to address. You said;
1. “I would rather have level 3 sex offenders accounted for than lurking in the streets at night furious about having to have to sleeping the cold”.
2. “As I right this I am conflicted because I do feel some sex offenders deserve this type of death sentence but then I would be playing GOD”.
3. “I just got off the streets and I never stayed in a shelter but if I had to I would rather sleep next to one than have one unaccounted for and climbing up your window at night”.
Stats show that 70 percent of all sexual assaults are committed by someone the victim knows, (friend or acquaintance such as the homeless person who is one floor below you), family member, co worker, date, or (neighbor such as the homeless person who is in the room next to you). Assault by “strangers” happens as well, but this kind of assault is far less likely. So although it is possible that a homeless or non homeless sex offender/predator, may try to crawl through a window at night, it is not likely. Either way, if they were handed down the sentence that they deserved in the first place, “life in prison”, we wouldn’t need to worry about it. Lastly I am a firm believer in Christianity and therefore a Saint in Christ, and I do not feel that I or anyone else is playing God, when we choose to protect ourselves. You feel that letting these predators freeze outside is “inhumane”? You’re right, it is inhumane. For the very meaning of the word “inhumane” is being without compassion and kindness. Why should the public have compassion or kindness for these predators? They had no compassion or kindness for the innocent children or women that they forced themselves on and who they made perform disgusting sexual acts, “night after night” in some cases and for years. The Lord says we are to forgive those who have trespassed against us, but the bible also says that the person who trespassed against us needs to “repent” and admit their wrong doing, in order for us to truly forgive, otherwise we as “believers” are to forgive as in “forget” and let the Lord handle the wrong doer. Remember though, that this does not mean that we are to allow ourselves to be put in dangerous situations. “Lock up the sex offenders” and if they can’t be locked away, turn them away. Let the elements take it from there.
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/20/2009 @ 08:44AM PT
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Maybe we should give them a death sentence or even keep them locked up for the rest of their lives. But that is not apart of the sentencing guidelines for these type of crimes and we have to let them go and they are better off accounted for than not. In some states there are shelters that specifically designed for sex offenders, in other states during hurricanes the police let them reside inside the a cell. IN the state of MA there are 110 sex offenders under strict state supervision which includes GPS monitoring systems, biannual polygraphs and curfews, perhaps every sex offender be put under this type of supervision. And yes I know that it is more likely someone you know than a stranger. But when these sex offenders are on the street wouldn't they become our neighbors and acquaintances?
Posted by S. Monty on 11/20/2009 @ 12:45PM PT
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Let me also say that there is almost nowhere in the city where a person can sleep outside in public without security tellignyou you cant stay here or you can but you cant fall asleep. Going without sleep and trying to get away with sleeping outside drove me damn near insane. I know that feeling of irritablity and I think have these sex offenders out there like that is very dangerous to society and counter productive I THOUGHT WE WANTED THEM OFF THE STREETS NOT ON THE STREETS! I truly think there is a better solution than that.
Posted by S. Monty on 11/19/2009 @ 09:26PM PT
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Let's make things perfectly clear. These are level 3 offenders who are violent and are at high risk for recidivism. We don't want them on the streets either, we want them in prison.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/19/2009 @ 10:10PM PT
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I may not see eye to eye on most things with Dennis G., but I do agree with him on this statement he just made. Level 3 offenders are supposed to be in prison or instutionalized (if need be).
Posted by Sarah Nelson on 12/24/2009 @ 08:44PM PT
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Yes ! I would like for the sex offfender to be in prison . Give shelter in prison.
Posted by Louise Nalls on 11/20/2009 @ 11:58AM PT
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Tattoo a big red S on their foreheads. Make Sex Offenders exempt from Hate crime protection and we can create a new reality TV show. Run the numbers on how much we can save Taxpayers and then we can expand the "program" to include any other group we feel justified in excluding from our charity and christian forbearance. Continue to foster the poison that infects our "Society". Build Prisons to house our Homeless. Instead of working to create a solution lets continue to manage the symptoms because there is plenty of money in disease management. And we all want to enjoy being on the moral high road. We keep them agitated so they will bite the hand that feeds them. That way they live down to our expectations and deserve our contempt. There is a reason Animal rights is more popular. Dogs and Cats don't remind us of our sins. If it's okay to Hate then when does it stop?
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/20/2009 @ 10:27PM PT
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Another apologist making excuses for predators. I'm sick of this notion that society FORCES an offender into recidivism because it's not so easy on them in the real world. Has anybody every heard of accountability for one's own actions? Laws and restrictions cause predators to reoffend?? What about the people who enable predators by diverting responsibility? Life isn't easy for many people, that doesn't mean they become the type of violent felon portrayed in this blog. If your heart needs to bleed for someone, let it bleed for the victims for once!
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/21/2009 @ 12:08AM PT
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Pandering to weakness' is not a new political technique. Creating and perpetuating victimization helps justify a police state eroding our civil and human rights. "For your own good".The Erosion of our civil rights is not justified because we need protection from a few predatory animals. And to confuse the issues helps maintain an ignorance which supports and encourages not only further loss and erosion , but the underlying belittled Human Rights that would have prevented the homelessness in the first place. As we move towards enslaving our grandchildren with a debt that could have eradicated Homelessness 50 times over let us remember that what we take away from another is taken from ourself.
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/23/2009 @ 12:31AM PT
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The only way a Level 3 Sex Offender will get any kind of respect from society is the day they hang them.
Why are YOU defending sex offenders Keith ?
Posted by Lara Nunes on 11/25/2009 @ 01:54AM PT
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No. The process used to stigmatize them literally opens the doorway for those who advocate death such as yourself to expand this death sentence to others the mob mentally chooses to segregate, sanitize and eliminate. Nazi Germany extinguished the mentally and physically challenged first . Sexual deviates now and as the cancer spreads up the "food chain" we will arrive at the simple viewers of adult content pornography.
1 in 3 Porn customers are women. Sexual and Love addiction is far larger a problem than the recent OPRAH show touched upon. Once a fire is lit it must be tended or stamped out. Perpetuate this thinking and you support Homelessness as a punishment . A new form of Racism at least and legalized Hate crime at best.
Get to the heart of many Alcoholic and Drug addicted women and many of the men and you will find sexual abuse a contributing cause of their spiritual malady. But do you even see that? Are you supporting attitudes that keep Human Rights in the 17th century?
Can you see that ? Do you see that leaving children on the street you nearly guarantee they will be victims of some sort of violence. A never ending supply of young flesh. By our actions we revere property rights while throwing away human lives. Please believe what you want. The emotions this topic exposes are painful. Brutal Honesty ? Or sugar coated rhetoric? Are you even willing to ask yourself these questions.
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/26/2009 @ 09:23PM PT
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I'm loath to get involved, but the general direction of these comments is so viscious that I feel I need to stand up for compassion.
A few major issues:
- Everyone seems to be painting a black and white picture, saying every sex offender is from the same mold. This is shamefully, willfully inaccurate. Some are violent and wild and disgusting and have lost the capacity to be productive members of society. Others are stupid teenagers who had consensual sex with other stupid teenagers and became felon sex offenders for statutory rape because angry parents found out. Sexual offense and sex offenders are as diverse as sex and humanity itself. When we loose sight of context we loose sight of justice.
- Sex offenders who are legally out of prison have served their alloted debt to society. Arguing for increased prison sentences is another matter, and arguing for continued punishment for people who have already served their time is wrong. The logic seems to be that they are dangerous to society - that they might do it again. Does anyone deserve to be punished because they "might" do something? Black males who live in urban areas are more likely to commit (or be victim of) a homicide. Does such a statistic justify punishing all of them to keep society safe? NO, it does not.
- Please consider that our legal system is not omniscient, it frequently makes mistakes. Change.org recently reported that the difference between a life sentence and execution in texas depends mainly on the offender's lawyers.
http://criminaljustice.change.org/blog/view/hire_a_lawyer_avoid_the_death_penalty
Sex abuse cases have similarities to murder cases, and in many courts the difference between a misdemeanor and a felony with predatory sex offender status comes down to the offender's ability to advocate for themselves and hire good (expensive) lawyers. Please find the humility to at least consider that in some cases our collective hatred and social alienation may be misdirected, and that in any case it does not serve the cause of justice.
@melinda valdez and others who expressed similar sentiments. Who exactly are you to judge that any sex offender, let alone all of them, are beyond redemption, or not rehabilitatable?!? Shame on you.
A few special points for my fellow Christians:
- Last I heard, Christ died for us. His blood has the power to redeem any woman and any man. And you offend Christ's sacrifice when you say that his blood is not strong enough to redeem even sex offenders.
- Perhaps some of you were saying that sex offenders are not beyond spiritual redemption, but that they still deserve life in prison etc. to keep society safe. @In God I Trust, you said specifically that Christ's call for forgiveness "does not mean that we are to allow ourselves to be put in dangerous situations." Actually, scripture does tell us to allow ourselves to be put in dangerous situations. I believe the specific language was "turn the other cheek," as in, let them punch you a second time.
@Christine Clarke, this lesson applies very well to your mention of sex offenders and Churches with day care. Do look after your kids and your neighbor's kids carefully, they are precious. But do you really think Jesus would turn someone away from worship because of past offenses? No, he gives us example by sharing a meal even with the pharisees and tax collectors. Please, don't turn people away from your Church. Enough have lost faith already without you encouraging them.
These issues aren't easy. Christianity was never meant to be easy. We must accept the enormous challenges of a Christian world view alongside it's comforts, and acknowledge our own difficulty in living up to these challenges. Only then can we truly take the moral high road without making ourselves fair and easy targets of cynicism like @Keith Bender's.
And Amada Kloer, thank you for the single comment on this post that is compassionate, thoughtful, and productive.
Posted by Isaac Holeman on 11/22/2009 @ 08:14AM PT
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Mr Holeman, you sir are to be respected and I thank you for seeing through all the prejudices and personal fears of the either uneducated, or OVER educated like the "pshycologist" whom replied to my attempt to allow people to see things from MY personal experience while their only "experience" is from school books and other teachers whom have NEVER been out of school.
Posted by Neal Simms Sr on 11/22/2009 @ 04:33PM PT
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Mr. Holeman,
I don’t believe “anyone” would disagree with you that our judicial system is not perfect. I know that there are “innocent” people who have been wrongly sentenced and I do have compassion for them. But this particular topic is about level 3 offenders. Level 3 offenders don’t get their “level 3” title from only one offense. Furthermore, all “predators” but especially level 3 offenders are a danger to society. If a person has committed the illegal & immoral “crime” of rape, molestation ,or incest, “even if only once”, they no longer deserve to have human “rights”, “compassion from others”, or the luxury of being treated “civil”. They had none of those things for their victims and they ruined those victims’ lives because of it. You say that they “the predators”, serve their time and that should be enough, you apparently have never been raped, molested, or a victim of incest. Their sentences are never enough nor "just" in the victim’s eyes.
In Him For Him
Posted by In God I Trust on 11/24/2009 @ 08:52AM PT
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Thank you sir, You input was not only well thought out, but insightful as well and I hope that all can learn a little something from you!
Posted by Raymond Simms on 11/24/2009 @ 09:28PM PT
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Isaac,
I'm sure glad you spoke up because I agree with you 100%.
When a murderer or armed robber serves their time they are released. They do not sign any register that says "I murdered someone" or "I robbed someone at gunpoint and beat them beyond recognition" Do you not think these offenders might do it again? But how do you know who they are?
Statistics show that sex offenders have the least recidivism rate of most criminals. According to the Dept of Justice, and I quote "Sex offenders were less likely than non-sex offenders to be rearrested for any offense -- 43 percent of sex offenders versus 68 percent of non-sex offenders." End quote. I'm not condoning sex offenders in any way. I'm trying to point out that sex offenders are no more dangerous to society than murderers, armed robbers, dope peddlers (you don't think a drug seller can ruin the rest of your childs life?) and all the other gazillion criminal offenses too many to list here.
Another thing you say is "keep them in prison forever". Do you know how overcrowded the prisons are already? America has more people incarcerated than any country in the world. I wonder how many of those are even truly guilty? Convicted on circumstantial evidence or, as with Troy Davis - convicted based purely on eye witness testimony. You just don't realize how easy it is to land in prison until you'e actually been through the system.
I have not had to endure this but I have went through it with friends who were convicted and I saw it...right there in court. They are NOT interested in the truth. They only want a conviction so it makes then look good.
Christ believed in redemption. He preached it, lived it, and died for it. He spoke against the tradition of "an eye for an eye" and said instead we should love one another. We should have compassion and forgiveness. Folks, this is what makes being a Christian such a hard road to follow.
As for the sex offender (guilty or not) they are never given a chance at redemption. Yes, in some cases they committed a heinous act. But not all sex offenders committed heinous acts. As stated before, two stupid teenagers having sex and the parents got mad and filed charges. Or maybe it was purely a computer related act that was never proven.
In any case, it would be much better knowing where these people are at all times. There should at least be some kind of housing project targeted at giving sex offenders a place to live besides wandering the streets. I know most of you will not agree with one word I've said but that's ok. One day it may come knocking at your door and you'll have to defend yourself in our Justice system. Guilty or not.
Posted by Jonathan Black on 11/22/2009 @ 12:15PM PT
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"Statistics show that sex offenders have the least recidivism rate of most criminals. According to the Dept of Justice, and I quote "Sex offenders were less likely than non-sex offenders to be rearrested for any offense -- 43 percent of sex offenders versus 68 percent of non-sex offenders." End quote. "
ACTUALLY, MOST SEX OFFENDERS DON'T GET CAUGHT FOR YEARS! THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE SUCH A LOW RATE OF RECIDIVISM. DO YOU IMAGINE, THEY WERE TREATED AND DO NOT REOFFEND, JUST BECAUSE THEY HAVEN'T BEEN CHARGED?
READ UP ABOUT CHILD MOLESTERS, AND YOU WILL LEARN THAT MANY HAVE HAD MULTIPLE VICTIMS, PRIOR TO ONE OF THEM SPEAKING UP AND BRINGING THEIR ABUSE TO LIGHT. OFTEN SEVERAL CHILDREN IN THE SAME FAMILY, WILL ALL HAVE BEEN VICTIMS OF ONE PERPETRATOR.
The reason they are "less likely" to wind up BACK in a prison, is the SAME REASON THEY ARE UNLIKELY TO EVER END UP IN ONE, IN THE FIRST PLACE, not before they have harmed many MORE than one person, in that process.
And of course the so called surveillance and monitoring does NOTHING, when the data isn't even investigated in any meaningful, or timely way-- HOW DID JAYCEE DUGARD, REMAIN IN THE GRIP OF MONSTERS for OVER A DECADE, when he was being MONITORED? Here is the REAL story of the lack of recidivism you bring up. There is NO REAL LACK OF RECIDIVISM. There is a lack of detection that they are continuing to commit heinous acts of cruelty against other people, and that lack of detection, often goes on for many, many years. They find another child, one who does NOT speak up, perhaps they take on another identity and skip town, there they become a youth minister, or a sports coach.
It is really outrageous that anyone would try to portray this sort of offender, as being exceptionally trustworthy relative to OTHER OFFENDERS, when really, they are just far more: cunning, unscrupulous, predatory, sociopathic, than their peers in prison for other offenses.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/23/2009 @ 10:34AM PT
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"As for the sex offender (guilty or not) they are never given a chance at redemption. Yes, in some cases they committed a heinous act. But not all sex offenders committed heinous acts. As stated before, two stupid teenagers having sex and the parents got mad and filed charges. Or maybe it was purely a computer related act that was never proven.
WITHOUT ANY QUESTION! ANY LEVEL 3 OFFENDER IN MA, HAS INDEED COMMITTED A VERY SERIOUS, VIOLENT, SEX CRIME, AND HAS NOT BEEN VIEWED AS HAVING HAD EFFECTIVE TREATMENT SUCH THAT THEY DO NOT CONTINUE TO POSE A VERY HIGH RISK TO ANYONE AROUND THEM.
SO, on to forgiveness. One doesn't have to put themselves in harms way to pray for someone, to hope that God has a good plan for their future and that they will repent and turn their life around. I sincerely hope that happens for every violent criminal, but I cannot know anyone else's heart and God will ultimately be the judge of their life on this earth. I also believe FIRMLY in a complete SEPERATION OF CHURCH AND STATE. And it is certainly appropriate for citizens in MA to be informed if there is someone with a history of that sort and to know where they reside. Afterall, in MA, we still have children knocking on doors for school fundraisers and delivering the newspapers, and unfortunately, in light of budget cuts, many are now walking to school and parents should certainly KNOW what sort of people are about.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/23/2009 @ 10:44AM PT
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In my opinion, the increased emphasis on sex offenders is part of a scheme to continue to expand prison populations so as to profit prison guards unions, prison building companies, prison operating companies and the various groups of employees and corporations that gain from an expanding police state. The war on drugs has been the biggest filler of prison cells, but sex crimes, domestic violence, and reduced alchohol levels for DUI convictions have also added to the numbers. I read of a 17 year old boy who was getting consensual oral sex from a 15 year old girl, spending a number of years in jail. There have been many cases in recent years, of attractive 20 something women teachers doing time for the terrible crime of seducing a teenage boy. I have never met a man, who says he is glad he didn't have the trauma of being seduced as a teenager by an attractive 20s something female teacher. Until the war on drugs, sex offences, domestic violence, and reduced alchohol requirements for DUI are all seen as part of a racket to continually expand the police state, none of them can be understood. As for the various rules for residency and reporting required for sex offenders, it might be added that a guy who has consentual sex with a girl a few years younger than him would be included in various restrictions all his life; whereras a person convicted of murder, armed robbery or assault is free when they have done their time.
Here is an example of a possible statutory rape case that wasn't prosecutedIn the aftermath of the December 2007 disclosure by then-16-year-old actress Jamie Lynn Spears, the sister of pop star Britney Spears, that the father of her baby is 18-year-old Casey Aldridge,[21] there is talk of the prosecution of Aldridge for statutory rape, which could be done under current Louisiana state law.[,
I will end with a poem from my website, www.thecoolat.net on how special interest groups propagandize the masses to support their devious rackets.
SNAKES AND SQUARES
The politicion snake uses the citizen square like a tool to get re-elected; and pass legislation that is bogus and unfair.
Down thru time, the evil snake and the naive square form a symbiotic pair.
Groovy man
by the Cool Cat
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/22/2009 @ 12:31PM PT
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Kids are being imprisoned, labelled sex offenders for life, when a violent crime was not committed. Of them there are some that fall under level or tier 3. Unless it is a child, grandchild, etc. of their's most people could care less. They just set back and do nothing. Not all low-lifes are on the wrong side of the law. The registry is a multi million dollar racket and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to come to that conclusion.
Posted by Mary Hannan on 11/22/2009 @ 01:35PM PT
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I totally agree with your statement that not all low-lifes are on the wrong side of the law. I'd guess as a group DAs are as sociopathic as car jackers, just a hell of a lot more prudent. I had an attorney friend who once told me that he had observed in various legal social circles that of DAs and judges regularly giving out long sentences for drug crimes, over half were regular users of illegal drugs themselves. The corruption and hypocrisy of law enforcement that began almost 90 years ago with alcohol prohibition has continued to grow.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/22/2009 @ 02:03PM PT
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Juveniles who are listed as sex offenders, have most typically, acted out sexually with someone who was NOT a peer. A far younger child, for example, or a younger sibling, or relative. The fact that overt aggression isn't part of that, does not make it okay. In MA we have a categorization system that takes into account many factors before someone who is a juvenile is listed as a sex offender. In Palmer, MA a female student was raped right in the school cafeteria by another student. That is not the act of a "kid" and if I lived in any proximity to such a "kid" I'd certainly want to know so that I could keep MY kids away from that kid.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 12/03/2009 @ 11:55AM PT
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Sex offenders should be imprisoned for life.. to me, sexual predators are worst type of criminal
I also think that every couple states should have one area where prostitution is legal... like las vegas.. it must be an out of the way, controlled environment, where the women are protected...
There will always be women who want to make money by prostituting themselves... and it would be better for men to have a legal option.. it could bring in tax revenue, which could be used to shut down prostitution everywhere except the designated areas
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/22/2009 @ 01:42PM PT
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Marianne,
For every fifty dollar prostitute working in a bordello, there are many fifteen dollar prostitutes on the street. Until we give up on a our failed war on drugs, the lower-priced call girls (and boys) will continue to be a problem. Many drug addicts are part-time prostitutes; and addicts, even if they wanted full-time employment, would have a much harder time getting hired at a bordello.
In Nevada, police still have a problem with street prostitutes. And I have a feeling that the "johns" aren't all too keen on driving to a remote place, even though it is much safer for them. (And "every couple ststes"?)
Please keep in mind the difference between "sex offender" and "sexual predator". The terms are not interchangeable.
Posted by Brian Kuester on 11/22/2009 @ 08:35PM PT
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The problem is the poor kids already under pressure because they are in temporary shelters. The last thing they or their mothers need is to have known sex offenders hanging around ready to prey on them.
We don't want anyone to freeze to death. Perhaps a shelter arrangement could be made strictly for predators, but totally separate from any housing for women and children. Possibly, jails could have room where they would not be incarcerated but able to sin in and have a roof over their heads for the night.
I wish more research would be done on ways to change the thinking and urges of predators while they are imprisoned. I don't think religion is necessarily the answer. Also don't think it is easy to forgive this dastardly intrusion into other people's lives solely for self gratification and I think explaining abuse on the basis of having been abused oneself is a poor excuse. Somebody has to break the cycle. In the meantime, they need to be segregated.
Posted by Nora Brill on 11/22/2009 @ 02:44PM PT
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Nora, I agree, unfortunately, many of these violent predators, are not even willing to participate in treatment, at all. They get out and do the same sorts of crimes, with the benefit of all the new means to hide the behaviors, having served time and learned about how others went undetected.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/23/2009 @ 10:56AM PT
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Can you Radical Republican or IN GOd I Trust find these family shelters where they let men stay? Because I never heard of one.
Posted by S. Monty on 11/23/2009 @ 08:01PM PT
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Like Mary Hannah says the registry is a million dollar racket! Not only are 18 year old boys doing 8 or more years for having sex with an underage girl, falsely accused men are doing "15 to 25 life" for allegations of he touched me. No evidence ,just "he said she said",6 and 7 year old kids coached and used as pawns for corrupt D.A's to get promoted. Justice has nothing to do with it, it's a competition, and the goal is to win!! So gentleman don't play with, or rough house with your daughters friends, don't hug your students if you are a teacher. Don't learn the hard way as our family did! www.truthcafe.net . Believe me ours is not an isolated case. Go to MSNBC Witchhunt, that happened 20 years ago, and nothing has changed! Until the registry is narrowed down to true sexual predators, excluding peeing in public,mooning,having sex with your underage girlfriend or being falsey accused. Then maybe the registry will make America happy! Just out of curiosity why doesn't anyone want to know if a murderer lives next door?
Posted by teri vanderberg on 11/22/2009 @ 04:24PM PT
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Dennis said
Here are the facts buddy: level 3 sex offenders are violent, dangerous,
There are many people imprisoned as sex offenders who are not at all violent or dangerous. DAs have been known to charge teenagers with statutory rape that are 18 and the other party is 16, or 17 year olds have been charged with statutorily raping 15 year olds. Attractive 20something female teachers have been imprisoned for the violent and dangerous crime of seducing very willing teenaged boys. The former Marine here was charged with the violent and dangerous crime of downloading certain porn onto his computer. Hell, you can legally view or download certain videos of Islamic extremists cutting people's heads off, but the porn downloader can be imprisoned and hassled the rest of his life. The US has the highest incarceration rate in the world, and the increased criminalization of fairly mainstream behaviors is the biggest reason. A lot of the things going on the US system in the name of justice are as unjust as the witch trials. George Orwell visualized the growth of the police state in his novel,1984; and certainly history has proved the accuracy of his visions.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/22/2009 @ 04:39PM PT
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So very true, thank you for your clear insight of the problems. The registry is completely useless other than to expand the notariety and bolster the egos of the weak. How many "neighborhood watches" have been started in the past few years with the police attempting to control gangs, violence, and illegal operations, yet the news is full of whole communities that are "shocked" when the house next door to them is being used as a "botanical garden" for illegal drugs. And nobody notices? yet the "lesser" so called sex offender (whom is homeless and urinates in the bushes but gets "seen" by a wandering child (whose parent has not paid attention to in the first place) the person urinating and the urinator is "labelled for life and registers for the rest of his/her life as a "sex offender". Let us get real people.
Posted by Neal Simms Sr on 11/22/2009 @ 04:55PM PT
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A few years ago, I heard the sex offender registry site given out on radio, and took a look. They had names, pictures and addresses as I recall. There were several quite attractive female sex offenders mentioned. It is easy to imagine some teenaged males seeing pics of a hot woman who is known to have the hots for younger guys, and deciding they ought to check her out. Just like prohibition, the drug wars etc., this thing is a racket perpetuated on the gullible by the unscrupulous to further their special interests.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/22/2009 @ 05:13PM PT
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http://criminaljustice.state.ny.us/nsor/search_index.htm
Here is the NYS registry. Search level 3 offenders and see how many offenders you find that match your description. If you find any, see how many offenders match my description and compare the two. The NYS registry lets the public decide who they feel is dangerous. This registry gives you the age of the victim, the charges of conviction, and some details of the crime. Let me know who you feel is not dangerous and who you would feel comfortable living next door to with your family.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/22/2009 @ 05:52PM PT
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How can I unsubscribe? I see no box and don't want to blobk all e-mais but my mailbox is exploding and besides my comment wasn't posted.
Posted by Nora Brill on 11/22/2009 @ 09:58PM PT
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Dennis,
It doesn't matter whether or not you feel "comfortable" living next to someone. Many people feel uncomfortable living next to gay people, or someone who practices a different religion, or people whose skin is a different color, or who were born in another country. A lot of law abiding citizens feel uncomfortable living next to police officers - with or without reason. This is something you just have to deal with.
Coexisting, even when it makes us uncomfortable, is the nature of pluralistic democracy. If you don't like that, there are still places where you can be stoned, hung, or burned alive for breaking the strict and homogeneous moral code. I doubt you'd like them better than pluralism.
Posted by Isaac Holeman on 11/23/2009 @ 03:31AM PT
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Isaac, while you make sense when you talk about people's prejudices, it's not them same thing. Not wanting to be neighbors with someone who is of a different culture is irrational, but not wanting to live beside a violent, sex offense recidivist makes a great deal of sense.
As for my greater point, people on this forum have misrepresented level 3 sex offenders as being harmless, innocent, victims of the system. This is not the case. While there may be a small few who have been wrongly convicted, the vast majority of level 3 offenders are very dangerous and, by definition, are at high risk for recidivism.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/23/2009 @ 09:27AM PT
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Dennis, Your Rant about Level 3 offenders in New York speaks to criminal justice issues far more than to Homelessness . The Criminal system uses Homelessness as an additional punishment. The loss of Human Rights that are taken from us because of them is my point. And I believe people like you are used by the system to further profit from the Victims experience you advocate for. Of the 35 men in the dormitory I stayed in, 7 were registered Sex Offenders. The mental health consumers not able to be served by the local "CRAZY WARD" because of consistent overflow was easily 5 more out of that 35. Mental health per diam housing costs in Fairfax,Va. are $650 a day each bed.
The Daily cost at the shelter was $45 per day, which is cheaper than Jail or prison. Your problem is at the sentencing level. Use your anger to generate positive change not rationalized self indulgence in nearly a tantrum format. Thomas Jefferson worried over Homelessness and believed universal home ownership was the answer. If you read his Va. declaration of religious Freedom with our Prison statistics in mind you will find that imposing the fear of incarceration has failed. Frustrations indicate we seek the solution in the wrong way. How many lives will be lost as collateral damage?
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/23/2009 @ 11:54PM PT
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We are not protecting children, and we need to do that..
I was sexually abused by my grandfather.. many yrs later my grandmother told me that she had cut him off of sex.. because she didnt want any more children.. if he had a legal place to go to pay for sex, maybe it wouldnt have happened to me...
legalize drugs and prostitution but only in designated areas.. any men caught engaging in prostitution in safe areas, spend their life in prison, period!
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 07:31AM PT
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Marianne,
I agree with legalizing drugs and prostitution in certain areas;but I think the idea of giving anyone life in prison for a victimless crime is something out of 1984. Interestingly, Reagan, who by starting the drug war made the US the incarceration capital of the world, was in office then. It is ironic that the same guys who use the idea of freedom to invade Islamic countries are the same ones who are behind the growing police state in the US. The US has 5% of the world population, and 25% of the people behind bars. The US has the dubious record of having the highest incarceration record of any nation .
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/23/2009 @ 08:32AM PT
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Tom,
Im not saying put people in prison for drug use.. just put them in prison for prostitution in a 'safe' area.. If they know they are looking at life in prison, maybe they will get in their car & drive to a place where it is legal
ok to use drugs in your own home (unless there are children in your home) & maybe a hefty fine for drug use outside of designated areas, but really, you cant even smoke cigarettes most places now, and that has worked.. I quit smoking bec it got too expensive and became socially unacceptable.. Im glad I did
I agree with you about our prisons, we have so many incarcerated because they made it a for profit business.. also another argument against organized religions.. if our country is 80% christian ..and christianity is a good influence.. shouldnt we have fewer people in prison than other other countries? ... Instead we have the highest prison population in the world, and kids are still routinely getting abused and women are still routinely getting raped
but if we legalized drugs and prostitution, that would free up a lot of prison space for hard core violent criminals, and lower costs of police, justice systems, etc,, the money saved could be used to benefit children
Im for letting all the drug related criminals out of jail, right now
It could be done..
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 09:28AM PT
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WTF! So you think that your grandfather molested you because there was no "legal place" for him to go and pay for sex? NO you re grandfather sexually abused you because he was a sick individual. Outlawing prostitution never stopped anybody so why would it have stopped him from fulfilling his desires, which were probably of young girls beforehand. I am srry that this happened to you butyou can not try to point the finger at your grandmother or the legal system for your grandfathers offense against you.
To say your for letting drug related criminals go: 5 yr old Shaniya Davis was sold by her mother to pay off a drug debt. Mario McNeil who bought Shaniya then raped and murdered her and then disposed of her inside a bag with a deers carcass. Now even though the official charges are not drug related but you can definitely see the extent of what crimes a drug addict will go to to pay off or pay for their addiction. Theft, Robberies, Home Invasions are just some of what crimes addicts commit to feed their habit. And being a drug dealer never comes with just dealing drugs. So I suggest you really think long and hard before saying something like "I'm for letting all the drug related criminals out of jail, right now". These type of crimes go hand in hand. As long as there re drugs there will be CRIME.
Posted by S. Monty on 11/23/2009 @ 07:39PM PT
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First, Im not trying to blame my grandmother... she did nothing wrong
Second, I know my grandfather was a sick pervert, but I do think, much like catholic priests, if men dont have a natural outlet for their sexuality, it can become perverted... maybe Im wrong, but it makes sense to me... He lived in a small suburb, and they knew everyone in town.. it wasnt like there was a local brothel.. I also wonder if he was abused as a child, since a lot of male abusers were abused as children
Well, in the 1920s, as long as alcohol was illegal, other crimes went hand in hand
If drugs were legalized, we would know who are addicts, and we would have tax revenue from the sale of drugs to help people with drug addictions get their lives together, and hopefully there would be a safety net so they wouldnt get to the point of commiting crimes to buy drugs..
Shaniya's mother is an aberration, at least I hope she is, and the fact that drugs are illegal, didnt stop her from taking drugs, it just pushes the whole culture underground
I dont claim to know all the answer,s but I know what we are doing now isnt working, so whats your solution?
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 09:25PM PT
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PARENTAL TRAFFICKING: Shaniyas mother is definitely not a "aberration". Parental trafficking is not as prevalent as it may be in other countries but it definitely happens here. Illegal Drugs didn't stop her mother from selling her but if they were legal there would be thousands little Shaniya's than there are now.
LEGAL DOPE?:You think the money from the tax revenue will help drug addicts get there lives together huh? HOW? when 50% of people in treatment today are only there because of some form of coercion applied by the Criminal justice system. Now if possession of and use of drugs weren't illegal any more and you can get as high as you want you would only have half of the addicts in treatment. The 50% of addicts that don't seek treatment will probably eventually lose their jobs since at least 1/5 of drug users (excluding marijauna users) are incapacitated because of their dependency. Now these people have to feed their habit and how do you think their going to do so? Drug related crimes would soar by addicts trying get enough money for their next fix either that or just by the violent crimes that are commited by addicts would increase as well. Alot of that money would be spent on drug users drug related illnesses, family support like welfare, and also there would be a huge loss of productivity. Also the alcohol related deaths would be nothing compared to drug related deaths direct or indirectly once drugs become legal.
WHAT ABOUT THE KIDS? Expect to see the age of drug addicts to get younger and younger because even if there are regulations on drugs there would be a new target if drugs become lega by drug pushers, YOU RE CHILDREN. And the old black market would just probably come up with new replicas and new drugs so there would still be a underground culture for drugs. Also legalizing drugs would remove the social stigma and send a message of tolerance to our youth and people in general
I dont know all the answers but what your talking isnt going to work. Solutions Anyone???
Posted by S. Monty on 11/24/2009 @ 10:57PM PT
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If you mean prostitution is a victimless crime.. I dont neccessarily agree, but even so,
Im all for individual rights, but only if your rights dont interfere with everyone elses rights to to live and raise children in a safe respectable area
By legalizing drugs and prostitution, you can also eliminate unscrupulous people who would make money off of prostitutes and drug addicts, but you have to have a very serious deterrant & a consistent approach, for it to work..
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 09:43AM PT
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First of all, there is a need to differentiate between someone who is dangerous and poses a serious risk, in MA, we do have a classification system, and many feel it is TOO lenient, in terms of community notifications.
In any event, a sex offender who is actively engaging in the same sort of exploitation of others, by obsessing over gross porn, and ALL porn IS gross, clearly hasn't come to see THEIR behavior as a problem. The porn industry has been built off the exploitation of vulnerable people, very FEW have NOT been abused, who end up in those materials. I think there is a vast difference between erotica and porn, when you see people being essentially abused and disrespected in some trashy way, it can reinforce and desensitize you to the behaviors being depicted. There is no respect for a person who has been dehumanized and turned into a passive image for your sort of depraved, unmutual, interests.
I am glad that they are getting better about enforcing laws, and look forward to a more enlightened time, where Andrea Dworkin's ideas about holding pornographers responsible for RAPES and MOLESTATIONS, will be seen as a good tool, and when RAPE will be identified as a HATE CRIME, which it most certainly IS, against whatever gender, or class of person it is perpetrated against.
As for homeless perpetrators, I think that many of them, are living where they are prohibited from living, and use homelessness as a rouse. There should clearly be much better monitoring of where these people are living, and probably more group homes set up in areas away from places where they'd be able to start stalking a neighbor, or neighborhood child.
The problem is in just about ANY shelter, or group living situation, there are rules and clearly predators, don't think the rules should apply to them.
Prostitution is certainly NOT a victimless crime, many prostitutes are destitute, they do what they do, to get by, in a society where there is NO MORE SAFETY NETS, that would provide them with a means to escape.
Prostitution is often hand in hand with drug addiction and these people who frequent prostitutes and hide the behavior, then can expose those who are unaware of their conduct to diseases and illnesses more prevalent in that population. Many children are being prostituted by adults, too. It is NOT a victimless crime, it is a terrible underground industry that is built on human exploitation, it removes intimacy and dehumanizes and denigrates all who are engage in it.
While regulating it would provide some health and safety improvements, I've long suspected that if BETTER OPTIONS were out there, in the first place, few people would ever OPT to work in that line.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/23/2009 @ 10:20AM PT
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Isaac:
"It doesn't matter whether or not you feel "comfortable" living next to someone. Many people feel uncomfortable living next to gay people, or someone who practices a different religion, or people whose skin is a different color, or who were born in another country. A lot of law abiding citizens feel uncomfortable living next to police officers - with or without reason. This is something you just have to deal with."
Apples and Oranges, maybe-- but you throw nuts into the mix and it just doesn't work.
"Coexisting, even when it makes us uncomfortable, is the nature of pluralistic democracy. If you don't like that, there are still places where you can be stoned, hung, or burned alive for breaking the strict and homogeneous moral code. I doubt you'd like them better than pluralism."
It could make you real uncomfortable indeed, if someone pulls out a gun and knife and wants sex. That is a WHOLE different scenario than what you speak of, but that is what VIOLENT, CATEGORY III, SEX OFFENDERS ARE PRONE TO DO. And NO, NOBODY has to just get over that and feel some tolerant love fest about having them in their community, much less, living in the same apartment building. Hmmm, now there is a thought, maybe we could create some sort of Utopia for sex offenders and those who have faith that Pluralism with a capital P demands they live among them, like it or not. I'm sure IF YOU BUILD IT THEY WILL COME. I just don't know about who else would join them, besides, er, you, apparently. I'd say from the posts here, you would count MOST out of that loop.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/23/2009 @ 10:51AM PT
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Hi Cee,
You're right that category III sex offenders are more prone to violent sex offense than the rest of society. The point of my analogies was not to compare statistics or relative risk of repeated offense. My point is that we can't punish people based on assessed risk. The popular legal phrase is "INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY." This has nothing to do with love fests. Tolerance has nothing to do with love or acceptance - it just means you let people be unless/until there is a proven offence. The way I see it we have two options:
1) Punish people for crimes they have committed.
2) Punish people for crimes they have committed, AND crimes that we think they are likely to committ.
If you think punishments for sex offenders should be greater, you're welcome to talk to your representatives. That would be consistent with option 1) above. In contrast, you seem to be advocating for increased punishments for people who have already served their alloted time. This falls under option 2) above. I am opposed to option two because I don't believe there is any mechanism that could implement it fairly.
Do you disagree with this analysis?
I would agree with you that increased survielence may be a good idea. As long as it's carried out by professionals (not the general public), increased survielence isn't the same as increased punishment for people who have already served their alloted time.
It's another matter entirely for the state to facilitate permanent social alienation that prevents past offenders from finding jobs, let alone a place to sleep. Such alienation is a permanent punishment beyond what our legal system officially acknowledges, so it falls under option 2) above.
Posted by Isaac Holeman on 11/24/2009 @ 01:31AM PT
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I think there should be voluntary programs, post release, designed for that population, to assist sex offenders willing to continue with having counseling and some heightened accountability, there could be staffed halfway houses, where there are supervised work opportunities at jobs that bring them nowhere near people who would seem to be potential victims, based on their past behavior. There are just far too many examples of sex offenders being released and even WITH scrutiny continuing on their destructive paths.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 12/03/2009 @ 12:01PM PT
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Cee,
I agree with you that all porn is gross, and I cant imagine how anyone can prostitute themselves for any reason... I would rather starve
but what adults do of their own free will has protections under the constitution..
My concern is the protection of children, and making sure that, aside from a few specified areas, people are free to live their lives without any evidence of the sex industry in their neighborhoods
We have to be realistic.. sex and pornography are not just going to go away.. but like cigarettes and alcohol, if they are legal & taxed, we, can at least control them to some extent...
prohibition didnt stop people drinking alcohol, it just drove it undergound... where are all the gangsters selling alcohol now? There arent any! Now it is a state run 'for profit' business,
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 10:55AM PT
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Good points, but it hasn't worked in Nevada. Just the opposite, being decriminalized you can't go anywhere without seeing all sorts of unwelcome smut mongering. And as others here note, the desperates are still on the streets by choice, or by no choice at all.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/23/2009 @ 11:01AM PT
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Good points, but it hasn't worked in Nevada. Just the opposite, being decriminalized you can't go anywhere without seeing all sorts of unwelcome smut mongering. And as others here note, the desperates are still on the streets by choice, or by no choice at all.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 11/23/2009 @ 11:02AM PT
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Cee, Im sorry to hear that..
but I think thats because there are no severe, strictly enforced deterrants..
for the non violent crimes, start with heavy fines, and publication of names and addresses for the Johns... then escalate to prison for repeat offenders.. not for the prostitutes, but the men who frequent them.. make it clear that there will be law enforcement women posing as prostitutes...
for too long, prostitutes have been arrested and the johns get off with a warning or a slap on the wrist.. that should change.. fine them, embarras them and if that doesnt work, jail them
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 11:12AM PT
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Sweden has made the selling of sex legal, the buying illegal.. And Sweden gets a good deal of flak for this policy, especially form the prostitutes who must now sell their wares on the "underground market."
Of course, nobody suggests that drug dealers get off lighter than users..
Yours is a policy not of justice but of resentment.
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 01:52PM PT
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I certainly see among several people here the pattern that I call the squares and snakes. The squares mean well, but are easily propagandized by the police state and the military industrial complex. The snakes are very skilled at deceiving the naive squares. Here is a few lines Hitler wrote in Mein Kamf about the methods most effective in deceiving such people.
All propaganda must be popular and its intellectual level must be adjusted to the most limited intelligence among those it is addressed to. Consequently, the greater the mass it is intended to reach, the lower its purely intellectual level will have to be. But if, as in propaganda for sticking out a war, the aim is to influence a whole people, we must avoid excessive intellectual demands on our public, and too much caution cannot be extended in this direction.
The more modest its intellectual ballast, the more exclusively it takes into consideration the emotions of the masses, the more effective it will be. And this is the best proof of the soundness or unsoundness of a propaganda campaign, and not success pleasing a few scholars or young aesthetes.
The art of propaganda lies in understanding the emotional ideas of the great masses and finding, through a psychologically correct form, the way to the attention and thence to the heart of the broad masses. The fact that our bright boys do not understand this merely shows how mentally lazy and conceited they are.
Once understood how necessary it is for propaganda in be adjusted to the broad mass, the following rule results:
It is a mistake to make propaganda many-sided, like scientific instruction, for instance.
The receptivity of the great masses is very limited, their intelligence is small, but their power of forgetting is enormous. In consequence of these facts, all effective propaganda must be limited to a very few points and must harp on these in slogans until the last member of the public understands what you want him to understand by your slogan. As soon as you sacrifice this slogan and try to be many-sided, the effect will piddle away, for the crowd can neither digest nor retain the material offered. In this way the result is weakened and in the end entirely cancelled out.
Thus we see that propaganda must follow a simple line and correspondingly the basic tactics must be psychologically sound.
I am not always clever enough to distinguish representatives of the police state/prison industrial complex from the naive squares who they deceive. However, certainly Dennis and Cee fall into one of these categories. Thomas Jefferson said he'd much rather have too much liberty than too little. I certainly am not very sympathetic to violent criminals. However, the huge increase in prison population that has occured since Reagan started the drug war is mostly made up of people whose behavior has in recent years been made subject to imprisonment due to new laws or more stringent enforcement. They include people doing such violent activities as one teenager having sex with another teenager a year or two younger, female teachers having sex with teenaged boys, and people downloading porn. It's also fairly well known that any forms of prohibition soon becomes a racket for the cops to skim money from prostitutes, topless bar owners, drug dealers etc. Alcohol prohibition not only greatly expanded the police state, but also organized crime.The Mafia got strong in the big northern cities because the cops were allied with them, and busted their competition. For many years Mississippi was theoretically dry, but in those days sherifs would spend 50 thousand dollars to get a job that paid a few thousand annually. Booze, drugs, prostitution, and gambling will always be with us. The only question is whither we desire to create a monstrous police state to arrest perpetrators who are not allied with them. I have heard it said that cocaine is cheaper now than it was when the drug war started. The system really doesn't want to end these things anymore than hunters want all rabits and squirells killed.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/23/2009 @ 12:19PM PT
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Tom, Time to commission a rewrite of "MeinKampf"as a social marketing manifesto . Partly as a Joke , but more over because it recognized basic mass Politics. Human behaviour is predictable enough that the wake up call this rewrite could cause would be used for positive healthy change. To treat it as a diseased or vile document belongs with the Ostrich Club of Denial. Unless learning from the mistakes of the past has become a bad thing , facing the truth is the start of the process.
Posted by Keith Bender on 11/24/2009 @ 12:20AM PT
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Tom,
Thomas Jefferson said he would rather have too much liberty than too little (while he was raping his slave girls, and then enslaving the children they had by him)
And no one is talking about 2 teenagers having sex.. I know that can be against the law, if one is a minor, but that should be taken on a case by case basis.. I dont know if it is, but I hope it is
I think everyone on this thread agrees that we should protect children from sexual predators.. the question is how?
I taught HS for years.. Twice, I took over classes where the original teacher had lost control, one was a brand new teacher, the other was an older teacher who had a stroke. I know from experience, that you cant make a rule(law) and not enforce it...
Thats why religion worked so well when I was in school, 50s & 60s, because we were told everyday that we would burn in hell, if we didnt follow the rules...Even though I dropped out of the the catholic church, when I was 19, I stayed a virgin till I was well into my 20s.. Why? I had internalized the idea of virginity making me 'good'.. something I dont believe any more
but there were also lessons of love, peace and understanding, caring for each other, that I still want to live by, not because it benefits me, but because I really believe that what I do to others, I do to myself.. I have no interest in punishing anyone.. I think God takes care of that.. but I do think we need to do whatever is neccessary to protect children
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 01:32PM PT
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Marianne, I doubt very much that Jefferson was raping slave girls. He was a very important man, and important men then just like now have always had many women more than willing to become their lovers.Of course, neither one of us was there, but this is my guess. At the time of the founding of the US, I read the age of consent was 10. This has gradually increased up to I think 18 now. Likewise, the alcohol level at which a person can be charged with DUI has decreased. When I was growing up, the charge was drunk driving;but now it is called driving under the influence. My point is that sex offenders, drug offenders, driving under the influence, prostitution, gambling etc are all part of an Orwellian agenda to keep the police state expanding. It is ironic that the strongest proponents of the expanding police state love to talk about freedom, and the desirability of invading other countries to bring them freedom. Strangely enough, the US has the highest incarceration rate in the world. Of course the irony is that the proponents of expanding police state and the proponents of expanding military industrial complex are usually the same people. Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/23/2009 @ 02:12PM PT
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Just an affirmation: Thank you Marianne and Tom for your intelligent, substantive, comments. On this subject, you are "lights" in the darkness.
Posted by Tom Smith on 11/23/2009 @ 02:21PM PT
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Hello Tom Smith,
Coincidentally, I am also Tom Smith. I will continue to post under Tom to avoid confusion. Of course, Marianne and I are light years apart on many things. I certainly don't believe anybody should get life imprisonment for patronizing a prostitute in a given neighborhood. To me this is the problem with the current system. They are not only criminalizing, but giving long sentences for non violent and non larcenous offences. It would be interesting to make a documentary of people that are getting out of prison in five or ten years for murder, assault with intent to kill, carjacking and armed robbery and others that are doing more time for things like possessing quantities of LSD, various charges covered by the RICO Act, downloading illegal porn etc. Even if a person believes the state should discourage drugs, sex, gambling etc; there is certainly more reason to discourage murder and armed robbery. It is also interesting to me that some people have objected to comparing much of our current penal system with the witch hunts. Using laws on the books in 2009 in the USA, I'd bet the witches could still be convicted. I'd guess that many covens may have used in their rituals hallucinatory herbs, and I'd guess they may have had some members under 18.
Anyway, Tom, I appreciate your appreciation; and would like to invite you to visit my website at www.thecoolcat.net to check out some of my poems and comedy.
Peace,
Tom.
Posted by tom smith on 11/23/2009 @ 05:58PM PT
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Tom #1, Thank you for saying that.. sometimes I feel like Im talking to myself.. nice to know someone is listening
Tom#2, You make a lot of assumptions about me.. I protested against the war in Iraq, and the Vietnam war for that matter (when I was in college). I said in a previous post to let all the drug offenders out of jail, and legalize drugs.. I dont want to take anyones freedom away, but we need to do a better job of educating and protecting children.. and I dont see you offering any solutions..
Also, there is DNA evidence + historical records that T Jefferson fathered at least one of his slaves children (namely, Sally Hemmings).. If you think that a slave can give consent to the man who owns her.. you are mistaken.. it was rape. Jefferson probably didnt see it that way, but he probably didnt see slavery as wrong either... TF was a brillant man who wrote a beautiful and inspiring document, but he was a very flawed man in his personal life..
If you think our penal system is like a witch hunt, you should read the malleous mallefactorum, the catholic churchs book written in the middle ages, on the interrogation, torture and execution of witches.. mostly women, who could be tried as witches for any reason whatsoever .. their interrogation usually starting with them being stipped naked in front of a panel of men
And I dont agree that murder is worse than sexual abuse of a child.. if I had the choice, I would rather he murdered me.. because in a way, he did
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/23/2009 @ 08:03PM PT
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It seems the "Toms" on this forum are a bit too concerned with being "cool cats" and a bit too obsessed with a fictional book published in the late 1940's. Unfortunately they have failed to realize that they are the one's who have fallen for all the anti-establishment propaganda. As for myself, I prefer to discuss the realities at hand. No one has comented on the REAL information I offered through my links. The fact remains - level 3 sex offenders are, by definition, dangerous and a threat to the safety of the public. If advocating for public safety makes me a "square", so be it.
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/23/2009 @ 09:13PM PT
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Marianne,
The only assumption that I stated about you was that we were light years apart on many things. Certainly, I have many more areas of agreement with you than I do with Dennis. Certainly violent rapists need to be behind bars, but no more so than violent murderers etc. Of course, rape is a harder thing to ascertain than murder. I'm sure many rapes go unreported;but also many times for various reasons women have falsely claimed rape. The Kobe Bryan thing a few years ago was resolved I think by determining she was being less than totally candid. I always doubted the Tyson rape scenario. She didn't report it until about 10 or 12 hours later. Rich, famous celebrities like Bryan, Tyson etc have so many women throwing themselves at them because of the attraction of their fame as well as financial motives that they wouldn't have a real strong motive to do something that could cost them years of life. I felt the same way when Clinton was accused of sexual harasment. Clinton had so many women attracted to him, he had no motivation to go harassing anyone. But to the extent that a violent rape has really occured, I am certainly in favor of prosecution just like any violence.I suspect that Jefferson was in a position that if a slave didn't readily respond to his advances he would have probably shifted his attention to the many who would be delighted.
As for staturory rape, in many cases nonviolent guys are being imprisoned for historically mainstream behavior. In California, I heard that any girl under 18 giving birth is asked who the father is, and he is checked in records to see if he is old enough for prosecution. In many states, even two years is sufficient to have him held as an adult. If the sex was consensual, the fact that he was 18 and her 16 does not seem significant to me. By the time most girls are 16, they have had much experience in rejecting unwanted advances. My guess is that if fear of the law scares off 18 year old Bill from making advances to 16 year old Susan; 16 year old Joe will likely fill the same role.
Tom
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/23/2009 @ 09:47PM PT
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False reporting of rapes is NOT common, FAR more common is that a victim of rape is subjected to the FALSE assertion that she/he engaged in a voluntary consensual act, when they did not, in fact.
And of course the rapists who simply get away with rape. Recently, I think in Greece, an American serviceman was charged by a prostitute with rape. He was found not guilty, both agree that he was told his "time was up" and according to him, he then put the woman in what he termed a "lock down position" and apparently continued on, that IS certainly RAPE, not that he will be properly classified as a rapist, of course.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 12/03/2009 @ 11:47AM PT
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Dennis,
This is an example of a nonviolent person doing 7 years for a sexual offence, that was appreciated very much by the alleged victim. I certainly have no quarel with stiff sentences for violent rapists, just like any other violent criminal. I certainly do have a quarel with Mary Kay doing 7 years. I also have a quarel with people doing years in jail for downloading illegal porn. Videos of people being decapitated can be downloaded legally.
Ten years ago Vili Fualaau, then a sixth grader in suburban Seattle, and Mary Kay Letourneau, his 34-year-old teacher and a married mother of four, began an affair that produced two children and became a national scandal. This month, the couple will celebrate their one-year wedding anniversary.
Although Letourneau spent seven years in prison for second-degree rape of a child, she and Fualaau never stopped professing their love. Last May, nine months after her release, they were married at a Seattle-area winery.
As for Orwell's 1984, it was a very phophetic work. Any good fiction points toward universal realities. The degree of people being propagandized in a manner comparable to the fictional 1984 was seen in 2003 as many Americans really believed that the US was invading Iraq to liberate it. To a large extent the same forces are involved in promoting police state propaganda as well as military propaganda. Anybody square enough to believe the US was invading Iraq to bring it freedom would also believe that an adult female teacher having sex with a very willing teenage boy is abusing him. As for anti establishment propaganda, that is by definition a contradiction. The establishment has the money and the connections to make propaganda work. As for advocating for the public safety, I shall leave you with a quote by Benjamin Franklin.
They who can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety.
Franklin's Contributions to the Conference on February 17 (III) Fri, Feb 17, 1775
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/23/2009 @ 11:19PM PT
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Any adult who has a sexual relationship with a 13 year old as Ms Letourneau did is disturbed and desrves the time she spent in prison. Seeking such a relationship with a child of 13 is not only sick, but predatory. At 13, a child doesn't fully comprehend the relationship he/she is entering into and is incapable of consent. What they choose to do as adults is their own business. The "Toms" bring up cases such as Letournea, Koby Bryant, and Mike Tyson. Interesting that these cases are the ones you can find in the mainstream media, mostly from sitting on your couch watching TV. Television may be the most poisonous font of propaganda on earth. That being said, I am fully aware that some famous celebrities are exploited by false accusers. However, these examples make me question how much actual research the "Toms" have done on the subject and how much real knowledge they have.
Pulling one sentence from Benjamin Franklin does not impress me either. Those who like to throw around abstract words like "liberty" and "freedom" need to realize that our freedoms as Americans are not absolute. That is why our Founding Fathers created a government. Without laws and regulations we would have anarchy, which is a greater threat to human rights. Without a system of government in place, our rights as humans would be in constant peril. I don't think laws and restrictions against dangerous level 3 sex offenders is threatening our essential liberties as a people. A bit grandiose, don't you think?
Posted by Dennis G. on 11/24/2009 @ 12:08AM PT
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"Anybody square enough to believe the US was invading Iraq to bring it freedom would also believe that an adult female teacher having sex with a very willing teenage boy is abusing him."
Anybody square enough to believe the US was invading Iraq to bring it freedom would also believe that an adult female teacher having sex with a very willing teenage boy is NOT abusing him.
Either way you put it the logic is fallacious..
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 01:18PM PT
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Dennis,
I don't think it is a bit grandiose. Thomas Jefferson wrote most of the Declaration of Independence as well as the Constitution. Here are a few of his quotes.
I am not a friend to a very energetic government. It is always oppressive.-Thomas Jefferson
Most bad government has grown out of too much government.-Thomas Jefferson
Experience hath shewn, that even under the best forms [of government] those entrusted with power have, in time, and by slow operations, perverted it into tyranny.-Thomas Jefferson
Timid men prefer the calm of despotism to the tempestuous sea of liberty.-Thomas Jefferson
I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than to those attending too small a degree of it.
Government big enough to supply everything you need is big enough to take everything you have ... The course of history shows that as a government grows, liberty decreases
Experience hath shewn, that even under the best forms [of government] those entrusted with power have, in time, and by slow operations, perverted it into tyranny.-Thomas Jefferson
Certainly, the last quote is reflected in Orwell's 1984.
Tom
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Posted by tom smith on 11/24/2009 @ 12:27AM PT
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Keith,
You got it. I pasted the MeinKampf quote about propaganda yesterday I think. Hitler even compared political propaganda to commercial advertising of soap flakes. I grew up hearing about Nazi and Soviet propaganda, but was an adult before I began to realize that the idea that only the enemy is using propaganda is itself some of the deepest propaganda. It was only about 6 years ago that I began to realize that the idea we grew up with that Pearl Harbor was an unprovoked attack was misleading. The Roosevelt administration knew it was coming, and his Secretary of State, Stemson wrote in a diary the day after the attack that it wasn't as bad as he had thought it might be. FDR had provoked Japan to make such an attack by transfering the navel fleet from San Diego to Pearl Harbor about a year before, and the previous summer the US had cut off sale of oil to Japan[who had been getting 80% from US]. Japanese assetts in US were also froze. It was a provocation to get Japan to Pearl Harbor us to give him an excuse to get into ww2 despite his promise in election of 40 to not get the US in the war. I know I am geting away from sex offenders and shelters, but in my opinion the use of propaganda plays a big role in selling both military aggression and growing police state to the public.
As for female teachers seducing teenaged boys, I have never met a man who didn't express some wish that he had been seduced by some of the female teachers.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/24/2009 @ 01:15AM PT
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And I've have never met a woman who didn't express some wish that she had been seduced by some of the male teachers.
It's called a crush. :)
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 01:07PM PT
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In Him for Him,
You said
I also can't help but add "Mr. Smith", that I find a person who comes to the defense of "predators", suspicous to say the least?
Jesus Christ incurred the wrath of the Pharasees when he came to the defense of the woman taken in sin. It was said that Jesus preferred the company of whores, thieves, and wine bibbers over the self righteous Pharasees. Jesus had compassion for the thief on the cross next to him.
You said
Their sentences are never enough nor "just" in the victim’s eyes.
Samantha Geimer, the woman who alleged Roman Polansky had sex with her at 13 has said she wish the whole thing was over.
Posted by tom smith on 11/24/2009 @ 04:53PM PT
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I think most people realize, certainly Europeans do, that the case against Roman Polanski is less about justice now than the reach of American Power.
The second best reason Polanski is being so relentlessly pursued is, quite obviously, cultural.. If thirty years ago, some European starlet had plied a thirteen year old boy with champagne and qaaludes and had sex with him, the American justice system would have dropped the case as soon as she left the country, presuming a case was ever filed. And to this day, no one in the United States, liberal or conservative, man or woman, would harbor any ill will toward her or utter an once of vituperative sentiment against her.
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 01:38PM PT
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Dennis G and "In GOD we trust" I would like to clear a couple of things up. Yes, my father was convicted of having "kiddie porn" on his computer BUT this was AFTER he had turned people in and saved their pictures in order to email them out to the authorities. His computer was set to automatically back up every night, so it looked like there were large amount of porn on his computer when there were actually numerous copies of the same pictures that were used to turn people in. I am unsure how much of the law you are aware of, but they understand that when you point a finger out there are 3 pointing right back at you, so they check all people turning in sex offenders/making accusations. The Federal government performed an investigation and decided to DROP the case, the state continued the investigation and decided to DROP the case, the County Sheriff's/DA continued and OF COURSE ELECTION YEAR so the DA decides to go after my terminally ill father. Yes, he is terminally ill with COPD and quite honestly forgets a lot and is not always clear in what he says/does. His "public defender" barely opened his case files at all, was constantly unresponsive to any of our requests for meetings/information on the case. The "public defender" convinced my father to take a plea bargain instead of fighting the case. We came to find out later that the "public defender" didn't even understand what a "wobbler" was (which my dad was accused of) and had him plea to a felony when it could have easily been a misdemeanor or (more than likely) dismissed if he would have done his job and fought for the public he represented.
During his incarceration he did find Jesus again and I am proud that he has admitted to his wrongdoings and is willing to be bullied by persons like you. You should be willing to kiss his feet it is because of men and women like he and I that you have the freedom of speech and freedom to keep "in God we trust" as a rally cry. His 20+ years of service in the US Marines included time served during Vietnam and tours in Iraq under the first Bush not to mention being gone on a ship at least 6 months of every year for training purposes. He believes in your freedom obviously more than you believe in his, and that is why I joined the Army to help preserve the freedoms you all have taken for granted.
Now on to the main issue spoken of here- I believe that if you all read the quote by Keith Bender about Shelter vs Safe Haven. I believe that sex offenders SHOULD be allowed in Shelters but not Safe Havens just for this reason. A Shelter could actually give them counseling they desperately need- they can make a separate area for the sex offenders to keep them away from the children,women or men that got them in trouble in the first place.
This issue is obviously too large an issue for some people on this posting who should remember that Freedom of Speech is a right that you do not always need to practice unless you have a little more clarity on the situation- either way my father and I will respect you because we understand that freedom isn't free and we both have lost excellent friends in the process of keeping the lights of freedom glowing.
And yes, I do have a wife and 3 kids who I would trust my father around anytime. I know the man he is and I know he would not harm a woman or a child ever, just a victim of circumstance and a lawyer wanting to get him off the docket.
Posted by Raymond Simms on 11/24/2009 @ 08:53PM PT
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Dennis, you are right
Tom, .. if you think black slave girls in the 1700s were "delighted" to have sex with their white masters, then you have a major screw loose
You are not looking for solutions.. you, and people who think like you, are part of the problem
Im done with this thread, and Im done with men who defend the despicable actions of other men..
BTW, Thomas Jefferson was in France, when the constitution was written
Posted by Marianne Williams on 11/24/2009 @ 09:38PM PT
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Marianne,
You are corrrect about Jefferson being in France at the time of the constitution. As for his slave mistress, neither of us was there.However, it has been a historical fact that women have been attracted to men who are powerful and famous. In modern times, the rock star and the superstar athlete are good examples of this. Even at a lower level, a friend of mine who has off and on worked for his lawyer brother as a paralegal told me that all or almost of his brother's secretaries become his brother's girl friends, and thereafter they tend to assume to a certain extent a role as queen.
Certainly, on many things you have fairly reasonable ideas, except for automatic life sentence for johns patronizing prostitutes in the wrong zones. People convicted of second degree murder are often out in ten years or so. Do u really think violating a zoning ordinance should carry more time than second degree murder, or even carjacking, armed robbery, or assault with intent to kill? But compared to people like Dennis and In God we trust, on other things you are not too bad.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/24/2009 @ 10:07PM PT
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The article says " If proposed legislation in Massachusetts passes, registered sex offenders would be barred from staying in homeless shelters, begging the question: where are they supposed to go?"
One good place for a Sex Offender PRISON ... they are dangerous to society.
Posted by Lara Nunes on 11/25/2009 @ 01:36AM PT
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Prison, ok, for how long?What about when they get out and are unable to find affordable housing? Do we send them back to prison for violating parole because they break Jessica's Law? BTW Jessica's Law is one of the most worthless pieces of law I have ever seen- it states that no sex offender can reside within 2000 feet of a school. They can visit during the day, but cannot reside (be there at night) I ask the question "When are children going to school? Is it at night or in the day time?" If we send them back to prison I ask again, for how long? Should they spend more time in jail then a murderer? A car thief? An Assailant? How long to you lock up a person for not having a place to go? Should we be more strict on them than we are on violent criminals?
Posted by Raymond Simms on 11/25/2009 @ 05:07AM PT
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Yes! We should keep them in prison forever! Yes we should treat them more strict than other offenses. Other offenses are most often done to adults. At least an adult has some sort of fighting chance whereas a child has no protection. They are vulnerable and look to adults to help them, not hurt them.
Posted by Carrue Forbes on 12/13/2009 @ 10:08PM PT
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The category sex offender is so broad that it includes guys downloading illegal porn or an 18 year old having sex with his 16 year old girl friend with some psycho forcibly kidnapping, sodomizing and murdering a 6 year old child. The laws are often given names like Jessica's Law to associate some terrible murder with other things that are really fairly mainstream, and in which no one is being forced to do anything. When campaign time comes along, short soundbites could make anyone voting against a very broad sex offender bill be perceived as someone who donb't give a damn about little girls getting raped and murdered. One of the tricks to propaganda is to throw in some truth to gain credibility while the falseness is part of the package. It is also to get people's emotions so worked up that they are only seeing a part of the agenda.I certainly see sex offender laws like reduced tolerance alcohol levels, and spousal abuse laws as ways to add to the prison population. Drug laws are the biggest prison fillers, but these others taken together help to keep the police state/prison complex growing.Whither, the purpose of a bill is in regards to sex offences, defense spending, etc to a large extent it is largely tailored to make money for contractors and expand the job rolls of unions and employee associations.I saw some statistics the other day on the web of sex offenders and violent sex offenders from 1980 to late 90s. The number of violent sex crimes was pretty stable, whereas the other category shot up rapidly.You can see that violent crime wasn't really increasing that much, and the increase was due to new laws or more stringent enforcement against non violent types. But you can certainly see several people on this post who think a porn downloader or a teenager having sex with a gal a couple years younger should be dealt with as harshly or even more so than armed robbers etc.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/26/2009 @ 07:09PM PT
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The category sex offender is so broad that it includes guys downloading illegal porn or an 18 year old having sex with his 16 year old girl friend with some psycho forcibly kidnapping, sodomizing and murdering a 6 year old child. The laws are often given names like Jessica's Law to associate some terrible murder with other things that are really fairly mainstream, and in which no one is being forced to do anything. When campaign time comes along, short soundbites could make anyone voting against a very broad sex offender bill be perceived as someone who donb't give a damn about little girls getting raped and murdered. One of the tricks to propaganda is to throw in some truth to gain credibility while the falseness is part of the package. It is also to get people's emotions so worked up that they are only seeing a part of the agenda.I certainly see sex offender laws like reduced tolerance alcohol levels, and spousal abuse laws as ways to add to the prison population. Drug laws are the biggest prison fillers, but these others taken together help to keep the police state/prison complex growing.Whither, the purpose of a bill is in regards to sex offences, defense spending, etc to a large extent it is largely tailored to make money for contractors and expand the job rolls of unions and employee associations.I saw some statistics the other day on the web of sex offenders and violent sex offenders from 1980 to late 90s. The number of violent sex crimes was pretty stable, whereas the other category shot up rapidly.You can see that violent crime wasn't really increasing that much, and the increase was due to new laws or more stringent enforcement against non violent types. But you can certainly see several people on this post who think a porn downloader or a teenager having sex with a gal a couple years younger should be dealt with as harshly or even more so than armed robbers etc.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/26/2009 @ 07:09PM PT
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To lawyers and legislators, whether a law is good or bad is often immaterial -- just so long as it's popular.
A slight perusal of the laws by which the measures of vindictive and coercive justice are established will discover so many disproportions between crimes and punishments, such capricious distinctions of guilt, and such confusion of remissness and severity as can scarcely be believed to have been produced by public wisdom, sincerely and calmly studious of public happiness.
...... Samuel Johnson
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 12:46PM PT
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Well spoken Tom, and it is more than likely the les violent offenders who would be looking to check into a shelter, due to family disowning them, friends leaving them, or whateverr the reason those people are normally alienatedd because the way this society views all criminals (not just "sex offenders". The "Level 3" sex offender is more than likely going to be spending the majority of their life in Jail if they are really and truly dangerous, but most of the other offenders would be in and out in either 6 months - 2 years.
I believe if I were in a homeless shelter I would rather be sleeping next to a sex offender than a wife beater or a thief, or a drunk driver for that matter. If a lower category sex offender is trying to get their life back on track, but needs a place to stay why shouldn't they go to a shelter especially if the shelter has a couseling session to help them get their life on track and help them not offend.
As for the level 3 offenders, what if the shelter had a seperate area just for the "high risk offenders, not a seperate facility, but a seperate area where they could be kept away from anyone that COULD be hurt by them? I think that would be the best course of action, yes it would require a little more staff to accomodate the "special" housing area, but it would be cheaper than having a completely new staff and all the bills for a completely new facility. It would also give them a chance to try and join back in society as long as they remain law abiding and follow the rules of their parole/probation. Keeps the overrcrowded prison population down because they have served their time and are currently following the laws, and keeps others protected.
I am sure this plan does have flaws, but it is the best that I can think of based on the article and the posts above. Gives us all a chance to forgive and gives them a chance at a new law abiding life (instead of freezing to death).
Ray
Posted by Raymond Simms on 11/26/2009 @ 08:13PM PT
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I have read most of the comments through the blog and first want to thank Shannon for writing this piece. It takes a lot of courage to take the stand you take and it is (as you can see in the comments) a unpopular one with most. While I haven't always agreed with stuff you've written, this one struck me as bold.
There is quite a limitation what can be done to help sex offenders as most people don't want society to do anything that would be seen as "taking their side". This makes it very controversial and causes people to take very harsh stances against anyone labeled a sex offender.
As some have noted, the requirements for what a predatory sex offender very much from state to state. The label is often added by a judge in sentencing, which makes it open to speculation whether a person deserves that designation. You could have two very similar cases in different jurisdictions where one was labeled "predatory" and one is not. It should be noted also that the Level 3 designation in this conversation really only applies to Massachusetts since that is where Shannon cited the article from. How things are done in my home state are different then in Massachusetts, so people should be careful how they throw around the designation of Level 3 as it doesn't apply really from state to state.
I also believe that society is better off making sure these people are monitored and complete every aspect of supervision that is required of them. With budget cuts in many states, this becomes a severe problem as most Department of Parole and Probation overwhelmed supervising anyone who has been released. I am a little shocked to hear very few people advocate for these kind of things, nor any kind of treatment. There are many sex offenders who can be treated when released and rehabilitated. Granted there are always the very hard core ones who will likely end up back in trouble. However, when we fail to act at all, we are partly responsible for putting these people back on the path to harming more people.
While past experiences always have a role in how we view things, I believe they can also cloud people's judgement. Simply saying lock'em up and throw away the key to all sex offenders is not the solution. As someone said, you can't put someone back in prison for a crime they didn't commit. Once people have served their time, they deserved to be released. We as a society have a responsibility to find a way to help some of these people integrate back into life outside prison. This includes treatment and supervision. Many states are doing a piss poor job of this either due to the laws being passed limiting rehabilitation efforts or budget constraints.
Posted by David English on 11/28/2009 @ 09:41PM PT
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Very well thought out, David, but I'd like to venture that part of the problem we are dealing with here is not in regard to people that have histories of violence, but in many cases young men having relations with women a few years younger, or cases of people in possession of illegal porn etc. I recently read some statistics from 1980 to the late 90s and the number of violent sex crimes only rose slightly, but the total sex crimes rose rapidly. I believe the legislation enacted to broaden its scope is designed just like reduced alscohol tolerance, spousal abuse, and drug laws to profit the police state and the prison industrial establisment. I have a freiend that is 38 and another friend his dad, who is 62. His dad turned 24 around the time his son was born, and the mom was 17. In todays standards he'd be a sex offender. I can imagine the jokes on the DAs staff in cases where a fairly attractive female teacher is being accused of being a sex offender. I'm sure between them, all the guys readily admit they wish theyd have had some hot teachers seducing them. The California Corrections Officers Union spends 1/3 of its dues lobbying, and is very sucessful in not only getting pay raises, benefits etc, but legislation that increases the number of prisoners.
Tom
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/28/2009 @ 11:21PM PT
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I believe Mary K. Letourneau originally got 6 months in jail as part of a suspended sentence. Only after she violated the conditions of her probation was she sentenced to seven and a half years.
If Mary had been a Marvin or Moe, she'd have gotten 40 years right off the bat...
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 12:56PM PT
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I, for one, mistrust anyone in whom the desire to punish is strong. Prosecuting attorneys who place ten year olds and teenagers on a sex offender registry for trivial and antiquated statutory offenses are nothing short of malevolent. While many insist upon the incorrigible pathology of some sex offenders it should also be noted that many of our sex laws are also rooted in pathology. The recent trend of prosecuting teenagers who cell phone explicit pictures of the themselves is a case in point. Prosecutors assume serious offenses where their are none except by some antiquated legal mind set. The law's net is cast too broadly in this witch hunt for sex offenders with politicians, the media, and sexual neurotics leading the way. The law is, as always, an ass.
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 12:21PM PT
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IMHO, it is enough that the authorities know where offenders are. That's what we pay them for. Public registries cause undue public anxiety. They also cause certain obsessive individuals to be constantly perusing through them and foster vigilantism. In fact, that's what public registries are - vigilantism. There purpose being to brand people for life; to excommunicate and banish them within their own society. The punishment is often not proportional to the crime nor is it intended to be.
There are many people who have committed murder, done their time, and are now out and about but not any public registry. Many more have committed multiple counts of assault, battery, armed robbery, forgery, theft. Many others have sold drugs to kids and, after doing their time, they're released back "on the streets, " into society without being put on a public registry. Odd, very odd..
So why the radical distinction between sexually related and non-sexually related offenses? This question has always been the elephant in the room.
The media in particular plays upon the neuroses inherent in our reaction to these broken taboos. The reporting of sex offenses is more sensational, histrionic reenactments are standard, and life long psychological damages and not just presumed, they are insisted upon.
On the other hand, I have known persons who've suffered sexual abuse. It does alter them but not indefinitely more so than many other tragedies which are common to our lives. Any categorical imperative that counts sexual offenses as exceptional when compared to other offenses against the body is cultural rather a matter of "logic" written in the stars.
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 12:28PM PT
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Martin, again I'd like to compliment you for a well thought out post. The fact that there is no registry requirement for murderers, armed robbers, or car jackers, but one for sex offenders[which can include people downloading illegal porn, guys having sex with willing gals a few years younger than themselves, and adult women seducing willing teenaged boys] shows how irrational the laws are. I'd feel much safer living near a non violent sex ofender than a murderer, armed robber etc. The fact that such laws exist is directly connected with large numbers of the public being propagandized by slogans like several of the brain dead people who post here. They remind me of the ditto heads who call in to Rush or Hannity, thanking them for how much they have inspired their intellectual growth.
If u get a chance, check out my website www.thecoolcat.net. I have a number of poems referring to the growth of the police state.
Peace,
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/30/2009 @ 01:27PM PT
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Cool Site. :)
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 02:26PM PT
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Martin,
Until your last comment, I was totally in agreement with you.
You wrote
Anybody square enough to believe the US was invading Iraq to bring it freedom would also believe that an adult female teacher having sex with a very willing teenage boy is NOT abusing him.
Either way you put it the logic is fallacious..
I have only met a few guys who allege they were seduced by a teacher as a teen, and none of them felt it was in any way harmful to them. I have also talked to many guys who were not seduced, but wished they were. None of these guys ever expresed a wish to have been carjacked, robbed at gun point etc. I'd bet that of people who believe the US invaded Iraq to bring it freedom would have a much higher % of those who are supportive of the present sex offender laws, drug laws etc.
I am as strong against crimes of violence, larceny and fraud as anyone; but I believe that if the alleged victim does not think they are a victim or even later does not want the case prosecuted; that prosecution is not justice but tyrany.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/30/2009 @ 01:48PM PT
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One final note:
Sexual abuse of children and minors is, nowadays, regularly highlighted in the media. As such, it became an offence, however, only during the nineteenth century, along with the development of a particular, child-like social role of juveniles. Before 1800, adolescents were less excluded from adult life including marriage and procreation. Sexual activities were also generally criminalised outside marriage. Statutes concerning child abuse had their origins in these laws, as well as in statutes extending the scope of rape to the abuse of immature girls. Along with the increase of the age of consent from 10–12 to approximately 16 in most countries, abuse of boys and sexual contacts other than intercourse have recently been included in these statutes. This movement, sometimes supported by moral crusades against immorality occurred in most Western countries along with the extension of the school system, and with the acceptance of the view that adolescence should, as a distinct period of life, be devoted to the preparation for adult life. In recent years, the focus has shifted from combating immoraltiy to the protection of vulnerable parties. Whereas young males were subject to prosecution for having sexual relations with females their own age and even older, sexual contacts between juveniles have been gradually decriminalised. Recent moral crusades call for tougher prosecution policies, bringing to the courts a higher proportion of cases, including those involving acts committed abroad and/or in the remote past.
Like the Puritans, our "enlightened" forms of punishment have a public and semiotic function, through a display of overt signs of stigma and discredited identity. Rituals of moral condemnation and public shunning no longer take the form of the stocks and the wearing of a Scarlet "A." Rituals of exclusion and continuous surveillance replace public shaming and shunning. They take multiple forms, these days: Electronic monitoring, voter disenfranchisement for felons, the presence of names on "no fly" lists, the posting of discrediting billboards outside of homes as court-ordered punishment, and, in the case of the most notorious, real-time GPS tracking, available to a hyper-vigilant public via Google maps, and so on. And, there is always the potential for ubiquitous and sensationalized media attention, given the insatiable appetite for stories of deviance.
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 02:40PM PT
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Martin,
Until your last comment, I was totally in agreement with you.
You wrote
Anybody square enough to believe the US was invading Iraq to bring it freedom would also believe that an adult female teacher having sex with a very willing teenage boy is NOT abusing him.
Either way you put it the logic is fallacious..
I have only met a few guys who allege they were seduced by a teacher as a teen, and none of them felt it was in any way harmful to them. I have also talked to many guys who were not seduced, but wished they were. None of these guys ever expresed a wish to have been carjacked, robbed at gun point etc. I'd bet that of people who believe the US invaded Iraq to bring it freedom would have a much higher % of those who are supportive of the present sex offender laws, drug laws etc.
I am as strong against crimes of violence, larceny and fraud as anyone; but I believe that if the alleged victim does not think they are a victim or even later does not want the case prosecuted; that prosecution is not justice but tyrany.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/30/2009 @ 01:48PM PT
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Tom,
I was not arguing the morality of students have sex with teachers. My quarrel is that it has correlation to one's opinion of American foreign policy. :)
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 02:04PM PT
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Tom,
I was not arguing the morality of students having sex with teachers. My quarrel is that it has no correlation to one's opinion of American foreign policy. :)
You got me doing the double take.. I'm tired. :)
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 02:06PM PT
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The first thing you learn in Anthropology is that most people in other cultures are sex criminals by our standards.
I am reminded of what happened when European missionaries first landed on the Hawaiian Islands. The missionaries were sorely offended by the natives' nakedness and their "easy intermingling between the sexes." The hula, which was performed only by men, was banned because the missionaries thought it lewd.
All of Polynesian culture would be guilty of statutory rape, public indecency, etc.. by our laws now.
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 02:21PM PT
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Martin,
I'm glad you liked my site. We are in agreement 99% of the time.
You wrote
Tom,
I was not arguing the morality of students having sex with teachers. My quarrel is that it has no correlation to one's opinion of American foreign policy. :)
I am not alleging a 100% correlation with anything, but do maintain that there is a fair amount of correlation with a person's opinion on one issue with another. I heard a year or so ago that both parties use data of people who subscribe to certain magazines, drive certain vehicles etc to find demographic groups that they can target for vote drives. I used the Iraq invasion as an analogy to depict those that are easily propagandized. And I sincerely believe that in the last 30 years that the passage of more punative laws against sex offences, drinking and driving, spousal abuse is largely motivated by the same police state and prison industrial complex forces that have also been behind the drug war.
Here is a short poem from my site which I believe describes much of the growing police state in the US.
SNAKES AND SQUARES
The politicion snake uses the citizen square like a tool to get re-elected; and pass legislation that is bogus and unfair.
Down thru time, the evil snake and the naive square form a symbiotic pair.
Groovy man
by the Cool Cat
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/30/2009 @ 02:49PM PT
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The ethos of most "modern" prisons from a public perspective is one in which the unremarked goal is to allow the public to take vicarious pleasure in contemplating the suffering of the wretched. The series Locked Up satisfies this arrangement. A few prison systems actually aim to reintegrate the offender and reduce recidivism but these are the exception.
As technology advances, the techniques of surveillance will become omnipresent. Eventually we will be living in a virtual police state. Prisons will be unnecessary as we will all be born into one.
Once or twice a year, you will hear a rude pounding at the front door. A bunch of goons dressed in helmets and full body armor, with pump shotguns and tasers will go through every room in your home looking for something suspicious.
Most the population will acquiesce to this policy in accordance with logic proffered by the ministry of propaganda (the nightly news) That is to say, "If you who have nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear from routine police visitations."
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 05:09PM PT
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Article concering sex-offender recidivism
http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg19926633.100-sex-offenders-unlikely-to-commit-second-crime.html?feedId=online-news_rss20
Posted by Martin Bring on 11/30/2009 @ 05:13PM PT
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Martin,
You are a bright person. It is good to hear on this group from people like yourself as opposed to several of the brainwashed morons that remind me of some brain dead admiring callers, who call into such radio shows as Rush or Hannity. You make excellent points about the fact that muderers, armed robbers, carjackers etc are not required to be on any registry, but anyone classed as a sex offender is. Statistics show that the vast majority of the increase in the number of sex offenders between 1980 and the late nineties were non violent, and the number of violent offenders only increased slightly. I would feel a lot safer living near someone convicted of downloading ilegal porn, a guy having sex with a gal a few years younger, or a 20 something female teacher seducing a willing teenaged boy than muderers and armed robbers.
Anyway, I wanted to compliment you on several well thought out posts.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 11/30/2009 @ 10:20PM PT
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Thank you.... You're pretty good yourself. ;-)
As you can see in my bio, I've a background in philosophy and science.
It helps to develop a more objective view of our own societal norms through a study of other societies via anthropology and history. To be sure, if our sexual mores and statutes were part and parcel to some universal moral order, they would have been evident in every society throughout history. This is far from the case.
The question what to do about pedophilia (which is where our public furor concerning sex offenders began) is similar to the one we've recently posed about what to do about homosexuality. Here again, we can find numerous examples in history of tolerance and intolerance for both. Naturally, deconstructing our own reactions is crucial to understanding the unfortunate stamps of "moral folly," "genital neurosis," "aberration of the genetic instinct," "degeneracy," or "physical imbalance." It should be noted that most men and women suffering these "manias," "mental pathologies" and "instinctual and developmental disturbances," do not act on them. The insistence of bringing them all under close surveillance and supervision would be tantamount to witch hunting. In any case, the law should defer to science whenever possible.
One more thing you might consider:
One of the most salient features of our age of consent laws is that they are harsher on men than women and harsher on homosexual than heterosexual behavior. Note that most of the people so sorely indignant about a few priests fondling young boys, originally treated Mary K. Letourneau with kid gloves. The courts did the same giving Letoureau six months in the county jail. It was only after Letourneau defied the court and continued her "affair" with Vili Fualaau that she was treated to the same penalties as a man. One wonders how much harm would be presumed by Priest's "affairs" with young boys if these boys were considered no more damaged than Vili Fualaau. Obviously, the supposed harm committed by sex offenses remains dependent upon the gender of the offender, the gender of the victim, and their sexual orientation.
Personally, I am not offended by older women who seduce teenage boys and ditto the other way 'round where in each instance the sex is consensual which is what we're presuming to begin with. I know men and women who were sexually active from their early teens onward and will tell others, quite emphatically, they've no regrets despite the insistence of "experts" who say they must have suffered some injury and that their experiences are aberrant.
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/01/2009 @ 08:56AM PT
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Martin,
I believe such an Orwellian police state as you describe in your recent post if it occurs will be a biproduct of American interventionism. The last 60 years or so have proved that although no third world country can stop a superpower from invading them, attempts to occupy the territory prove costly and discouraging to the superpower. France learned that in Vietnam. The US learned that later in Vietnam. USSR learned it in Afghanistan, and the US has been learning it in Afghanistan and Iraq. Since in insurgencies and guerella war the insurgents are able to shift from being a farmer or a tradesman into an insurgent and back again, the only successful method of fighting such a war would be much better survalence equipment. I'd imagine they have been working on this kind of research for a good while. And if and when they develope such technology, one way or another they would attempt to sell it to the public for domestic use.
It is just a thought. As Einstein said,"Our technoloy has exceeded our humanity."
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/01/2009 @ 07:36AM PT
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Martin Bring, you have displayed two things in your posts. Your grasp on vocabulary....excellent. Your grasp on current, real world issues dealing with sex crime victims and offenders...not very good. I have studied philosophy as well. There are some things that you just can't find in those books.
Posted by Dennis G. on 12/01/2009 @ 09:31PM PT
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Martin,
I wouldn't worry about your grasp of real world issues as judged by Dennis.Dennis as well as In God We Trust are both the types of shallow, propagandized people who are often admiring fans of the likes of Rush and Hannity. Last week Dennis made some remark about my reference to Orwell's 1984, as if it was unrealistic fiction. It is quite realistic fiction, and Dennis and In God We Trust are typical of the propagandized outer party types described. Dennis does admit you have a good vocabulary, but a bright European or Asian in the process of learning English could readily see that your statements are certainly a product of a much brighter mind than those of Dennis or In God We Trust.
You made the point recently that there is disparity in how harshly sex offenders are judged depending on their sex and sex of their alleged victim. U mentioned there is the greater acceptance of adult females with teen boys, and much less for adult males with girls or boys. I have a theory on that. Guys in general see sex experiences with females as a success, and especially so in earlier years as a young man is attempting to develope sexual self confidence. Females on the other hand, whither they 15 or 45, often later regret the experience and feel exploited and used. It's just the way females tend to be. As for boys seduced by a priest etc, I'd guess that is a mixed bag. Some might look on it totally positive, whereas others later might feel shame, guilt and regret. In stating these ideas, I am not saying how harsh these different categories should be dealt with. I am only stating the conditions under which I believe they tend to be viewed and experienced.
I'd much rather have Ms Letourneau or an illegal porn downloader as my neighbor than Dennis or In God We Trust.
Peace,
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/01/2009 @ 11:51PM PT
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Home Run for Tom Smith! Martin I have to agree with Tom - don't take the rantings of the self proclaimed psychologist to heart. He needs to practice what he preaches and realize that he needs to step away from the books and look at the real world as well. He believes that because he has a college degree he can make outrageous statements and everyone must agree with him because he is a PSYCHOlogist. He ignores the obvious as does In God I Trust.
I believe Martin's responses have been thorough and thought through fairly well (other than half the other posts on here) and believe he should be commended for bringing so good dialogue to this post at a minimum that gives a good point of view for the minority willing to stand up for the unpopular side of this article.
Posted by Raymond Simms on 12/03/2009 @ 11:03PM PT
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Tom,
You've more or less stated, I think, what were our society's stereotypical views of how males and females react to sexual congress. I say "were" because attitudes concerning sex have changed considerably since the 60's, although admittedly not for everyone. As always, the law lags behind.
Previously, our society's copious discourse about sex was governed by the endeavor to expel from reality those forms of sexuality that were not amenable to the strict economy of reproduction. Through the various discourses of "experts," legal sanctions against minor perversions were multiplied, sexual irregularity was annexed to mental illness; from childhood to old age, a norm of sexual development was defined and all possible deviations were carefully described; pedagogical controls and mental treatments were organized; and around the least fantasies, moralists, but especially doctors, brandished the whole emphatic vocabulary of abominations "contrary to nature."
All this garrualous and even liberal attention which has us in a stew over sexuality has, nevertheless, lead to greater surveillance over marriage relations, reproduction, childhood sexuality, homosexuality, and recently, a newborn witchhunt concerned with pedophilia.
What category pedophilia falls into is a matter of political will, whether mental illness or monstrosity. As a targeted anomaly, it will be persecuted. As a clinical anomaly, it will be pathologized with respect to "normal" behavior, and finally, a corrective technology will be sought for it.. The question is whether it will be humane or not.
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/05/2009 @ 11:47AM PT
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Whats the difference between Tom Smith and a flounder? One is a scum sucking bottom dweller, and the other is a fish..
Martin Bring.... that goes double for you... ps you may have read a lot of philosophy or science, but you have learned nothing!
Trying to rationalize or minimize the perverse actions of pedophiles is dispicable!
Posted by Marianne Williams on 12/02/2009 @ 12:32AM PT
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MW, Is this what ACORN teaches in their Advocacy classes?
Emotional smokescreens sidetrack the issues, wearing down the "Opponent", while struggling to find a new victim to thrash. Are you jumping in while D.G. and IGWT catch a breather?
Do you know what a Flounder House is? Are both eyeballs on one side? Why have women only had the right to vote less than 100 years? Apparently you fail to see Natural Rights or Human rights worth protecting.
I repeat a previous post responding to someone advocating death as the punishment......................
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No. The process used to stigmatize them literally opens the doorway for those who advocate death such as yourself to expand this death sentence to others the mob mentally chooses to segregate, sanitize and eliminate. Nazi Germany extinguished the mentally and physically challenged first . Sexual deviates now and as the cancer spreads up the "food chain" we will arrive at the simple viewers of adult content pornography.
1 in 3 Porn customers are women. Sexual and Love addiction is far larger a problem than the recent OPRAH show touched upon. Once a fire is lit it must be tended or stamped out. Perpetuate this thinking and you support Homelessness as a punishment . A new form of Racism at least and legalized Hate crime at best.
Get to the heart of many Alcoholic and Drug addicted women and many of the men and you will find sexual abuse a contributing cause of their spiritual malady. But do you even see that? Are you supporting attitudes that keep Human Rights in the 17th century?
Can you see that ? Do you see that leaving children on the street you nearly guarantee they will be victims of some sort of violence. A never ending supply of young flesh. By our actions we revere property rights while throwing away human lives. Please believe what you want. The emotions this topic exposes are painful. Brutal Honesty ? Or sugar coated rhetoric? Are you even willing to ask yourself these questions.
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Does this bantering and name calling make you feel stronger?
Respectfully,
Keith M. Bender
Posted by Keith Bender on 12/02/2009 @ 06:28AM PT
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This post by Marianne does not even deserve an intellectual reponse (as far as any of my posts can be seen as intellectual). I will instead resort to the same level as Marianne has for Tom Smith. Marianne your are a doodie head and I am going to take my ball and go home ::raspberries::
So nice to see how far our "enlightened society" can have an open debate without resorting to childish name calling or degrading riddles that are worthy of an elementary school restroom.
I am stopping now, because as they say, fighting someone online is like winning the special olympics. I am leaving on that note!
Posted by Raymond Simms on 12/03/2009 @ 11:11PM PT
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Keith,
Your comparing the stigmas of being a sex offender with crimes against humanity commited by Nazis, and to liken the sex offenders to those victims, is an atrocity, in and of itself.
A better comparison would be to compare the ATROCITIES that have been commited by SEX OFFENDERS, with the dehumanizing ABUSES and atrocities committed by Nazis against vulnerable populations of people.
While I don't generally agree with there being a death sentence, there have been a limited number of situations, where I believe a humane euthanasia would be the kinder thing for all concerned. There was a case in MA, where two NAMBLA members murdered a young boy, placed his body in a container and threw it into water. I don't see either of those two perverts ever being able to redeem themselves sufficiently to merit breathing the same air as their young victim's family. There was NO DOUBT at all that they were the perpetrators, they were video taped by store cameras buying the various items used to try to cover up their vile act, including cement, duck tape, etc... I think we all understand that a rabid pet, must be put to death, and how much LESS threatening is a rabid animal, than those two subhuman wastes of space. Sorry.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 12/03/2009 @ 12:15PM PT
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"Just a note to the knowledgeable "Radical Republican". This site helps out "brainiacs" like you by providing a "check spelling" clickable link (childeren?) "
I suspect he is aware of how to spell, and I suppose you have NEVER had a single typographical error, in anything you've written, lol.
" Where are you going to get the money for the "shelters specifically for sex offenders?" And where are you going to put them? They cannot be within 2000 feet of any school, playground, church, or any other place children congregate. What country do you reside in that does NOT provide congregation areas for our children? "
Maybe we could put some halfway houses for them near land fills, they could use grants and heat the place with all that methane. There could be work for them, sorting through garbage and salvaging scraps of food, and also egg farms set up for them to run, to help defray the costs of their care.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 12/03/2009 @ 12:19PM PT
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Cee,
You say that false reports of rape are extremely rare. It appears that there is a good deal of differences of opinions on how rare it is.
In her work, "The Legacy of the Prompt Complaint Requirement, Corroboration Requirement, and Cautionary Instructions on Campus Sexual Assault", Michelle J. Anderson of the Villanova University School of Law states: "As a scientific matter, the frequency of false rape complaints to police or other legal authorities remains unknown."[10] The FBI's 1996 Uniform Crime Report states that 8% of reports of forcible rape were determined to be unfounded upon investigation,[11] but that percentage does not include cases where an accuser fails or refuses to cooperate in an investigation or drops the charges. A British study using a similar methodology that does not include the accusers who drop out of the justice process found a false reporting rate of 8% as well.[12]
In 1994, Dr. Eugene J. Kanin of Purdue University investigated the incidences, in one small unidentified urban community, of false rape allegations made to the police between 1978 and 1987. Dr. Kanin asserts that "unlike those in many larger jurisdictions, this police department had the resources to "seriously record and pursue to closure all rape complaints, regardless of their merits". He further states each investigation "always involves a serious offer to polygraph the complainants and the suspects." and "the complainant must admit that no rape had occurred. She is the sole agent who can say that the rape charge is false." The falseness of the allegations was not decided by the police, Dr. Kanin, nor upon physical or testimonial evidence. The number of false rape allegations concluded in the studied period was 45; this was 41% of the 109 total complaints filed in this period. In Dr. Kanin's research, the complainants who made false allegations did so (by their own statements during recantation) for one or some combination of three major reasons:
providing an alibi. Dr. Kanin's report describes a woman who got into a bar fight and, fearing that this might prevent her from regaining custody of her children, filed a rape complaint to account for her injuries.a means of gaining revenge. Dr. Kanin's report describes an 18 year old woman who engages in consensual sex with a boarder staying at her house. After he refuses to continue their relationship she accuses him of rape.a platform for seeking attention/sympathy. Dr. Kanin's report describes a woman who becomes attracted to her therapist and in an attempt to elicit sympathy from him fabricates a story of rape and is subsequently pressured by him to report it to the police. Dr. Kanin also looked at the police records of two large mid western state universities and found that, of the 64 rape accusations, 32 (50%) were eventually recanted. Unlike the city police in the other study, the university police did not use polygraph examinations and the investigations were all performed by female officers. This figure also forms a lower estimate of the total number of false accusations reported to the police during this period and it is similarly possible that there were false accusations that were never recanted and resulted in convictions. However Kanin warns against reading too much into his results: "Certainly our intent is not to suggest that the 41 percent incidence found here be extrapolated to other populations, particularly in light of our ignorance regarding the structural variables."[13]
Criticism of Dr. Kanin's report include Dr. David Lisak, an associate professor of psychology and director of the Men’s Sexual Trauma Research Project at the University of Massachusetts, Boston. In the September/October 2007 issue of the Sexual Assault Report he states “Kanin’s 1994 article on false allegations is a provocative opinion piece, but it is not a scientific study of the issue of false reporting of rape. It certainly should never be used to assert a scientific foundation for the frequency of false allegations.” He further states “[ Dr. Kanin] simply reiterates the opinions of the police officers who concluded that the cases in question were ‘false allegations.’” Lasik cites page 13 of Investigating Sexual Assaults from the iNternational Association of Chiefs of Police which says polygraph tests for sexual assault victims are contradicted in the investigation process and that their use is “based on the misperception that a significant percentage of sexual assault reports are false,”. Lasik goes on that “It is noteworthy that the police department from which Kanin derived his data used or threatened to use the polygraph in every case… The fact that it was the standard procedure of this department provides a window on the biases of the officers who conducted the rape investigations, biases that were then echoed in Kanin’s unchallenged reporting of their findings.”
A 2006 paper by N.S. Rumney in the Cambridge Law Journal provided an exhaustive account of studies of false reporting in the USA, New Zealand and the UK.[14] A tabulated list of studies on false reporting published between 1968 and 2005 placed the percentage of false reports between a minimum on 1.5% (Theilade and Thomsen, 1986) and a maximum of 90% (Stewart, 1981). Rumney notes that early researchers tended to accept uncritically Freudian theories which purported to explain the prevalence of false allegations, while in more recent literature there has been "a lack of critical analysis of those who claim a low false reporting rate and the uncritical adoption of unreliable research findings" (p.157) Rumney concludes that "as a consequence of such deficiencies within legal scholarship, factual claims have been repeatedly made that have only limited empirical support. This suggests widespead analytical failure on the part of legal scholarship and requires an acknowledgement of the weakness of assumptions that have been constructed on unreliable research evidence".
Among rape cases that got much media attention, the alligations against the Duke boys was proved false and the DA was forced to resign and I believe was disbarred. The Kobe Bryant case was dropped after the alleged victim decided she would not testify. Certainly, in the case of celebrities accused of rape several factors come up. If a person is a rich celebrity, he knows that if he rapes someone she knows who he is. Also a rich person presents the possibility of a lucrative civil suit if he is convicted of criminal charges. There is also the fact that wealthy superstars always have numerous women throwing themselves at them, and their wealth makes it very simple for them to hire a call girl for a hell of a lot cheaper than a legal defense against rape.As for the guys who mudered the young boy, I have no more sympathy for them than you do.
As for various statutory rape laws, here is one example
Montana
§ 45-5-501 et seq.
Sexual intercourse with someone under age 16.
Life imprisonment or between two and 100 years. If the victim if under age 16 and the offender is at least three years older, life imprisonment or four to 100 years.
Under this law, an 18 year old boy could be prosecuted for sex with a 15 year old girl.
As for provable violent, forcible rapes of anyone, I'd have no more sympathy for the rapist than you would.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/03/2009 @ 09:02PM PT
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NO!, i dont think shelters should ban sex offenders, im not a sex offender and never will be but here why i say they shouldnt, first, if you are homeless and have no place to stay then i think its good for you have a place to stay at night not only that but better your life in the daytime, like job search, but being a sex offender its already going to be hard to get a job, but i think if they are a registerd sex offender then that means they've already did their time for their crime, i dont think we should be like that at all, THIS IS THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA, NO ONE SHOULD FEEL LEFTED OUT, if someone is a sex offender i think that they should go to threapy. Not be sumed out of our communities,, I DONT CARE SEX OFFENDER OR NOT WE ARE ALL PEOPLE, THINK ABOUT THIS...IF SOMEONE YOU KNEW, LETS SAY A GOOD FRIEND OF YOURS, YOU'VE KNOWN FOR A LONG TIME, BUT HE/SHE NEVER SHOWED ANY SIGNS OF BEING AN OFFENDER, AND LETS SAY 3 MONTHS LATER HE/SHE IS THROWN INTO JAIL FOR BEING A SEX OFFENDER AND YOUR FEELING FOR THIS PERSON WAS NOT LOVE STRONG BUT STRONG, WHAT WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE HIM BE, ON THE STREETS ALL YEAR INCLUDING WINTER, OR ATLEAST IN A SHELTER WHERE HE/SHE COULD ATLEAST TRY TO BETTER THEMSELVES? WE ARE NOT TO JUDGE, EVERYONE IS ON THIS EARTH FOR ONLY ONE MAIN REASON AND THAT REASON IS SAID IN THE HOLY BIBLE, WE ARE NOT TO JUDGE, IF THEY DO SOMETHING WRONG, GOD WILL HANDLE IT, THEY WILL BE WATCHED, I THINK THAT SEX OFFENDERS SHOULD ONLY BE ALLOWED IN 18 AND OLDER SHELTERS. NOT FAMILY SHELTERS WITH LITTLE KIDS RUNNING AROUND BUT IN ADULT SHELTERS WHERE HE/SHE IS NO WHERE AROUND YOUNG ONES.
Posted by Oliver Robinson on 12/04/2009 @ 08:06AM PT
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Why should we have to pay for them to have their own shelter to live in? They are the sick perverts and whatever they get, they deserve. I don't care if my brother turned out to be a sex offender. I would let him lie in the street and die. As far as therapy goes..there is no cure for sex offenders. They will always want to have sex with children. You are right, though, it is up to God to judge and not us but I'm not perfect and when it comes to sick sex offenders, I wish they all got the death penalty.
Posted by Carrue Forbes on 12/13/2009 @ 10:04PM PT
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Tom,
Mary Latourneau, was a mentally ill woman who, regardless, clearly did KNOW right from wrong and that it was highly illegal for her to prey upon a young, vulnerable student.
She got, if anything, LESS than she deserved and her victim, did come to see himself as being a victim, which, of course he most certainly was. Her becoming pregnant with a young, unemployed, confused, student of hers was a disgusting violation of trust that parents and students should be able to have in the public school system.
She should have remained in prison, or in a facility for the criminally insane, which she is, for her countless violations of the terms of her release and do not portray that rapist and sex offender, as having no victims. Each of her children has been severely traumatized by her gross unwillingness to keep her vile hands to herself and off of her UNWITTING, incapable of consenting, student's bodies.
Posted by Cee Wolfe on 12/05/2009 @ 08:08AM PT
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Cee,
From what I read her alleged victim did not come to see himself as a victim. They married when he was 22, and are still married 4 years later. A person's children might be traumatized by a lot of things a parent might do, and vice versa. My point is that that if there is no victim there should be no crime. The fact that he married her and is still with her is indicative to me that he does not see himself as victimized.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/05/2009 @ 03:40PM PT
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Martin, You said
You've more or less stated, I think, what were our society's stereotypical views of how males and females react to sexual congress. I say "were" because attitudes concerning sex have changed considerably since the 60's, although admittedly not for everyone. As always, the law lags behind.
I assume you were refering to this recent statement by me
You made the point recently that there is disparity in how harshly sex offenders are judged depending on their sex and sex of their alleged victim. U mentioned there is the greater acceptance of adult females with teen boys, and much less for adult males with girls or boys. I have a theory on that. Guys in general see sex experiences with females as a success, and especially so in earlier years as a young man is attempting to develope sexual self confidence. Females on the other hand, whither they 15 or 45, often later regret the experience and feel exploited and used. It's just the way females tend to be. As for boys seduced by a priest etc, I'd guess that is a mixed bag. Some might look on it totally positive, whereas others later might feel shame, guilt and regret. In stating these ideas, I am not saying how harsh these different categories should be dealt with. I am only stating the conditions under which I believe they tend to be viewed and experienced.
I certainly are aware that attitudes toward sex have changed since the 60s. However, I still believe my statements reflect current realities to a large extent. It certainly has not been 40 years or more since I heard a woman maintain that it was a mistake to have got sexually involved with a certain guy. I doubt very much that you could find any men who were seduced by adult females when they were under 18, complaining that they were abused, and it has has a terrible effect on their life. The only exception might be if the guy got vd from her, or her husband beat him up.There is an old saying among guys that "None of it is bad, it's just that some is better than others". I certainly believe that the increase in various laws etc criminalizing more behavior was a reaction to the permissiveness of the 60s, as the Reagan revolution struck back with the drug war and other means of expanding the police state and the prison industrial complex. I believe that these things are always brought about by coalitions between special interests who will gain from such and large segments of the propagandized masses.
Anyway, we agree on the vast majority of the items we are discussing. I just wanted to venture that I believe my statements are still pretty much on the money as to typical differences between males and females.I am not saying there has not been significant changes since the 60s, or that there will not be significant changes in the future. I am only reporting what I have observed. In every case, I ever heard of an underage guy and a woman, it was always to boy's mom who found out and got upset. Most guy's dads would probably think "You lucky little devil, you. I wish I had had such luck."
Peace,
Tom
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/05/2009 @ 04:55PM PT
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Martin, You said
You've more or less stated, I think, what were our society's stereotypical views of how males and females react to sexual congress. I say "were" because attitudes concerning sex have changed considerably since the 60's, although admittedly not for everyone. As always, the law lags behind.
I assume you were refering to this recent statement by me
You made the point recently that there is disparity in how harshly sex offenders are judged depending on their sex and sex of their alleged victim. U mentioned there is the greater acceptance of adult females with teen boys, and much less for adult males with girls or boys. I have a theory on that. Guys in general see sex experiences with females as a success, and especially so in earlier years as a young man is attempting to develope sexual self confidence. Females on the other hand, whither they 15 or 45, often later regret the experience and feel exploited and used. It's just the way females tend to be. As for boys seduced by a priest etc, I'd guess that is a mixed bag. Some might look on it totally positive, whereas others later might feel shame, guilt and regret. In stating these ideas, I am not saying how harsh these different categories should be dealt with. I am only stating the conditions under which I believe they tend to be viewed and experienced.
I certainly are aware that attitudes toward sex have changed since the 60s. However, I still believe my statements reflect current realities to a large extent. It certainly has not been 40 years or more since I heard a woman maintain that it was a mistake to have got sexually involved with a certain guy. I doubt very much that you could find any men who were seduced by adult females when they were under 18, complaining that they were abused, and it has has a terrible effect on their life. The only exception might be if the guy got vd from her, or her husband beat him up.There is an old saying among guys that "None of it is bad, it's just that some is better than others". I certainly believe that the increase in various laws etc criminalizing more behavior was a reaction to the permissiveness of the 60s, as the Reagan revolution struck back with the drug war and other means of expanding the police state and the prison industrial complex. I believe that these things are always brought about by coalitions between special interests who will gain from such and large segments of the propagandized masses.
Anyway, we agree on the vast majority of the items we are discussing. I just wanted to venture that I believe my statements are still pretty much on the money as to typical differences between males and females.I am not saying there has not been significant changes since the 60s, or that there will not be significant changes in the future. I am only reporting what I have observed. In every case, I ever heard of an underage guy and a woman, it was always to boy's mom who found out and got upset. Most guy's dads would probably think "You lucky little devil, you. I wish I had had such luck."
Peace,
Tom
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/05/2009 @ 04:55PM PT
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Hi Tom,
I'm not sure whether you're using the word 'reality' in some absolute sense or referring to the reality of people's sexual prejudices. I presume the latter given your understanding of other cultures different from our own.
While people speak a lot of sexual equality, their application of the principle is often poor. Generally, when someone tells others not to be sexist what they really mean is, "don't be any more or less sexist than I am."
As you point out, mother's of young boys are definitely not keen on the boys' teachers seducing them. So I guess the question is whether the perspective of mothers is more relevant than the boys' peers. As women are front and center of every moral campaign, I believe that the state is currently on the mothers' side.
You are correct in the observation that our society's radical hostility to older men having sex with young girls is in stark contrast to society's views of older women having sex with young boys. Traditionally, a man's seducing a girl has been viewed as a criminal act of exploitation whereas a woman's seducing a boy has been illicitly accepted as 'a little experience and an early eduction.'
I suspect these attitudes are integral, if not necessary, to the 'sexual double standard' in general. I have heard many feminists, sociologists, etc., complain about the sexual double standard as if it were born of some giant conspiracy on the part of men to privilege themselves with more "sexual freedom" than women. These same social experts never mention the fact that society "privileges" women with a more protected and untouchable status. They don't complain about this aspect of the sexual double standard most likely because they subscribe to this aspect of the double standard as in, 'don't f.. k my daughter." ;-)
I am not here to justify or negate people's attitudes one way or the other. Despite my rather pedantic rhetorical acumen, I don't change minds. People will feel as they do and believe as they believe according to their own predilections. Nonetheless, I've heard that if one could peer into one's own future, it would change by that very act. No doubt, the same principle applies when we look into our own prejudices.
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/05/2009 @ 07:05PM PT
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Tom,
I forgot to say though I meant to in the previous post...
The law is moving, however slowly, toward equality and away from disparity in regards to sex. In the case of Mary K. Letourneau and women like her, toward equal intolerance rather than equal tolerance of women and men having sex with minors.
I don't expect this state of affairs will be in sync with everyone's opinions on the matter. Indeed, I think it will be out of sync with traditionalists and libertines alike. :)
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/05/2009 @ 08:03PM PT
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Hey Tom, you are either horribly underinformed or you are one sick puppy.
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2005/11/04/national/main1014623.shtml
Posted by Dennis G. on 12/05/2009 @ 08:34PM PT
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Dennis,
Having studied philosophy, you should know better than most that abusive ad hominem arguments do nothing to further your own position.
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/06/2009 @ 12:07PM PT
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Hey Dennis,
Guys like Hitler and J Edgar Hoover grew powerful by understanding how to manipulate guys like you. You and the type of man as potrayed as Archy Bunker in Norman Lear's All in the Family form the raw material that guys like Hitler could manipulate to a t. Witches, jews, communists, homosexuals, scarlet letter women etc representing all the absolute evils that need to be destroyed. Orwell described it all clearly. Winston Smith was so pleasantly suprised as he found out his new girl friend who he had hated because she yelled the loudest at the Anti-sex league rallies was in reality a nymphomaniac. Jesus Christ took up for the woman taken in sin.
VICTIMLESS CRIME
Jesus Crist was crucified for a victimless crime by the same cats that been in the cross building business since the beginning of time.
Now Pontius Pilate couldnt see anything Jesus had done wrong, but Pontius washed his hands of the matter after he did what was politically expedient to get along.
GROOVY MAN
www.thecoolcat.net
It is interesting how suprised people like Dennis always are when they discover their idols have feet of clay. In the eighties as the Reagan revolution incited the Archy Bunker types into frenzies, the powers talked about just saying No as they shipped in huge quantities of cocaine to LA to fuel the crack epedimic. The gangster rapper emerged as a figure of hip in contrast to the gult ridden uptight white guy, Dennis.But Dennis you show us that Orwell and Norman Lear were not exagerating as they created the image of the extremely non reflective and gult ridden massman.
How to turn a Goddess or God into a Saint
To turn a goddess or a god into a saint,
first you castrate them so the decent folk don't faint.
Next you paint over their realness with Catholic white paint. Then the establishment that killed them will gladly pray to them with no complaint.
Now Jesus turned water to wine,
and he danced, laughed and made love.
And showed the thieves and whores how to be divine.
Of course the Catholic Church insists it was only their future salvation he had in mind.
Now according to Shakespeare,
Joan of Arc was a wild lady,
who loved orgies in the park.
But the Catholic Church originally said her visions were fake,
and burned her sweet ass at the stake.
Five hundred years later, the Catholic Church admitted they made a mistake,
and canonized her a saint.
But when they tried her for sorcery and heresy,
she said she was in contact with God.
The priest laughed as he put the torch to the stake,
saying, "no you ain't".
So if they can't get rid of a rebel by killing.
They pretend that it was really a Catholic way of life, these saints were fulfilling.
So as you can see, the Catholic Church is real cunning and has lots of tricks,
and they've created saints by removing cunts and dicks.
And if in the near future we have another inquisition,
and the establishment kills its enemies to save the world from lust and superstition,
they'd probably kill all the rock stars with a dagger,
and five hundred years later, they'd canonize Saint Jagger.
Groovy man
by the Cool Cat
Posted by tom smith on 12/05/2009 @ 11:49PM PT
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LOL. Archie Bunker? You continue to try to support your arguments by siting television and fictional works of literature. What's next? Comic books? Here is a dose of reality:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVqCloPP9Es&feature=related
Posted by Dennis G. on 12/06/2009 @ 09:53AM PT
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Dennis,
Female sex offenders? This is slap in face to notions of feminine moral superiority!
We went through a similar denial in the 60s. Every "expert' maintained as a matter of fact that 90%+ of all homosexuals were men. The reasoning was simple enough. -- Homosexuality is a sexual perversion. Men are more perverse than women. Ergo, most homosexuals are men.
Then came the women's movement in which, despite more denials to the contrary, lesbians found a place to come out of the closet.
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/06/2009 @ 11:19AM PT
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Martin,
Dennis objects to my use of fictional references as opposed to his citing of mindless propaganda. Since mindless propaganda is allegedly non fiction, I guess I can see his point. All I can say is that I see sex offenders in the same category as drug wars, reduced alcohol levels for determining intoxication, stricter spousal abuse laws etc. Since this propaganda is often as not put out by government agencies, or by private groups seeking government grants; fictional references whither in a novel or a sitcom are the best chance that exists for the artist to poke fun at the squares like Dennis who swallow it and the guys like Bill Bennett, Pat Robertson, Ashcroft etc who feed it. As far as I can see, the people talking garbage about harm being done to horny teenaged males by a woman giving them what they want are pretty much the same types who have over the years tried to tell us that self abuse makes you blind, smoking pot makes you grow tits and become sterile etc. and the US would be greeted as liberators when we invaded Iraq. I'll end with a quote from 1984 to tick Dennis off more. As Winston Smith gradually woke up from his propagandized sleep on a certain day he found himself saying out of the view of the telescreen,"I hate big brother". And to further tick Dennis off I will quote a line from a 60s Dylan song,"Chimes of Freedom Flashing". "And the outcast burning constantly at stake, we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing". I changed my mind and will end with a quote of something that is not at all fictional, the fact that the US has 5% of the world population but 25% of people incarcerated as well as the highest incarceration rate in the world. And all this as the people behind it go on about how they value freedom as long as freedom is limited to attending the Judeochristian church of your choice on Sunday, and some small choice in choosing stocks for IRA.
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/06/2009 @ 01:19PM PT
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When you get a chance- take a look at the posts about SunnyAcresca.com . Human Rights and how we value ourselves plays itself out in the fact that we even allow Homelessness.
The verbal boxing with an unarmed Archie Bunker has gotten old. As much we would wish Archie would wake up and really see whats happening it just wont happen ,or should I say you are throwing your pearls before swine. Good practice but wrong venue if you hope for any transformation.
Posted by Keith Bender on 12/06/2009 @ 02:54PM PT
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Tom said, "As far as I can see, the people talking garbage about harm being done to horny teenaged males by a woman giving them what they want are pretty much the same types who have over the years tried to tell us that self abuse makes you blind, smoking pot makes you grow tits and become sterile etc."
Dear Tom,
As you've pointed out, we fundamentally agree on most every point. While I would not disagree with your opinion's about liaisons between older women and teenage boys, I would not use your arguments to support their acceptance. Suffice it to say, history is on your side. Also, I would not insist that teenage girls in general must suffer a harm the boys do not from the same liaisons with older men..
Nevertheless, I suspect that such liasons will be treated more equally by law enforcement in the future. This will mean that older women will have to be more careful about the age of the young men they might have sex with i.e. women's sexual freedoms will be limited to those of men regarding youth.
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/10/2009 @ 05:46PM PT
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Martin,
I like to refer to the boys seduced by women just to show the absurbidity of current laws and enforcement. Fifty years ago or so in some small towns, church ladies might wag fingers at some woman messing with teenaged boys, but it was unlikely that criminal action would be taken.Whither they are 16 or 36,females will often tend to swing back and forth between attraction and regret toward boyfriends. So they are much more likely to later blame some older guy for an affair, that at the time they enjoyed and embraced. At the time of our nation's founding, I read the age of consent was 10. By nature, the police state will tend to continually push to criminalize more mainstream behavior, whither by raising the age of consent, or lowering alcohol levels to determine DUI. You have some shrewd lobbyists representing these police state and prison complex agendas, and they take their drafts to shady congressmen with big political contributions and other goodys and they have also worked with groups of simpletons like some we see here, and they continually criminalize more behavior.
I have read recently of several cases of 15 year old girls being prosecuted for distributing child porno when the girls sent topless photos of themselves online or phone etc. DAs are as sociopathic as car jackers, just a hell of a lot more prudent. Hell, I wouldn't put it past some of these DAs to try to charge a 15 year old girl on a child molestation charge for masturbating.
FREEWORLD
Where in the hell is the free world?
It sure in the the hell ain't here.
This is the kind of place where you can get popped for riding around in your own car with an open bottle of beer.
Our ancestors came to America, because they wanted to be free; but the America of their descendants has become more and more just another Goddamned police state, not a hell of a lot different than Red China or Iran, as far as I can see.
It wouldn't suprise me if they made a law making it illegal to take a pee.
And I can just imagine some bogus politician answering a question on tv, saying,"My opponent urinates frequently, but NEVER me."
Groovy man
by the Cool Cat
www.thecoolcat.net
Peace,
Tom
Posted by tom smith on 12/10/2009 @ 08:33PM PT
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Have you looked at the Dec 7th post by Shannon about Human Rights?
Posted by Keith Bender on 12/10/2009 @ 09:40PM PT
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Again, I agree with your sentiments though my arguments would be different. As for the behavior of young girls or women in general, much if it would seem incompatible with women's claims to "sexual equality." ;-)
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/14/2009 @ 10:53AM PT
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I don't believe that sex offenders, no matter what gender, should be allowed in family shelters. Period. Sex offenders have been known to repeat their crimes. I do know that that doesn't always apply to every sex offender. The bottom line is, if you want to be treated like everybody else, don't commit crimes. No more excuses! If you want to commit a sex-crime (or ANY crime), be prepared to face the consequences, including sleeping in the cold.
Posted by Katy Stephens on 12/14/2009 @ 05:32AM PT
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I fear the spirit in which you judge corrupts your sense of justice.
Posted by Martin Bring on 12/14/2009 @ 10:38AM PT
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People who are labeled for various reasons "sex offenders" need a place to go if they are homeless. More staff, strict rules, and government financial support could reduce risk at a shelter to "0."
Posted by Dr. John Lamb on 12/16/2009 @ 09:28AM PT
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somethings you just have to let die out leave by the way side and then it becomes extinct no longer around people who take advantage of younger children now there being displace and they should nobody will not persuade my thoughts anybody thats touches a child in that manner should recieve death i am perplex why there still breathing less alone homeless
Posted by Ryan Bowlin on 12/19/2009 @ 01:42AM PT
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Ryan, I am a little confused by your post above, maybe some punctuations might help out. Are you saying that if you just let sex offenders die, then there would no longer be sex offenders? I don't believe that to be true, as stated above people have been having sex with children since before the Roman Empire. Granted it was accepted then and not now, but I don't believe that a "survival of the fittest" mentality really fits in with this issue. You state that "anybody thats touches a child in that manner should recieve death i am perplex why there still breathing less alone homeless" so what about the drunk driver who kills an entire family, or a murderer who makes orphans out of little kids - most staes only lock people like that away for 25 years and call it a "life" sentence. I don't think you are thinking clearly if you really want to take that stance. Call me old fashionedd, but I still believe in the old "eye for an eye" addage, and believe a murderer should be put to death and why not have sex offenders be put through the exact same thing they were found guilty of? That MAY stop some of them, but some of them may just enjoy it. I am no politician, doctor, psychologist, or anything else but I do believe that just saying "kill them all" is the wrong attitude and maybe our society should debate a better way of handling sex offenders who are "high risk/category3" or whatever they want to classify them as.
Posted by Raymond Simms on 12/19/2009 @ 08:45AM PT
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Let's define "Sex Offender". Someone who falls under the umbrella of "Statuatory Rape" in my opinion is NOT a sex offender. Although under age, they are not pubsecent and often than not both partners are willing.
A rapist belongs behind bars and should not be on the streets.
A pedophile belongs behind bars and should not be on the streets.
Why are they on the streets? They are supposed to be supervised and in their "halfway house" or facility by a certain time.
This needs further investigation.
Posted by Lyndsey Price on 12/19/2009 @ 03:52PM PT
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Lyndsey, those may be the law in your state, but in California there is absolutely no halfway house requirement. Anyone who commits a crime serves their sentence and goes on probation. During the probation they may or may not be required to wear an ankle bracelet. But they can classify you a sex offender for having one pic of a 17 year old girl, for statutory rape, or many other crimes where people on this post have considered for debate. Any time you are convictedd or plead guilty you then must be on the Megan's Law website AND follow the rules of Jessica's law. I know some states have thrown out Jessica's law because they found it does NOTHING to help protect children, but rather makes it harder for a person trying to bring their life on the right track because if they do not find housing within a certain amount of time then they are in violation of their parole. Can anyone tell me how hard it is to find a place to live in San Francisco, or Los Angeles that is not within 2,000 feet of a school, park, or anyplace where children may congregate? Just some thoughts to bring to light and re emphasize a past point that these laws vary way too much state to state and maybe some federal guidelines may help a little more- but then again the feds never make life any easier for anyone to understand the laws either.
Posted by Raymond Simms on 12/19/2009 @ 08:15PM PT
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The USA has a double standard. Everything you like may be "illegal, immoral and fattening" but all this and heaven too will be thrown at you by Madison Ave, Stimulating Porno and Internet Sites, Girls in minis and heels on the street, etc. You are supposed to resist temptation. Our country was founded on a Puritan Ethic but throughout time we come to realize that such ethics are good for "samplers hung in grandma's kitchen" and on Hallmark cards. Issue: Mary Kay LeTourneau. Her boyfriend even at aged 13 was a man who developed in another culture. His mother liked May Kay. She approved of the relationship. He was not raised a mallrat, or a skateboard junkie. He became a man the way males became men before the "teenager" was invented in the 1950's. They were in love, and their love has lasted a lot longer than many marriages with couples who are like matched mules - same age bracket, profession, same religious upbringing, etc. I think they should have been more discreet. She is not a sex offender. End of story. Sex offenders, who often become murderers, belong in one place. PRISON. There should be no probation or parole. They cannot live in society until a cure is found. They should not be homeless, but incarcerated or institutionalized. No halfway house, no ankle bracelet. INCARCERATION. That would solve the problem. What wouldn't solve the problem is an unidentified sex offender whose crimes have not been reported or his never getting caught. Then you have a problem. What does a sex offender look like? What does a murderer look like? What does a bank robber look like? What does a carjacker look like? The majority of the population is fooled every day of their life by the people who pass by them in the street. The bottom line is, you know nothing about anybody.
Posted by Lyndsey Price on 12/20/2009 @ 06:33PM PT
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Totally and absolutely - a "resounding no!" put them in an abandoned warehouse-an old building! ANYWHERE!!!! but near children-"NO WAY!!!!! NOT IN A MILLION YEARS!!!!!"
Posted by Cynthia Cuomo on 12/23/2009 @ 02:47PM PT
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Totally and absolutely - a "resounding no!" put them in an abandoned warehouse-an old building! ANYWHERE!!!! but near children-"NO WAY!!!!! NOT IN A MILLION YEARS!!!!!"
Posted by Cynthia Cuomo on 12/23/2009 @ 02:47PM PT
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Totally and absolutely - a "resounding no!" put them in an abandoned warehouse-an old building! ANYWHERE!!!! but near children-"NO WAY!!!!! NOT IN A MILLION YEARS!!!!!"
Posted by Cynthia Cuomo on 12/23/2009 @ 02:48PM PT
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What should be banished is that unconstitutional sex offender registry.
Posted by Joel Steele on 12/25/2009 @ 08:22AM PT
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